Search Results: he talks to his ex about our relationship

Why won’t he give me closure?

My boyfriend now ex ended our relationship a week ago. We had a talk and he made it clear we should both move on and go on with our lives. I asked him if I could know the reason why he was breaking up with me before we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I need tips on where to start.. well I think I do?

It won’t always be like this but I’m extremely anxious. Im facing life -single & I know I’m up for one hell of a healing process. My self worth is shot & so is my ability to fight back so please just leave this question...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy rejected me?

My male friend has refused a relationship with me. I met him when I began dating my ex who is one of his close friends. However, our relationship became LDR since 2021 but we were still together till August 2022 until I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do I have a chance at getting him back?

My boyfriend and I broke up. We’d only been dating 2 months but he just recently told me he loved me for the first time. Three days later (and several I love yous later), we broke up after a conversation about ideas for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Are too many "girl friends" a red flag?

I have been dating a guy on and off for a year and a half. He constantly talks about other women and his ex's. He has a girl best friend I've never met and when I asked to meet her he said, "what do you want me to do,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you guys think my online relationship is legit?

•I met him on Facebook by replying with a meme to his meme five months ago. •He calls me and text me everyday. •He tells me about his day and asks about mine. •He has a decent family and has good manners.•He never...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I go about fixing this relationship, am I wrong?

my ex boyfriend "Chris" and I broke up a few weeks ago but we've been talking abit. when we broke up he was being super indecisive about our relationship. We have broken up before that a previous amount of times but I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Flirting

Did I cheat? Do you think that I am horrible?

I've been dating a guy for almost two years, and while there are some drawbacks, we get along well. Before we started dating, a guy used to write to me on Facebook. Oddly, despite the fact that I had never met him in...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I think I wanna break up with my friend. But I'm not sure how to do it, and I'm not sure if I should?

I cannot condense this story. But I'll try. (It's still very very long) Me and my best friend have known eachother for a year, when we first met online we started dating and that lasted 8m. We broke up bc he wanted to try...

Oviiii

Xper 2 Age: 19

Dating

Did me texting my ex ruin my relationship?

I believe this is what ended things with my recent boyfriend. my boyfriend and I gotten into a fight and we separated for a split second. During our separation, my ex contacted me during my separation. ——My ex has been in...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

In a tough spot, is dating a guy I used to talk to brother bad in this context?

it sounds bad but here’s the story. Back to last year I met a guy we will call him Tom who was about 3/4 years older than me and we started talking to each other it was short I’d say maybe a month and we kissed once on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend spoke about his past ex?

Hi I have only recently got into a relationship so we are quite new. We are still getting to know each other in the most open and honest way. Yesterday we had a conversation with my boyfriend about our pasts. I was open...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Was I in the wrong?

I lost my boyfriend a few weeks ago. We fought a lot and I think other issues were going on in our relationship. But I wonder if the straw that broke the camels back was our last fight before the break up when I called...

Kattwhis1899

Xper 2 Age: 28

Is this considered cheating?

I found out recently that my boyfriend and his ex were still sending each other pictures of NSFW fan art for the first month of our relationship then stopped because they realised it was inappropriate. For context...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I found out recently that my boyfriend and his ex were still sending each other pictures of NSFW fan art for the first month of our relationship then stopped because they realised it

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How can I get over this?

Long story short, I broke up with my ex after a 3 year relationship because we were in different stages in life. I want to be married and he didn't finish school yet, doesn't drive etc. I have and I'm a few years older....

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I get over my ex?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I right for wanting to end my engagement/relationship?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Me (29M) and my fiancé (29F) have been dating for 3 years and been engaged for a little over 6 months. We have wedding plans for July. About a year into our relationship she cheated on

Me (29M) and my fiancé (29F) have been dating for 3 years and been engaged for a little over 6 months. We have wedding plans for July. About a year into our relationship she cheated on me with her ex boyfriend. She told me about it and I told her I could forgive her for it if she stopped talking to him and let him go. Our relationship was great after that and we were both very happy, we got then got engaged after dating for about 2.5 years Anyways about 5 months ago I saw a notification pop up on her phone and it was from him. Turns out that they had been talking daily for who knows how long. We got into a big fight at the time and I told her that I did not want him hanging out in the background of our relationship and she agreed. Then a couple months later I heard his voice on a Snapchat message she was listening to and that turned into another fight, insisted to me that their relationship is just platonic and she’s not trying to get with them. She said she can’t go without talking to him and didn’t see what the problem was as long as they weren’t hanging out. I was not happy about it but agreed that as long as they weren’t hanging out I was ok with it. These last two months have been increasingly hard for us and I feel that there is always tension between us. Intimacy between us has pretty much become non existent. Multiple times the subject of her ex boyfriend has been brought up and caused us to fight. I don’t know that I can marry her knowing that he is still in the picture. Anytime I try to talk with her about working on our relationship she completo shuts down and gives me very little input. I’ve tried so hard to be ok with it but the reality of the situation is that I’m not because I feel that she is still emotionally invested in him and holding out giving emotion to me in our relationship. I just can’t rationally understand why she would want to maintain 24/7 contact with him texting and snap chatting every day when we are supposed to be getting married.

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I humiliated myself by calling and texting my ex after the breakup asking why he wanted to leave, should I apologize for doing that?

my ex broke up with me bc he wasn’t ready for a relationship. He used our first fight (very small fight, he has serious trust issues) and left me and it hurt me so badly. He never really communicated with me. He has just...

Anonymous

(25-29)