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Hello,

I (19M) have a kinda hot TA in her mid-40s in one of my community college classes. She has big breasts, and altough she covers well, its still tough to focus on the lesson. This week, she was really acting all annoyed and fussy. All my classmates were saying they don't really understand whats happening with her.

Yesterday, she decided she would not allow us to have our notes during the final exam and she had discussed that with the professor, and when students started arguing, she told everyone to shush. I then told her she would be prettier if she smiled. She told me to come up front and say that again. So I went up and said it again. She told me she will call the college to complain about me if I continued any such behavior. I said it's a joke.

I then asked her if its that time of the month, and the class started laughing. The TA turned and slapped me across the face. I then got angry because she used violence and I decided to go at her, push her and punch her. As I was pushing her, she grabbed me by the groin through my jeans 👖and started squeezing. She squeezed so hard I had to stop pushing her and I was begging for her to stop. She stopped and released me on the floor in front of the blackboard.

I was in so much pain. When I stood back up again, she told me I better never talk to women like that again and try to hurt them. She said I'm lucky she won't report me.

The students were laughing and I stayed on the ground like 10 minutes, during that time she continued her lesson normally, stepping over me to teach. She kept saying how sexual harassment was against the college rules and pig like me deserved this and bla bla bla.

Now I'm thinking I want to sue her, should I? She made fun of me infront of everyone, caused me pain for a few days where it would hurt whenever I touched down there.

Who knows if she caused damage

What do you think?

Now I want you think of the person that wronged you the most personally and ask yourself, can you forgive them?

I haven’t really opened up to a lot of people about this but select few people know about this. The past 7 months ( from January to July), I was promoted in the company at the same time my division gained a new boss. This boss was incredibly lazy which forced me to do all of the work while he played games on his phone and barely did anything, he repeatedly committed multiple sexual harassment statements and jokes towards me and the one woman in the office, etc etc etc.

Long story short when I left the company , the rest of the company learned that he didn’t know anything about the job and it was obvious to everyone within the company and the clients that I was doing all of the work and it’s completely falling apart. Now the hatred in me was happy to hear this ( which is still an ongoing issue). So even though karma is kicking his ass, I think about the family he has that’s about to lose their income when he’s fired ( I’ve met his kids and helped watched them and helped them with their homework at my job).

So now I’m forgiving him and I honestly wish you to find that happiness/ serenity to forgive whoever wronged you personally. Let me hear your story.

Just to reiterate there is zero risk a male boss would never do anything unprofessional.