Search Results: shy about asking

How to get guys to buy me gifts?

I want to be spoiled but I feel shy asking him for stuff. It might put him off … I don’t know hehe

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does she likes me? What should I do?

I've been talking to a girl for a few months now, she followed me on instagram and i followed her back. We are talking like once every two weeks, and i can say that she is kinda shy. Since then i noted some things: She...

m0rango6266

Xper 1 Age: 28

Is it normal to go on 3 dates then be official?

Asking cuz he's not my boyfriend (23) yet and im told its odd to go on 3 dates then be official. I (19) think its normal tho. We met at work. Then at a Christmas party at work he asked for my phone and put his number in....

MailyMartinez

Xper 3 Age: 22

Education & Career

Are shy people in the workplace seen as not proactive enough even if their performance and competence is great?

As a recent college graduate I Often struggle with asking questions and voicing my opinions at work because I lack the expertise of most of my coworkers who have decades of industry experience and also I don’t want to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

As a recent college graduate I Often struggle with asking questions and voicing my opinions at work because I lack the expertise of most of my coworkers who have decades of industry

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Flirting

Did I accidentally say something inappropriate?

I had a meeting with my boss over a week ago and she brought up when we were asking each other how we have been etc. About how she was trying to lose weight and was on a diet and went into why. We chatted and it felt like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, why is this girl shy/quiet around me?

I’ve taken an interest in this girl. She’s cute, beautiful, smart, and fun to be around. But i can’t help but notice the moments we have together. For instance we’ll play video games together just me and her but whenever...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he a stalker or just shy?

A guy from my class messaged me on the college app where students submit their assignments. He asked if I would like to hang out after class and inquired about why I had missed a class. I responded by asking who he was...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Flirting

How to act normal around coworker I've started to fancy?

I didn't find him attractive at all at first but the more we talked, the more I've started liking him and now it got to the point where I'm even hesitant to ask him some work-related questions and have hard time trying...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I’m in my mid-20s a man who looks like he’s in his late 30s (a cashier) stares and smiles intently all the time when in the store. what does it mean?

I’m an Indian living in a different country. I visit the Indian grocery store at least once a week, I shop alone or with my roommate. It’s been a couple of months since I noticed this. This cashier keeps looking and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can I know if this girl is interested or just friendly in class?

- She usually initiates the conversations asking me questions, and doesn't shy away from talking a lot. We can talk for a long time in the lesson without issue. Some questions are things like how was your weekend, what...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Asking a Guy if he wants to gym-buddy with me?

I've been going to the gym pretty constantly since last year, and at first, I was going with my brother, because I found having someone I know there grounds me. I have a lot of social anxiety and self-consciousness. Since...

AmyHew1tt

Xper 7 Age: 21

How do I get my parents to stop asking me about my dating life?

I’m 30 and have never had a girlfriend. My parents keep putting pressure on me to marry. They tell me they want grandkids. They also tell me it’s ok if I’m gay. I’m not (not that there’s anything wrong with it). I’m just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do boys want girl to make the first move?

At my job , it’s kinda like a highschool , everyone has a boyfriend or girlfriend at the job and arrive and leave the job together in same car , I’ve had many guys crush on me, and they don’t initiate talk to you....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Saturday we were talking and I asked her for her number mid conversation she sent me her number and we kept talking today it was weird?

Saturday we were talking and I asked her for her number mid conversation she sent me her number and we kept talking for a while but today school started and it was really weird she didn’t look at me at all like and the...

Jaxxx007

Xper 2 Age: 19

Why he always hold eye contact I always caught him staring at me and also didn't look away until I do and when I do he also look away?

He protective, sometime caring towards me. Always talk to me in soft low voice. He talk other girls in normal or loud voice when he talk to them always look at me with a smile sometime with teasing one but i ignore. We...

Anonymous

(18-24)

If girl tries to keep the conversation going?

I approached my crush at work yesterday when she wasn't busy. I asked something then added a comment. Though she is a shy girl, she surprised by asking an unrelated question, then shortly after that another question about...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I slept with my best friends brother how do I make up excuses to avoid him?

I feel so ashamed of myself and embarrassed I don't know what I was thinking. I've been bestie with this girl for about a year now but it feels like we've known each other a lot longer. She's such a good person and she's...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

How common/normal it is to touch friends of opposite gender, like maybe when you are working out together or just holding hands in crowded places?

I'm an introvert and very shy so I usually don't like lot of touching in general. But I seen reels and few pics on insta where most people are okay with dancing together where the guy even picks up a girl in his arm or...

Anonymous

(25-29)