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According to an article written by Katya Koval, several men stated that they no longer approach women due to the following:

“Women want to be approached. But if you approach them and they don’t like you or think you’re attractive enough, you will be called a creep.” — Jake.

Roberto, 42 years old and single, was asked why he didn’t dare approach women. He replied, “I have never gotten a clear signal from a woman. My female friends have pointed out positive body language as signals, but they are too ambiguous for me to act on.”

Kane, 35 years old and single, shares, “I don’t approach women anymore because it’s too tedious with little chance of payoff. It’s either they ignore you, reject you, shame you, or, worse, accuse you of molestation. If a woman likes me, she should make an effort to approach me.”

Mel, 29 years old, shares, “Women demanding men to chase them while they never approach men themselves is what you could call ‘entitlement.’ I don’t mean that women should start asking men out, but just approaching us to talk would be nice. For women who want equality: If he doesn’t approach you, approach him.”

Evi, 23 years old, claims “It’s easier to get women and land a date online than cold approaching them. I’m currently in College and our campus consists of 80% women. It’s not necessary to approach women anymore.”

Nathan, 22 years old, admits, “It’s mainly the negative consequences that’s stopping me. It’s scary when you hear stories about guys and fake accusations on campus. I worked hard to get into College. I’m not going to risk getting expelled for something I didn’t do.”

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I feel like I am not that good at it especially when it's a stranger but once I get to know a guy, it starts to come out a bit.

Like last night, I sent a really suggestive song with a 😘 emoji to him and he sent one back with 😜😉 emojis.

In person, I suck at it though. I'm only kind of good at it through text which is kind of sad lol

I would say I'm a playful flirt.

So do you know how to flirt? What's your flirting style like?

There are 5.

Polite-a respectful and considerate approach to expressing interest and building rapport.

Playful-use teasing or humor to show interest.

Physical-uses body language and physical touch to express interest.

Traditional-involves the man taking the lead in initiating contact and expressing interest, while the woman responds to his advances.

Sincere-focuses on creating an emotional connection and building a meaningful relationship.