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I’m 6’3 (190cm) and I weight 230lbs (105kg).
I’m ONLY attracted to SHORT petite sweet pretty women, so why every time I approach one at the bar or at the cafe, they ALL seem at first terrified? and then, they’re completely shocked and surprised I’m into them? They all keep saying the same thing:
“You’re so tall! I thought you might be more into tall women!” NO, all my ex girlfriend were not taller than 5’3!!
I always love to hold them and make them feel protected, loved and sexually wanted.
So why is this a big surprise? Isn’t it really abnormal for a tall man to be into short women?

Pretty much as stated. Often get told I'm cute or handsome but zero luck on apps. Not really a bar goer either so it may be cold
approach for me
Anyway, I need honesty here, 5'10 for height. 150lbs for weight, very lean and run a lot but committing more to upper body strength training.

(Excluding 10 option because I most
definitely am not that 😂)

And if you’re a woman would I be dateable to you based on the looks side of things at least?

I went through this about 10 years ago. My then 25 year old girlfriend made more than me when I was 32. But at the time I was pursuing a dream (I was a professional athlete) and I my time was consumed with training. I was no dead beat but I just had a different focus at the time.

I was doing freelance work just to pay the bills and I was struggling. She even offered me money at one time (which extremely kind of her) but it I turned it down out of pride and went further in debt.

Anyway the insecurity was on my side when it can to this (also contributed to our break up). She didn’t care but I did. It had a lot to with being raised to “be a man” when it came to being a breadwinner.

Nowadays I make a lot more money given I’m retired from my sport and have full focus on my career. But I am also a lot more “boring” now since I’m no longer the free wheeling adventurer I once was.

But money is a touchy issue. Form a evolutionary perspective I really do believe most women still subconsciously expect a man to provide for them even it’s unnecessary or impractical. They might get into short term flings with guys who offer other benefits (looks, excitement, adventurer, personality, etc) but when it comes to long term commitments they have a much higher bar on this

I also believe when a woman makes more money then her boyfriend/husband she’s more prone to cheating. Especially if she is comparable to him when it comes to looks (maybe she will stay loyal if she’s physically unattractive compared to him)

In fact I believe it’s unfairly more socially “acceptable” for a woman to do this given the guy is considered a “chump” if he is financial dependent on her. More more acceptable then vice versa.

I have a divorced uncle who worked a low paying his entire life and was supported by his (comparably) rich wife. She was no multi millionaire but she earned a lot more than him.

She ended up cheating on him the entire marriage. He tolerated it because they had kids and he needed support.