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About a week and half ago I chatted up a much younger girl. She was shy but interested once she warmed up to me. We chatted for a long time. I texted she her the next day but got no response.

I definitely know better than to keep on messaging women when they don’t respond. So I haven’t contacted her since. Haven’t heard from her either. I decided to let 10 days pass and tomorrow I’ll send a simple hello.

Obviously when people don’t message first or respond promptly it’s a bad sign. But I can’t help but wonder if a much younger woman might feel more hesitant to contact an older guy vs a guy her own age despite being interested. Like she expects me to take 100% control of everything. Maybe that’s just wishful thinking.

I am trying to tread carefully here without being boring. We were both upfront and honest about we wanted (a fling on the DL). But I know much younger women change their minds more than wind changes direction. She definitely had me interested.

I've been in two at this point, there was a girl I was with for 6 months in 2020 but she had her mom tell me she passed away and months later when I was talking with who is now my girlfriend, I was given answers by her new boyfriend at the time when I begged him to say something.

She ended up messaging me but offered no explanation and the only apology i got was "I'm moving in with him in a year, sorry". While it sucks that it ended that way, I'm glad she didn't die cause the last thing I did before that stunt was pulled was ask her why she didn't tell me about the late text she got from who's now her current boyfriend at the time. Yeah, that sucked and I wish I'd been with my current girlfriend from the start.

Me and her are still together and going strong. We talk every single day and say "I love you" every day. She's been there for me like nobody else has and I've done the same for her and will continue to.

I've grown so happy with her that I question the way I described finding her, I said trying to find someone was like being on a planet made out of trash and fecal matter knowing that for the entire planet, there's one microscopic diamond there but the rest is literal shit and I had to dig until I found it.

Of course it was all worth it as I now experience love which is something I thought for a long time, I'd never experience in my life and it's wonderful. I'd never want to be with anyone else but I did question if describing so many people as trash and fecal matter in my analogy was too harsh.

However, as soon as I started watching loyalty tests, yeah I'm thinking I was right on the money there, pun intended. You name it and girls + guys did it in those tests, it's sad that people are so horrible to eachother nowadays.

What do you value most in a relationship? The most important things for me are affection, support, gotta at least be cute, nice, genuine, introverted and loyal. Money is a factor but not a big one for me