Search Results: how do you know if a guy is flirting

I’ve had enough of this guy, I’m so fed up with the way that he’s treated me. We were more than friends then he friendzoned me because I found out he lied about his identity but then started calling me pet names and flirting but then pulling back if I engage at all. I want to say this to him:

“Hey so this has been feeling forced as fuck to me since about September when you double sent that towel selfie to me. I may act dumb, but I see you and I know this isn’t just about me knowing who you are.

It’s become obvious to me that our definitions of friendship don’t align and I’m tired of the confusing behavior. I’ll be spending my time on people who are authentic and don’t expect me to read minds or pretend I don’t know their name from now on.

Take care!”

Is this too much? Any feedback is appreciated!

I feel like I am not that good at it especially when it's a stranger but once I get to know a guy, it starts to come out a bit.

Like last night, I sent a really suggestive song with a 😘 emoji to him and he sent one back with 😜😉 emojis.

In person, I suck at it though. I'm only kind of good at it through text which is kind of sad lol

I would say I'm a playful flirt.

So do you know how to flirt? What's your flirting style like?

There are 5.

Polite-a respectful and considerate approach to expressing interest and building rapport.

Playful-use teasing or humor to show interest.

Physical-uses body language and physical touch to express interest.

Traditional-involves the man taking the lead in initiating contact and expressing interest, while the woman responds to his advances.

Sincere-focuses on creating an emotional connection and building a meaningful relationship.