How could a man love a woman with bipolar? How do I accept that it’s not possible for me because I’m unstable?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been told I’m unstable by men and they wanted nothing to do with me even though some just wanted sex from me.. they changed their mind… it triggers me and hurts me deeply when a man makes you feel seen then hurts you

I struggle with emotions, feelings like I matter, sucidl thoughts, depression

I have a good job and I’m always an episode away from losing it and it scares me

but I’ve come to a point where I refuse to let a man love me. I’ll emotionally hurt him so bad or put my hands on him or curse him out… I feel empowered that way

no meds and therapy don’t always help

[ohsheeT]

Ok so your going to hate me when your done reading this... , so I'm going to apologize.
Right now.. not for saying what I'm going to say but for my belief.

I look at bipolar people is kinda having a form of torrette

When something triggers it your on and your not goingbto stop until you get ur empowerment.

So to me that empowerment. Is a cop out.

Your whole question is everything your not going to be able to do in life and you have programmed your self since someone one gave you that title you believe them and of course you do because now you reward your self with empowerment and that makes it ok with you

Like you said you feel it coming on and in that moment you make the choice to stop for a second and re center. Take a couple deep breaths.

All I can says is everything you just said in your question. Is the way its going to happen. Your going to be alone. That's how you programmed yourself..

You say it enough times that's the way its going to be... just like if you look at your life in a positive way, and work on yourself that's the way its going to be

I look at it like this getting off on somebody. And feeling miserable afterwards maybe.. with no love.

Versus trying to unprogram yourself and have a positive thoughts. Wanting more In life
Having sex becoming one with a guy that can take you to the moon would be a know brainer

I know someone who us the same way if she thinks something. That's the way it is weather she's right or wrong it doesn't matter any more because now the door of engaging just to get that empowerment.

How much money do you spend a year for your medicines?\nThat you have to pay the doctor for that prescribed them to you.\nThat don't work. But for only a brief moment.

[SotiCoto]

My ex-wife is bipolar.
I had no problem with her. She had a problem with me. And her problem with me was that she didn't feel loved by me because I wasn't very expressive... Well, I don't know what she expected. I'm just not very expressive and have no desire to be... and she wouldn't believe what I told her because she couldn't "feel" it. So yeah... that failed.
Well, we had a mutual friend who had a crush on her, so when we got divorced I set her up with him instead.

[Nikki1989]

Loving a woman with bipolar disorder is not just possible—it’s a reality for countless men. It's not about loving “the bipolar” but about loving the woman herself and understanding that the illness is a part of her life, not her entire identity.

[Cormac995]

If you want to talk about this in detail DM me I can relate a lot to this although I would say you need to be careful because putting your hands on someone is crossing a big line.

[Cormac995]

I'm not here to judge I've got bipolar too and it's been rough lately.

[HighValue]

Good quality men that have options won't put up with that.

Try dating a short, weak, poor man that has very few options.

[Anonymous]

If he truly cares for you, he will try and make it work.

[jahaims]

If you are knowingly repeating a cycle then it is a choice.