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Who do you think learns from their mistakes - or even their partner's mistakes - and overall learns from their experiences in relationships with the opposite sex?

I feel like men do because you have guys out there who don't know what they had till it's gone, and that was a serious wake up call for them. And as dudes get older they will be honest and tell you how they messed up in a relationship. But also you have a lot of guys who were really very good to a woman and she was the one who took that completely for granted and walked away, and although it leaves those guys pretty broken, they eventually develop motivation from that breakup and do and become a lot better than where they were before. Even those videos from Coach Craig Kenneth profiled guys who wrote letters to him about their devastating breakup but how they later on became a lot stronger and were doing better things with their lives, and then that's when their ex girlfriends came back but the guys were no longer interested, or questioned if they even wanted to be back together.

I notice that women very rarely ever talk about mistakes they made in a relationship, how they regretted hurting the other person, or even how they could've done better. They will more often blame men for problems they had or for the bad relationship period, never taking any responsibility for their failures in it. They also tend to keep going back to guys who are toxic and don't even give a shit about them but turn their backs on guys who really do. I feel like the mentality of a lot of women is to just keep moving to the next guy and the next, or going back to what is problematic but familiar, instead of changing what's going on inside themselves.

But what do you guys think?

Girl: “I have been thinking and I really really enjoy spending time with you but I think more as friends. How are feeling about it? I understand if you no longer want to meet tomorrow! I hope your week is going okay x”

Guy: “I’m glad you mentioned it actually - I was going to ask you how you felt. Tbh, I’d find it difficult to just be friends with someone who I find attractive and I find you attractive. I do find I have to get to know someone over a month or 2 before I can take things to a more intimate level though.
My weeks been good thanks. Hope yours is good as well. I’m still happy to meet you tomorrow but up to you - I understand if you’d rather just part ways based on what I’ve said. x”

girl: “Okay, I understand! Thank you for letting me know :) I think then it might be better not to meet tomorrow as it could become confusing, I am also getting quite worried about covid again so bad timing. Thank you for being so kind and understanding :)
I hope you have a lovely Christmas and New year x. (I will still transfer the money for the ticket) thank you for organising such lovely dates :) really enjoyed them all“

4 months later guy likes an instagram post by the girl. Girl then likes one of his holiday posts a week later. Couple of weeks later she posts a story of herself with her niece and he says “Very cute. Your niece?” She replies “Thanks :) yes my little niece.”

I think tattoos are not attractive, quickly get dated, and I've never seen a dude who I thought looked better because of having tattoos. I'm also 66 years old, and I realize that young people may have quite different feelings on the subject, but. . . if you are looking for a career, I would suggest learning how to remove tattoos; I think it will be a huge market 5 or 10 years from now!

Ladies, what do you think? Guys with tattoos: cool or fool?

Female hypergamy is essentially boils down to women will only see you as a potential mate if they perceive you are better than them.
It's one of the reasons assholes do better than nice guys in getting women and not all the feminist propaganda that nice guys aren't really nice but because assholes disrespect and don't care about a girls opinion which sets off in the woman's brain that he must be better than her.

To expand on this point, if done to early on and without the woman thinking she earned it is perceives by her as a male pandering up to her to get sex/relationship and not actual kindness. Women only usually perceive kind gestures as just that once they've given up sex and the man still continues being sweet/kind to them.

Now the thing about hyper gamy with women is it's not tied only to one thing like physical or wealth but everything including attitude. A man does not necessarily need to tick off being better in all areas but enough that it is drilled into a woman's psyche that he is better than her. It's for this reason a guy can be shorter than a girl but rich, and confident and get the girl.


We see hypergamy of women in their dating preference such as wanting men who make more money than them, be taller than them, higher social status, more confident, more accomplished than her, more exciting live etc.

The problem with hypergamy is as a woman rises up in the world and become better the amount of men who matches her criteria of being on her level or more becomes smaller and smaller. This leads to fewer pool of men available for her to select making it frustrating. With more women graduating from college than men this means that the dating pool for college graduate women are going to be smaller.

It's Not Your Imagination, Single Women: There Literally Aren't Enough Men Out There