Search Results: should i tell the guy i like him

Does my crush at work like me?

I have a crush on a guy that I work with. I think we have great chemistry. We have similar interests and we work well together. We’re both introverted but I would say I’m a bit more expressive and he’s more reserved with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I stop talking to a guy if he has a toxic ex?

I’ve been talking to this guy for like a month and we went out on a date. And I had a really good time but then at night his ex girlfriend made an account and wrote my name in the bio saying that this boy I went on a date...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Should I let my guy friend live with me?

I was laying down resting and all of a sudden, my guy friend texted me and asked me if he could stay with me for a while (this happened before) and I didn’t answer until now. He asked me to call him. So I did a half hour...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Should I make an obvious move or will it backfire?

there's a guy who works a different shift. We happened to work the same shift once and he introduced himself. His name is Michael. He came by our job a few weeks back after the standard work party which I couldn’t go...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My guy friend of 3+ years is being super confusing, what should I do?

I have this close guy friend ( we have know eachother since middle school and we are sophmores) and about a few months ago we started to text (it was initally for me to give him info on club meetings he was missing) but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, If a woman has never had a relationship at age 35, when is the right time to tell you while dating and is it a red flag?

I know, for some, this would seem a little strange (truthfully, I just haven't wanted to date much until this point). I'm guessing some guys would want to know relatively early in the dating stage. When should I mention...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Please, does anyone have any guidance or advice? The pain is just too much?

so before anything I am currently 48 years old and I have been through therapy since grade school as well as medication’s, and everything just seems to be getting worse. The big thing that scares me and worries me and...

Dbman99

Xper 2 Age: 48

Is he still into me help😬?

Ok so I went on a second date with this guy. He always texts me everyday and asks me questions about my day etc. he was super nervous the first date. The second date he didn’t seem as nervous which makes sense. We had a...

ivydavis

Xper 5 Age: 23

Why do most black women refuse or won’t date outside of their race?

I have a friend that I’ve known since 6th grade. She’s funny, intelligent, beautiful, witty and kindhearted. Great friends, family but no boyfriend. She’s dated a while back but she only dates black men. I understand most...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Befriended hot girl, what do I do now?

So I befriended a beautiful woman…unintentionally. I’m in charge of supply ordering and stocking at my job and so happen to stock her department. Many times, she has been alone when I get there, which lead us to talking...

Anonymous

(36-45)

A a coworker that I’m no longer cool with told a mutual friend that another coworker stated that I’m obsessed with him. What should I do?

This other female coworker and I used to be cool, but fell out since she thought I wasn’t a good person to her for (feeling too sick to come to her dinner in the cold rain and ever since then she’s been holding a grudge...

Ccmama

Xper 6 Age: 28

Break Up & Divorce

I found out that he is married, do I confront him or just block him?

I recently fell for this guy. He was everything that I wanted and so much more. I felt so lucky to be with him. We have been dating for a month and he told me that he was going on vacation since work has been stressful. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Guys, how would you feel if you abandoned your biological child?

So you had sex/hookup or been having a fling with a girl your not serious about and don’t consider a wife or find attractive enough She gets pregnant from that hookup or fling. You tell her at the start you won’t be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think im a terrible person for what I've done?

So in July of 2024, I was driving by the beach where its 5 mph. Someone behind me got impatient and drove off the road and drove around me at about 20 mph and almost hit a family, because there are camping spaces over to...

Nicholas1302

Xper 5 Age: 32

Travel

Should I travel with him to Korea if we’ve haven’t met in person yet?

I’ve been talking to this guy online since 2023. He was in the same country when we met online on whisper app then a storm came. We still kept in contact and he wanted to meet up for dinner but back then I wasn’t able to....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it wrong that I apologized to this pastor after a guy tried to start an argument with him?

So im not religious. I have a lot of questions about the Bible. So a few days ago I walked outside Walmart with my Rockstar. This guy told me they are really bad for me. I agreed because I know he's right. He went on to...

Nicholas1302

Xper 5 Age: 32

Is conservative love bombing a red flag?

So the new fella I’m about to see is very into what seems like flattery. Everything is “an honor”. It will be an honor to see me … to sit with me … to hold my paperclips … (Sorry, I’m exaggerating a little, but there are...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Would you forgive him for texting his ex behind your back?

When I first started dating my boyfriend, he had told me he had been cheated on (he caught his ex in their bed w another dude) and was traumatized by it. He had this girl in his phone who kept texting him named Victoria,...

Anonymous

(30-35)