A lot of women like me. I am tall and good looking. I dress well and smell good.
But I'm on the spectrum. I'm a weirdo. I hate social interactions. I am not good with people. In social settings I am that weird guy who is really friendly and nice. People are nice to me but they understand that I am not normal.
Women approach me. They ask me out. They don't realize that something is wrong with me until they realize I am frozen in fear or that I'm awkward or shy or quiet or whatever.
I feel like no woman wants a man like that truly. They may see me as attractive at first but ultimately it is a massive downgrade for a woman to settle for a guy like me.
There is no me working on my social skills and becoming a social wizard. I have. Massively. For many many years and I have improved massively too.
Despite all of that at the end of the day I'm still that quiet shy weird guy who gets nervous around people. I can't understand people. I don't know how they can act the way they do.
I feel like if I were to pursue a relationship, ultimately I am just trapping some poor girl into a relationship with a shy quiet man that no woman truly wants.
No woman wants a man with no friends. No woman wants a man who lacks social skills. Men don't care but women do and so therefore i am kind of out of the game forever.
But I'm on the spectrum. I'm a weirdo. I hate social interactions. I am not good with people. In social settings I am that weird guy who is really friendly and nice. People are nice to me but they understand that I am not normal.
Women approach me. They ask me out. They don't realize that something is wrong with me until they realize I am frozen in fear or that I'm awkward or shy or quiet or whatever.
I feel like no woman wants a man like that truly. They may see me as attractive at first but ultimately it is a massive downgrade for a woman to settle for a guy like me.
There is no me working on my social skills and becoming a social wizard. I have. Massively. For many many years and I have improved massively too.
Despite all of that at the end of the day I'm still that quiet shy weird guy who gets nervous around people. I can't understand people. I don't know how they can act the way they do.
I feel like if I were to pursue a relationship, ultimately I am just trapping some poor girl into a relationship with a shy quiet man that no woman truly wants.
No woman wants a man with no friends. No woman wants a man who lacks social skills. Men don't care but women do and so therefore i am kind of out of the game forever.
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It does not matter they will like you. They ask you out because show them parts of yourself that is human. Even if you are a weirdo she will still like, but you have to be brave and take her up on her offer.
It's hard because I have tried to be brave. When I do, I shake. My lips quiver.
Once the girls see that their attitude changes and they want to get away from me.
Find a nice attractive girl who is also on the spectrum. There may be sites out there to find a girl like that for you.
There's one called autistic dating. Others called Undateables, Luv2meetu, and Hiki app.
Damn how did I never think of that? They have dating sites for frigging people with STDs and I couldn't think of this myself lmao.
Thank you I will definitely give some of these sites a try!
You're so welcome! Good luck!
are you saying you never had a girlfriend?