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I’ve been chatting with this guy that I met online for 4 weeks now. We’d planned to meet a couple times but us being on holiday got in the way. When we finally decided on a day, I suggested to reschedule and he also said it works better since he’s working intensely over the weekend - he’s in investment banking.

I suggested a couple days if he’s free and he mentioned would work much better as he’ll be in working the office that weekend. I then jokingly told him to get out of the office if he has not already last Friday and have not heard back since. The chats were also enthusiastic right before this

our chats have been great for past 4 weeks and he’s been quite consistent w messaging except right now. He did mention crazy past 2 weeks where he’s almost living in the office but I have not heard from him for 5 days now.

I’d just move on if it’s someone I have exchanged a few messages for 1 week with but we have been chatting for 4 weeks w multiple exchanges a day but knowing how scarce his time is, I doubt he’d just be texting to fill the void. What would you assume in my case?

I’m alternating being he’s genuinely busy and he’s moved on for some reason - bear in mind we have never met

Should i cut my losses or extend an olive branch? I don’t want to seem crazy and text if he’s moved on

29F, I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years. I’m under the impression that I want a relationship as I install apps on and off. I’m at the point where I get drained when they’re installed & when I’m not in the mood to reply to messages or swipe on profiles, I end up actually using it every other day or every couple of days. When I’m at the point where I notice I’m not getting as many matches or likes after a couple of months, that’s when I delete & likely going on hiatus. I think deep down I must want something other than validation right? I like men but I haven’t been in a ltr yet, I saw someone for a few months in my early twenties & haven’t seen someone since bc I refuse to settle. I get interest from guys but it only seems to be on dating apps which I take with a grain of salt, I’m told I’m cute/attractive but never get noticed by guys I like in person (as in actually approached). I’m always told I haven’t found the right person & this may hold truth, I’m reserved & not affectionate/don’t have a sex drive really but feel like that could possibly change if I meet someone. I just worry I’ll feel regret as I’m getting old & still haven’t been in a ltr, I don’t want kids but open to marriage