Search Results: too shy to look at him

I’ve never actually had a conversation with him before and I only know him by name. He works in another department and works mostly remotely, I’d say once a month him and his colleagues are on site.

- First time I noticed him properly, he turned his head in my direction and smiled at me from quite a distance away

- I was sat eating lunch with a friend and he walked past with some colleagues. I looked up and he looked at me, we made eye contact for a few seconds as he walked past (he didn’t smile)

- When walking through a corridor he came towards me and he smiled and said hello. I scuttled off because I’m quite a shy person!

- I went for a walk up the hill at lunch time and he was with his department colleagues. They were coming down the hill and I was walking towards them. I noticed him staring at me from quite a distance away. When we got closer he smiled and said hi.

- I was chatting with one of the baristas at work who was talking about backache. She made a joke about me having backache because of my boobs. We were then having a joke about my boobs and I didn’t realise at the time, but the guy was around the corner grabbing some food. When I walked away and looked behind, he was staring and smiling at me, clearly having heard the whole conversation.

He is one of those guys who is so good looking that they are intimidating to me haha. So I’m way too shy to strike up a conversation.

Why would he do that and act nervous/shy afterwards. It seems like he’s a little bit scared of me or maybe I intimidate him with my confidence?

I made a joke about having sexy thoughts about him and looked at his crotch a bit, and he just looked down, went red and laughed, he seemed a bit intimidated.

I wasn’t trying to make him uncomfortable or be too forward.

He’s in his 40’s and recently divorced.