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So we are writing for over 50 days in a row from morning to night, and have fun sending different pictures / snaps to each other what we are currently doing.

She knows that I liked here and wanted to meet up the next day at my place to talk about, she should already have come over that day but cancelled it and then changed her mind again and had time spontanously...

At my place, she said she didn't want to give me false hopes. I understood that she prefers older man and I am 2y younger than her. She was open to me with her sexual preferences etc, she is addicted to sex so she had many partners probably 50 - 100+ .

After we cleared up the talk, she knew I liked / loved her , but she didn't tell me anything about her feelings directly only " I don't wanna give you false hopes, I don't even know what I really want." and later on she tells me I should ask her more personal questions, deeper conversations, she likes talking with me.

Then after the talk around 5:30pm I asked her if she would stay for dinner, she stayed for some reason, if she doesn't want to give me false hopes why does she stay, why didn't she tell me to fuck off like a friend of mine who got rejected from her?

And while preparing the dinner, she makes always body contact even uncomfortable body contact like pressing her chest against me, like I would not notice. And stuff like that or I playfully put her some chocolate in her mouth (teasing a bit), and she liked it.

She even wanted to do something again together, like cook smth else or do some baking. And for next week is planned to go somewhere with friends. But I don't really know if I still want to go there.

So in the end she was all the time happy, teases me , but doesn't want to give me false hope

Should I stop have contact with her? Because I myself feel like I am wasting my time with her...

I just posted a lengthy response to a question about guys ghosting when they ask a friend for a date and get rejected. You are probably familiar with that tired line, "but I don't want to take a chance on ruining our friendship." That resulted in the ghosting that motivated the Asker to post the question.

1. After you reject him, that friendship probably is ruined anyway, because not many guys will want to hang around and watch you dating other guys after they got rejected. So that old line doesn't have much meaning.

2. HOW MANY TIMES have you heard a girl say, "I want my romantic partner to be my best friend." Well, if that's what you REALLY want, why wouldn't you date a friend? You're already halfway to your goal.

So. . . would you date a friend if he or she expressed interest? If you felt some attraction?

Picture this, you’re 3 dates in and everything is going great. Things get quiet for a moment and they tell you:

“just so you know, I’m looking for a specific type of relationship. I don’t want to restrict my partners sexual freedom in any way. I want you to be able to sleep with other people as much (or little) as you want. I will never ask you for the same thing. I really want to be dedicated to one person and I want that person to sexually free. My romantic feelings for you will never depend upon you denying your sexual desires for other people.”

“to be perfectly clear, I would like to know everything that happens, I don’t want to be surprised or unaware. I don’t want to be in a relationship where you don’t pursue other people from time to time. This doesn’t mean I don’t want to have sex with you, I definitely do. A one sided open relationship.”

(what I have just described is basically a cuckold/cuckquean/one sided-swingers/one sided open relationship)

Old stereotypes would have men loving this and women not but let me know what you think. :)

please post your thoughts :)