I'm an introvert and very shy so I usually don't like lot of touching in general. But I seen reels and few pics on insta where most people are okay with dancing together where the guy even picks up a girl in his arm or touches her butt.
I am asking this stupid question because I am new to gym, there I met a guy who I was friends with when I was in college. He offered me his help and I agreed. Now, on Monday he grabbed my waist when I was doing pull up and told me "I am giving you little support, do 5 this time.
After completing my set I politely told him not to touch me again like that. Since that day, he's avoiding me completely. Yesterday, I went to him and initiated a conversation asking him random silly questions and he was just giving me one word answers while doing this workout. I asked him if he likes to workout alone and he said yes and that he only wanted to help me as I don't know anything about workout and how to use machines.
After a bit of annoyance I asked him for his help and he just said "You have learned all the basics if you want I can share some youtube videos with you." I just thanked him and left.
I shared this with my bestie and she said that I made him feel like a creep and perv and that he will never talk to me again.
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