Search Results: when men are hurt

Why am I obsessed with the idea of aborting a man’s child?

It’s like I want them to hurt or something I don't know

Anonymous

(25-29)

I see why my friend has trouble keeping men. How can I tell her without hurting her feelings?

She a beautiful woman inside and out but she still lives with her parents at 41 despite working full time because she chose to work in a nonprofit homeless shelter. She dedicates her life to helping others, and yes she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Girls, Are us girls hurting our chances with our double standard?

Ok hear me out. We see a guy who's 6'6" buff, aggressive, and well dressed, and our minds instantly say, "I'd let HIM take me". The thought of the raucous sex and fun party time put him in the "fun, but not for...

HelenaHandbasket

Xper 1 Age: 25

Other

Are you reckless?

I’ve always been a cautious person. I drive the speed limit and don’t take risks. I’ve never climbed a tree, haha. Anything physically risky growing up, I was always the “I’m good. You dumbasses can do that shit if you...

WhiteSteve

Master Age: 47

How could a man love a woman with bipolar? How do I accept that it’s not possible for me because I’m unstable?

I’ve been told I’m unstable by men and they wanted nothing to do with me even though some just wanted sex from me.. they changed their mind… it triggers me and hurts me deeply when a man makes you feel seen then hurts you...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does it mean when guy friend who you have a crush on calls you homie?

I made a friend on social media. He gives me a lot of encouragement on my running. He has flirted with me where he would send me these emojies 😍😍😍🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 or say beautiful views 😍 where I'm in one of the pics. He...

Sweetascandy1990

Xper 6 Age: 36

I don’t want to be abused but I also have dreams of being abused. Why?

asked people or women who are like me to explain the dichotomy and contradiction but they just get mad at me as if I’m trying to insult them when I’m asking this genuinely. I get upset thinking how guys mentally...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Boyfriend doesn't like kissing?

Hi all! Looking for a different perspective or advice on this. I'm finally in a healthy relationship with a kind and respectful man I've been close friends with for a long time. It's still early stages, but it seems he...

MysticCat

Xper 2 Age: 33

Family & Friends

Am I wrong for still disliking my younger brother for an incident that happened 5 years ago?

Years ago, because I was being inconsiderate (I was wrong) for accidently inturrupting my brother's job interview, my brother gor very angry. It started when he picked my leg up (but he didn't hurt me). When we were in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think this is a genuine apology from a man who spin in my face as teens?

I told him to choke on glass he said “damn what i do” I told him he knows what he did in 8th grade then he said this “ His apology “Well I don’t remember but I apologize for the way you are feeling and I never meant to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

People who tell someone getting over a breakup to, “stop crying and just move on," why do you do it?

I had someone say it to my face today and it was a friend of mine, and she’s been nagging me about finding another man since the day after the breakup. I’ve also seen people say it on here. Is it that hard to understand...

silvermoon84

Yoda Age: 42

Are you polyamorous? Help I like 3-4 guys and want them all as my boyfriend & can’t choose one help?

I never had a boyfriend , never had a guy meet family & attend a family party with me and comitt to me. I wasted 7 years on a fuckboy that used me for sex & I used to be in love & my mom don’t want me be in love for men &...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Time to expose myself. Be honest. What are your thoughts on this (abusive) situation?

I need perspective, I haven’t been to therapy, and my friend circle is small. In 2016, I met a man that I really liked. He was 26 and I was 23, and it wasn’t long until we started dating. I met his parents very early on,...

Pink934

Xper 6 Age: 34

Was I right to tell my friend off for seeing another guy behind her guy friend’s back?

Now my friend has a guy friend that is madly in love with her. I mean he is crazy about her! She knows he’s in love with her. I TOLD her get in love with her but she never believed me. She kept telling me they’re just...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I wrong for disliking my bestfriends boyfriend?

So my friend is a host at a local pub and she introduces people on stage before their act. It's usually the same crowd that comes about. She's very fun and outgoing, so men really like her because she can come off as...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Advice on trust?

You ever have someone you’re growing close to. You tell them stuff in confidence. You’re slowly opening up to them. Telling them stuff. They do the same…? They even tell you who to trust and who not to trust. Only for you...

plumplum-1994

Xper 5 Age: 31

When A Man HURTS 💔 A Good Woman - Is This What Happens Next?

https://youtu.be/qX0T8QTBAOc?si=QD9cGgmpLKH6OQiV

sage2021

Master Age: 71

Relationships

How do you handle bf’s excessive jealousy?

I love my boyfriend and I don’t want to break up with him, but his jealousy is becoming really difficult to deal with. He gets upset when I talk to my male coworkers or if I go out with my girlfriends and their boyfriends...

Anonymous

(25-29)