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I need advice from you to help me decide who is the right man for me. I grew up innocent without any knowledge and much experience with men because my parents are strict. I just got out of my parents' hands this year, now that I am 27. I met two guys in my life.

I know Daniel, a year ago, on a dating site. At first, he was very persistent towards me. I didn't like him at first because he is too old for me but he was serious by calling me every day, being there when I was depressed, and, giving food and gifts as a surprise. However, after 7 months, I'd noticed on his Facebook, that I was not the only foreign girl he added, and gave a flower to another girl who he met online with a letter saying "Smile, it is another day." I got mad and the girl stayed away from Daniel. After that event, he doesn't care about me anymore, no calls, no gifts. He always punishes me by not talking to me for one to three months. He even accused me of wanting him for money or a visa even if it was not even true.

Due to my anger that Daniel didn't talk to me for 2 months. I went back to the dating site and I met Kostas. He is very interested in me and even wants to meet me even just after 3 weeks. He flew to visit me because I rebelled against Daniel's abandonment. I did sleep with him. Kostas was really kind to me online, but when I met him, I realized he cannot really treat me right. He got fed off of my problems and, worse, he left me at the mall alone and threw my stuff because I didn't want to follow what he wants. But after a day, he apologised to me. If we ever have a disagreement or fight, he is willing to communicate through it. Unlike Daniel, he had to punish me first by not talking for one to two months. Or worse, more months.

Please advise me, who should I choose and marry? Or what should I do?

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Now I know that the Internet is not the place to be soliciting medical advice but I wanted to get your opinions before I speak to a professional.

Here are some symptoms that I've observed in myself

Family members not tidying up after themselves causes me distress and results in me being moody and aggressive towards them

Its gotten to the point where I prefer to cook now not because I enjoy it but because I know that if anyone else in the house cooks, they will leave mess.

I get anxiety when someone touches my phone or personal belongs

I'm constantly disinfecting my phone screen with antibacterial wipes. I'd say I use at least two wipes a day.

I rip out strands of my hair that have touched my mouth area

I shower twice a day morning and night (can't sleep in my own bed unless I've showered)

I used to shower everytime I used the toilet but recently this habit has mellowed down and I don't do it as often

Can't touch the tv remotes at a family members house unless it's been disinfected with a wipe first

I would wash my hands repeatedly until they were cracked, dry and bleeding. But I have started to work on this and it's not as big as a problem as it used to be. But handwashing is still an essential part of my day for me.

Seeing items in the house that are out of place and not as I left them brings me anxiety and as a result causes anger