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So i like this dude and for some context, he broke up with his ex girlfriend in like mid-july and his relationship had been pretty much dangling since like mid-june (his ex girlfriend had been ghosting him basically). anyways so this month he started make flirty jokes to me, sometimes saying jk, sometimes not. after breaking up with his girlfriend, he has been doing it slightly more. i mean he doesn't ALWAYS do it like 24/7 but like he definitely does it. im confused of what to think of this situation. he isn't the player type i know that. he had like only 2 ex gfs, the first one cheated on him and the second ghosted him till they broke up and she still ghosted him. also keep in mind he is 14 and so am i, and he isn't the clever kind. anyways not sure what to think of this situation. he could be joking or not. feel free to ask in the comments about his behaviour or anymore things about him.

So i like this dude and for some context, he broke up with his ex girlfriend in like mid-july and his relationship had been pretty much dangling since like mid-june (his exgf had been ghosting him basically). anyways so this month he started make flirty jokes to me, sometimes saying jk, sometimes not. after breaking up with his girlfriend, he has been doing it slightly more. i mean he doesn't ALWAYS do it like 24/7 but like he definitely does it. im confuaed of what to think of this situation. he isn't the player type i know that. he had like only 2 ex gfs, the first one cheated on him and the second ghosted him till they broke up and she still ghosted him. also keep in mind he is 14 and so am i, and he isn't the clever kind. anyways not sure what to think of this situation. he could be joking or not. feel free to ask in the comments about his behaviour or anymore things.

My ex and I went through a lot of fights. Regardless, we managed to make it work because of our strong emotions. Just before our breakup, it reached a point to where he was calling me names and bringing up my family, basically no respect left on his part & coming at me for little things like me saying “thanks” instead of “thank you.” I blew up on him eventually & mentally checked out. 1 day we got into a fight and he said he’d block me (something he does when he’s mad). I then accepted some requests from guys- i was really mad-on social media (didn’t message them and deleted them later. He found out and hell broke and also found platonic msgs between a male friend I’ve known for 5 years. Those msgs included funny memes. I stopped being friends w/ this guy for him. He asked to check my phone, I didn’t agree because he should trust me & wouldn’t want him to think it’s ok to check my phone whenever he feels the need in the future. We ended up breaking up. We kinda kept in touch though to reconcile. Weeks turned into months leading up to us meeting in person. As we were chatting, he told me his expectations which included he checks my phone, I agreed. Then he asks to see my male followers to ask how I know them. I told him some are friends (since HS) and he didn’t like that. He said he doesn’t like his girlfriend to have male friends & I should take off whoever he doesn’t like. I had a reaction and didn’t let him check my phone so ofc he had major issues. We never got back together but now we’re surfacing the relationship again he told me of the same expectations. I’m really conflicted and don’t know if getting back with given expectations are normal or not. Is getting back a good idea?