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Does my long distance guy friend secretly like me back?
I’m not sure if he likes me back, recently me and my friend came up with this theory that he likes me because he’s always calling and wanting to play with me and he’s a bit nicer to me than he is my friend (we’re in a...
Anonymous
(25-29) What does it mean when a married woman keeps asking me if I would save her or protect her?
OK, this is a weird one (to me). And I really can't figure it out. There's this married woman who is openly obsessed with me and has been for about 2 years. She's been curious about me longer than that most likely because...
OneViewpoint
Guru Age: 60 When a guy says 'take care of yourself,' does he actually like me?
For context, He’s someone I met in college. he always stares at me either long glances at me or when I’m not looking, he says my name frequently in conversation, makes jokes with me a lot, & always near me a lot. Anyways,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it normal to expect expensive gifts while refusing commitment?
I have went on 6 dates with a girl over 3 weeks. on the 5th date she showed me pics of a ring and asked me to go to the mall where that store is since my workplace is near there. Next day i went, sent her pics, and she...
Anonymous
(25-29) He kept looking at me even though he was talking to someone else?
I have a crush on this guy. So timeline: two weeks ago he was extremely awful and mean to me when i came to see him. Asked why I was there and was just being an asshole in general. Then a week after this we spoke and he...
Anonymous
(25-29) Anonymous
(18-24) Guys, do you remember when men used to exit the car during traffic stops?
It was brought to my attention, that pre 1990's, if the police pulled you over, the male drivers usually exited their vehicles and walked back to the police car, without being asked. I guess it was pretty much the way it...
Twodogs0525
Xper 7 Age: 27 Have you ever rejected someone you actually liked and then regretted it?
So there is a tennis academy next to my workplace and I already dated one tennis coach from there, very hot one haha. We are neighbors Then, couple of months ago another of his coworker met me and asked my number , but I...
Is it okay to message my college crush for support after my mom died?
I’ve asked others here if it seems like he has a crush on me. This guy I go to college with. He definitely stares at me a lot (like long gazes) even when I didn’t notice him at first but then I do, seems to be near me a...
Anonymous
(30-35) What subtle green flags show someone is a keeper, and which red flags are real dealbreakers?
Hey everyone. I'm a 19-year-old guy. I grew up in a house full of brothers, so I feel like I'm learning about women from scratch. I've been in a long-distance relationship with my girlfriend (18F) for about a year....
devonsix6
Xper 1 Age: 20 Is it just blatantly obvious that he doesn’t care about me or is there possibly another reason?
I dated this guy for 6 months. We’re family friends, so it wasn’t casual. He’s been under a lot of pressure the whole time. He’s building a company, working 12-hour days, constantly dealing with investors and stress....
Anonymous
(18-24) Is he just busy and hurting, or actually not interested in me?
Exchanged #'s with a guy I'd see around. We texted for over a week. He said he's desperate for connection and having trouble making friends. I invited him to an event. He said he could make himself available". OK I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it normal for people to want to date just for sex at this time?
I met up with a guy I’d met on social media; we were supposed to meet months ago, but the timing didn’t work, so I had to cancel a few hours before the date, and he completely blocked me. A few weeks ago he got in touch...
Carina0
Xper 5 Age: 22 Is it easier to find a good girl or a good guy?
My friends girlfriend is saying it's easier for men to find a good woman than it is for a woman to find a good guy. And now everyone is arguing 😂 I thought it was kinda funny this came up at my friend's birthday after I...
Mixed signals from a guy friend after rejection and breakup—does he like me?
Okay , so I used to like this guy, and I got his number. We became friends. Then I confessed to him. He said he used to like me but not anymore. So I moved on. He once asked if we could go fishing together when I said no...
Ailen2
Xper 1 Age: 18 How can I cope with jealousy toward my close friend?
I'm very insecure and seeing her being better than me in almost everything is torturing me. I don't treat her badly because I know my insecurity is not her fault. It's so frustrating and being around her makes me even...
IloveMacDemarco4
Xper 3 Age: 21 Is it fair to end things if he’s flaky and won’t commit to real plans?
So we’ve got 4th date on Monday or Wednesday, he asked me out but he still hasn’t confirmed it exactly when. And today he seems to be at home and is texting me from there, even though he said he wasn’t sure if he would be...
Blake Lively Is Toast... but There Might Be Hope
About a year ago I wrote a Take about the whole Blake Lively - Justin Baldoni case in which Lively accuses him of sexual harassment Blake Lively Is Getting CRUSHED By Justin Baldoni - And I’m Glad . Since then we’ve...
Why would a guy suddenly stop calling me by my name?
My male friend calls people by their names and he used to call me by my name as well. Suddenly he has stopped that. If he sees me he'd start talking to me and usually the tone is a bit different, I somehow always...
Anonymous
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