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Don't assume this is a racist post please thanks. I am a black woman but due to negative experienced from black American women I have chosen not to be bothered with them. Examples, their lack of wanting to achiever better in life. A lot of them prefer to have baby daddies, multiple kids, not pursue a high education, the way they dress ,

are baby mommas, loud, gossip , mean to people, have no faith (religion base). Even me being fit I was criticized for being too thin and eating healthy. They get really jealous too. I just find their behavior odd. I don't get what their problem is and at this point I don't care to figure it out. Their too loud and don't carry themselves appropriate enough to go to a nice area either.

I have a friend. I met her when I was 14 and she was 42 (horse people, so not super abnormal) She was my only friend for years due to my abusive parents isolating me. Is she a narcissist or am I crazy?

• Tells you you did things you know you did not do
• Calls you a narcissist when you don’t put them and their stories 1st
• Says you start drama and stir the pot when you hardly speak to anyone
• Constantly “plays both sides” if you are dealing with another person overstepping boundaries and gossips about you
• Constantly talked about her success then tragedy that took it away, but when you look back, timelines don’t add up and people she mentioned she was close to have no idea who she is.
• Constantly invalidated your experiences
• Extremely condescending
• Only spoke to certain people when she needed things from them
• Claims to be some rare miracle case in most aspects of her life
• Builds you up then immediately pounces and destroys the confidence you gained
• Extremely controlling over your dating life, new potential friendships and goals