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Is it ok for me ( born and bought up in Mumbai - school college and job in Mumbai too) to marry someone who is not from Mumbai ( he is from Odisha) and he wants to settle in Odisha in the long term future. So I will have to sacrifice my everything in Mumbai - job, maternal family in Mumbai, kids and settle with my husband in Odisha. So is it wise as a girl to sacrifice so much for a man she loves? He said me that he can't sacrifice his hometown and parents of 30 years, against our serious relationship of 2 years and won't settle in Mumbai. (Despite his job in Mumbai as he wants his options open to be able to settle in Odisha. ) My parents are attached to me so they will not like me settling in Odisha and I from within my heart hoped for him to settle in Mumbai coz his and my job is in Mumbai. What to do? Is it true that if a guy really loves me, will be sacrifice his everything and settle with me in Mumbai? His parents and mine parents don't like this intercaste..

As of recently, my popularity has dwindled on the dating apps & I’m unsure of the exact cause. Is it my age? As I look the same & I haven’t moved yet things went downhill a few months ago. I mainly use hinge & noticed this drought on all the other apps too, which makes me even more worried considering it seems to be across all platforms. Because of this, I’ve also been second guessing my decision to brush off the guys that previously showed interest in me. At the time I was somewhat interested in a few but either I wasn’t in the mood/doubtful because of negative dating app experiences I dealt with at that time/was too anxious. I question if I genuinely feel regret because this is a delayed reaction or if I’m reminiscing/liking the idea of them since things aren’t going my way at the moment. How can someone be told they’re “attractive” yet quality guys NEVER show them interest in person? If I got attention from these guys from the apps in person, maybe I wouldn’t be as anxious.

29F & I’ve always had this type of deep rooted anxiety when it comes to relationships, I’ve always been a loner & not the friendliest I suppose, to the point where I’m currently content with online/gamer “friends”. There’s this part of me though, that struggles with knowing I’ll never find romantic love. I’m very sure I’m only romantically attracted to men but in a way, I question at times if I really want to be with one long term. Let’s start with: I’m not very affectionate, I don’t trust easily, I get turned off quickly by “innocent” cocky or conceited banter, I’m very antsy about intimacy & not crazy about sex/masturbation to begin with. These might all seem like cop outs because I truly feel the right person will change how I feel about all these “issues”. As a woman I don’t think it’s that rare to not really have much of a sex drive, I keep hearing stories about other women in the same boat that meet their husbands & realize they weren’t “asexual” after all.