Search Results: confused by relationship

Why Did My Ex Partner/Friend Block Me?

I used to be in a situationship with this guy in 2022. I first followed him and he followed me. We started chatting and I showed interest but he wasn't ready for a relationship, since he was cheated on months before. But...

IngonitoGirl

Xper 1 Age: 26

Why does my ex keep doing this to me after so long?

We were never officially in a relationship but we dated on and off when we were teenagers to mid 20s. We always kept in touch until he moved away and met someone else. Everything was fine for a while and I tried to move...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is going on this with guy from my past?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are my thoughts valid in this breakup?

Just had a breakup. She broke up with me after we had been in kind of a rough patch in our relationship. She says we aren't alike. I despise her now because I feel like she just gave up on us. Is this a valid feeling? I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

For guys who are struggling to date, what are you going to do about it in 2024?

I few years before I turned 50 I decided I needed to get my shit together because who would want to date an overweight, balding middle aged guy. First thing I did was got my career on track, then my health. I started...

BourbonAndBacon

Xper 5 Age: 56

Recently started dating an older man who just told me he’s not sure he will ever get married. What should I do?

I (actual age 36F my profile is wrong) met a man in a social activity group we’re in a few months ago, and I started to develop feelings for him, as we connected and spent time talking one on one. He is a little over 10...

sirah

Xper 5 Age: 46

Why am I hung up on a guy that I dropped?

I met this guy on Facebook dating, he lagged a lot but I assume he was busy at the beginning. People get busy with school, work and other responsibilities so I didn't think much of it. We went on a lot of dates together...

Anonymous

(25-29)

After rejecting a guy, he also rejected me back. He came across a bit rude in his delivery. We became good friends later. Now he likes me. Advice?

FYI his rudeness was describing HOW he didn't like some of my traits, and kept pushing me away. However, before I rejected him, he didn't seemed "bothered" by my traits then. Anyways, I gave the benefit of doubt that he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Girls, Is it ok to demand an explanation from a girl who suddenly changed her mind about having sex with me?

I have this female friend and a while ago we started having sex, it all went good until one day she told me that she didn't want it anymore and that she never really felt comfortable about it, even though I would always...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He's not gay, he's not a player, but why does he spend time alone with so many women?

So, here's the deal. I have a guy friend here at college who hangs out with a lot of girls. He's on the football team, super sweet and genuine. He is very close to me and my best friend. We hang out a lot, sometimes alone...

caroline062005

Xper 2 Age: 21

My ex broke up with me but said some strange things whilst doing it?

I was with my ex for 11 months. It was a quick-moving, intense, loving relationship that was pretty much perfect. We talked about the future all the time, planned things months in advance, and she often referred to me as...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My girlfriend broke up with me, but I know she still loves me?

My girlfriend broke up with me 10 days ago after an intense, loving, caring 10 month relationship. It followed me getting a bit drunk on her birthday and speaking in a tone that she didn’t appreciate, and made her cry...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is my boyfriend deliberately trying to make me jealous?

I’m in a LDR with my boyfriend so with the distance it’s even more difficult with being apart from each other. I’ve noticed on more than one occasion now when we are apart from each other, he will bring up a female...

LL2939B

Xper 1 Age: 33

Should I get Back together with my ex or love my 20s to the fullest and develop my character?

I contacted my ex whom I’ve been broken up with for 3 months now. I’ve missed him and he’s open to meet up again and maybe figure something out. But now I’m unsure about what i ACTUALLY want. I love the freedom I have now...

Amanda_from_denmark

Xper 4 Age: 23

Relationships

Hot and cold behavior, hiding a relationship, and how to make sense of a girl who seems depressed?

A girl gave strong indications of being interested. Asked her out and she said yes. Then found out she was hiding a relationship. I was honest about my feelings for her and the confusion. Since then, its been awkward and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why a guy open his arms for a goodbye hug after a brunch with friends?

A guy in our friends group, has been giving me mixed signals for a while. Few months ago he mentioned that he started seeing a girl but he feels not ready to introduce her to us, despite many of our friends wanted to meet...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Very confused! He says he doesn't want a relationship but seems to be acting more interested as time passes?

Currently seeing a 42 year old man for 5 months. Two weeks prior to meeting him he had broken up with his live-in girlfriend of 1 year. Month 3 I asked if he wanted to be in a relationship (since we were actively going on...

AlohaKitten

Xper 1 Age: 29

My boyfriend said he wants to take things slow but acts like he is not interested in me. Can anyone explain to me what is going on?

I started seeing this guy two months ago, and it was clear that he had a crush on me. He's generally a very shy and introverted person, but he put a lot of effort into expressing his feelings for me by coming to see me,...

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Xper 2 Age: 28