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So as an adjective the term “weird” doesn’t sound too bad:

suggesting something supernatural; uncanny.
"the weird crying of a seal"

But as a verb the definition of “weird” sounds really bad:

induce a sense of disbelief or alienation in someone. Example: "blue eyes weirded him out, and Ivan's were especially creepy"

Anyway I guess it all comes to down whether you find a person unpredictable or not to label them “weird”.

So say for example you see some creepy looking stranger walking down the road muttering “weird” things and making odd gestures then that’s obviously bad weird. He might not be actively doing anything wrong/criminal. But he puts people on edge nonetheless.

However what about seeing a talented yet bizarre musician perform or getting into a conversation with interesting yet very eccentric conspiracy theorist. These are “cool” weird people. Their strange and uncanny but they aren’t threatening.
They are highly unorthodox so it’s not something you see everyday. Maybe their crazy, maybe their geniuses or maybe both. But they keep things interesting from time to time.

Yet those bizarre (yet harmless) people still get labeled “weird” just like the creepy guy walking down the street gets called “weird”.

Anyway from my observations women typically have a much more negative definition of “weird” then men do. They see “weird” as more threatening.

This question is motivated by a small discussion I was having on another site. It has always seemed to be women to me who can't let an old partner go, even though they might talk a lot of big talk about "being done" and moving on, they will still watch an ex on social media or even ask their friends and family about him. It seems like in the beginning they will let go completely and it might even hurt the guy, but later on they're still thinking about him or watching him on social media, even years later when he's in a totally new relationship or absolutely married. And of course, you have a lot of women who can't seem to move on from guys who don't respect or treat them well, and they'll try to hold on to him even when he keeps pushing her away.

I too recently had a family member tell me that one of my exes was asking about me - after all this time! And she was the one who ended things. I have zero interest in reconnecting with her whatsoever, as I have also grown a lot more as a person and a man since that relationship. So I find no value in re-uniting with her.

I am not saying that men never run back to an ex or can't let them go, they do exist. I'm just saying it seems like a bigger thing with women. What do you guys think?