I am female. mid 30's and newly single. Recently I had a female friend of mine hook me up with a guy she knows through mutual friends. Initially I was hesitant about it. I am a bigger girl and assumed I would be rejected. This guy hangs out with my friend and all her girlfriends, I assumed I did not stand a chance because they all look like runway models. I guessed that would be the kind of girl he likes. My friend assured me he was interested since she showed him my picture. We all met at a local casino and she introduced me. We talked, and he was indeed interested. He called me beautiful and even asked me out to dinner. I made it clear I was on the rebound and only looking for a fling and not interested in dating anyone. Later on in the night he asked me to leave and get a hotel room with him. It did not end up happening for a few reasons. Neither one of us drove there, and I felt awkward asking friends to take us to a hotel room. Even though we were both drinking, he was more impaired than I was and to me it would have been just wrong. My female friend was again at the casino last weekend and he was apparently asking about me. He texted my friend when they went home later and told her give me his number. I didn't believe her but she sent me the screen shot on her phone. The next morning he sent me a friend request on Facebook and even messaged me. My friend did not ask him to do that, so he obviously sought me out on FB on his own. He did end up messaging me as well. I am not used to being pursued like this. I want to reply to him but am a little nervous to do so. Again, I am a big girl and he was drinking pretty heavily that night. I am afraid he was too impaired to know what he was getting into. I do not want to get naked for a man and have him run away. What are the chances of this happening to me? My self esteem is a little low right now due to my recent separation and being out of commission for 10 years.
What are the chances I will be rejected?
