"Boo Hoo, I'm hurt" Have some decency !

[Anonymous]

What is wrong with society now ? People have no shame ? No social filter ?

Some people have been bitching all year about how their relatives has died and all, threatened all year to quit school/job whatever, begging for attenttion in the most manipulative and ugly ways.
So last night at a party where everybody take turn, they spill their sh*t, telling how bad it was for them.

And I was just here knowing the guy next to me has gone through some really really bad things but always kept a smile and never told anyone. How he has attented to the need of his two divorced parents both dying of cancer, what it's like to CPR a parent drowning in his own blood, all the nights he spend at the ER holding the hand of someone whit no hope of seeing tomorrow (which was often a crucial day in his academic/proffesional life). Or how he has to take two job to pay for the fees of his little sister he send in a boarding school, always telling her he eats three meals a day and both parents are fine.

He never told anyone in two years. Ever. I'm just his neighbourg, and I can't imagine how he gas gone through all of this and worst untold stories. His wide smile, his sometines obscene jokes, his energy, the best actor ever ! Only exception was a long time ago when a girl has asked him out, thinking he was funny, he looked so terrified that she would discover the truth... It's only when he thinks he is alone that the sparkle in his eyes seems to fade in a distant land of promised nothingness. I fear he will commit suicide one day.

If you have close relatives who can listen to your sh*t, then go tell them and don't tell unrelared people about your problems. Don't you see how violent you are by the guiltiness you induce in people when speaking about your problems. Telling how bad you have been hurt also hurts people who listen, that's why you should do it only with people who are close to you (and internet).

[Vehii]

I definitely get your feelings, some people whine about even stubbing their little toe when talking to someone who's leg just got amputated. There are always people who are or have been in a worse situation as someone else. However, because someone has been trough more shit in his life, doesn't mean that seemingly small problems of others are irrelevant.

[myTake Owner]

Yes, absolutely and it was never my intent to say otherwise. I'm just pissed of about people winning in front of stranger (except on the internet). Are you going to tell all your problems to someone you have never talk to? Just to feel better while (and maybe because) you made this person feel worse by addiultkng him/her with your problems?