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Search Results: tell him i am not interested
How can you tell if a "player" is being sincere or just hitting up another "mark"?
This is a follow up to the question of whether or not guys play hard to get -- the hot-and-cold game that's basically designed to keep a gal on the hook. (I guess that bc I'm used to dealing with guys who are linear in...
Was I in the wrong for telling this girl who wanted to date me that I didn't even wanna be friends?
This was when I was in highschool. We were both 17. This one girl really wanted to hangout with me, so we just walked around the school, and talked. Her and her ex weren't on good terms. He was in one of our classes. We...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why did he come back sending voice memos?
Talked to this man back in late November for a couple weeks consistently. About one week into us talking he was already trying to plan a date and see me, I was kinda dragging my feet and declined for a later date but we...
Anonymous
(25-29) How would you go about this situation at work?
Ahh man! So, I have this co-worker who likes to play wingman. When I've told him... I don't date guys I work with. One day we were talking and I had mentioned that I thought 2 of the welders where we work at are...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can I get my parents to stop pressuring me about marriage and kids?
My parents have occasionally made comments in the past about my “dating life” and how they want kids in the future. I always told them it’s not much of my interest and i prefer pets. I thought i got it through to them...
Anonymous
(25-29) I'm on a video call with a girl, I tell her I have to go and she says "call me when you get back”?
I'm on a video call with a girl, I tell her I have to go and she says "call me when you get back, and if you can't then call me tomorrow" what does that mean in terms of interest
safaiafaia
Xper 1 Age: 27 Was this a mistake?
So a month ago, I mustered up the courage to talk to a guy I've had a crush on for a while. We talked about our siblings and our interests. He and I both like hiking, so I suggested we exchange numbers, but he politely...
Sadgirl19
Xper 1 Age: 27 Dating advice fof talking stage?
So i talked to a guy on a dating app and we connected really fast. We switched off the app to talk somewhere else bc he asked and i told him in the dating app long before like in the beginning of the talking stage that i...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do my parents keep pressuring me about kids?
Im a 27 year old woman and i work as a registered veterinary technician. I already found my calling and something i enjoy. My parents keep making comments to me about how i need to start dating and they want me to get...
Brittanyroseee
Xper 7 Age: 28 How to tell if a woman is interested?
It will be harder to tell because we see each other for an hour a week. And there’s always a big group of people around so she won’t make it super obvious. I’ll have to catch her off guard because she won’t make a fool of...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to respond when someone is suddenly interested in EVERYTHING you do?
I guess I can feel a bit flattered that someone is trying to "mirror" and be more like me, but tbh I'm keenly aware of my imperfections, so I'm not looking for anyone to be morphing into me... it feels a little creepy. I...
Should I move on from a girl whom I've went on two dates and who has left me on read, or give her space and a chance?
For context, she's from China and we both live in South Korea now. She's 35 and I'm 30 years old. We went on two dates and it went well. On the second date, I learned from her close friend that she had brought over to the...
heavenslaw100
Xper 1 Age: 30 Why does my guy friend keep asking me what I am doing for Valentine’s Day?
I keep telling him I am busy and I’m going to be with my best friend. Then he asked if I’m doing anything Saturday night. Then he asked for my address. I asked why do you need it. He said he wanted to give me a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is this guy serious about me or its just flirt and friendship?
I met a guy at an event in November. We flirted from the very start, mutual interest, good vibe, he was my type. We spent the whole event together, talking, dancing, laughing and before leaving he asked my Instagram, we...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, what does it mean when a girl is dry in replies but reciprocates and also sends pictures of what’s she’s doing at the moment out of the blue?
I’ve had a vacation fling overseas and can’t tell if I’m overthinking or coping. She’s speaks a different language so we both translate to conversate yet her replies are dry. We chat every 2-3 days, I tend to initiate...
Anonymous
(25-29) Would you find a middle aged woman who is an expert swordfighter as a main character in a fantasy novel interesting?
I think I've told a few people on here that im attempting to write my own books. It will be an epic medieval fantasy setting and i am fleshing out a few of the main characters im thinking about putting in the story. the...
Still-alive
Master Age: 42 
Have you ever felt disappointed because of what became of someone you loved?
I do feel that way now. There was a girl i was in love with like with anyone else before. When we were getting to know each other, she seemed so sweet and innocent and she liked me right away and i found her attractive as...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I just give up rejecting my guy friend and just give him a chance? Why do some guys wait so long to get with the girl they chase?
Yesterday my guy friend asked if I liked chocolate and what kind of flowers do you like and if I’m busy next weekend since it’s Valentine’s Day (don’t like that holiday). I told him I’m busy but he kept asking what time...
Anonymous
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Siajanua2027
Xper 6 Age: 30 How do I deal with an information overload like this?
I am going anonymous for obvious reasons. I have discovered that the close guy friend I’m interested in is my therapist’s son. He told me that he returns my interest but can’t date me because of it and feels comfortable...
Anonymous
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