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Men chatting up women is rape culture?
Horsecock.
Men get raped to yet no mention of this... I hate a rapist as much as anyone else but not only women are victims.. the. There is men who have been accused of rape as well because the girl they were with got a guilt complex and ruined an innocent mans life- that is becomin common as well when they admit they lied the victims are the men who were innocent all along- I class that as pyschological rape as it destroys a mans family and career.. why not start a discussion up on that an see what asker has to say for herself... I usually don't have a lot of time for men as it is but this is one thing I will be with them on... rape comes in many forms but it's not always men who are the rapists
@Brokenheartedx what do you think about female gangs raping men?
@scooogy Same as what I think about men gang raping women.. scumbags that need putting down.. it's hard for women to rape men normally but not hard for women to use objects on a man anally for sole purpose of control and humiliation...
@Brokenheartedx I do have a point in there saying that rape culture is also assuming that men cannot get raped. Sooo... there is a mention of that.
Rape Culture is all those things but it also perpetuates that only men can rape
"Even without a rape charge (which in California is specifically defined as penetration with a penis)"
I guess if a woman forced herself on a guy who's was begging for her to stop and screaming for help the worst that could happen is she gets a sexual assault charge.
That is also true. I included a point saying rape culture is assuming that men cannot be raped, that seems to have been lost though lol
All men are taught not to rape. Just like men are taught not to steal and murder. The fact that men still steal and murder doesn't mean men aren't taught to steal and murder. Is there "murder culture?" How about "theft culture?" Those things tragically exist too.
Don't blame society for some bad apples. And yes, there are definitely bad apples out there. But most men aren't bad apples.
" But most men aren't bad apples." Try telling that to a feminist , we are ALL evil , mass murdering rapists according to their world view !!
I'm not really blaming anything here.. I've just defined what a term means to me.
@FatherJack, I'm not a feminist lol. And for you to assume that I am just because of one piece I've written is quite presumptuous.
@jesshkah I did NOT assume YOU are a feminist..." Try telling that to a feminist " ... I did NOT address YOU directly !! Your take was too balanced to be from a feminist viewpoint ... I was going to give you kudos for it !
@FatherJack apologies for misunderstanding! A lot of people in these comments are calling me on haha so I thought this was falling in that same vein.
No problem , I have dealt with far too many very defensive people in real life & online that high-jump to conclusions too quickly , I have to go into " WILL YOU F***ING STOP BLABBERING & LISTEN !! " mode to get them to STFU , I hear them out first out of courtesy , so reasonably expect the same , not difficult !! You are NO feminist & have proven you are a decent person. I have a daughter , so you can imagine what I think of vile rapists !!
@FatherJack totally understand. Thank you again!
we live in an anti rape culture where men are taught to protect women and where rape is seen as one of the despicable crimes a person can commit
Right, but just because there is an anti-rape culture does not mean that a subsequent coexisting rape culture DOES exist.
lol if it does exist its to small to care about. especially in western civilization. how about you fight something that really needs to be stopped like putting an end to abortion because thats the largest killing in human history and you feminist seem to not give a damn.
also rape is fairly rare and its a small amount of men that do it. so thats like saying we live in a I don't know plummer culture or a nudist culture. you see how dumb that is? when you say we live in a rape culture you're insinuating that all of us live there. we dont however all of us do live in an anti rape culture. sure rapist live in a rape culture but that will never change because they are rapist. none of what you consider to be rape culture is what i consider to be anything. thats just stuff.
pretty much everything you put on your list is just part of being alive deal with it. you give women a bad name.
Did you happen to remove my old opinion on this one? I don't see why it would of gotten removed. Was educational and valid AF. Wasn't trolling or antagonizing.
I didn't remove anything, someone else might have reported it or an admin did? But promise it wasn't me.
"Rape culture is when a man expects his wife to have sex with him whenever he wants because they're married, and he's entitled to it regardless of whether or not she wants it" Phyllis Schlafly said a man cannot rape his wife because by marrying him she consented to sex.
Well I totally disagree with that and she was known to be a conservative activist. I'm clearly not conservative nor do I hold onto outdated ideals about marriage.
Yeah, what she said is not conservative, what she said is insane.
Lol didn't she just pass away last week?
Yeah, that's why she is being talked about.
The bible says husband and wife essentially have access to each other in that way. Neither should really ever be telling the other no.
Do people actually have their head so far up their own arse they actually believe there is a rape culture in the west? smh.
Wait seriously the last paragraph guys do that while dancing with you? If so, I am shocked to even read that! I guess you run into more jerks than gentleman.
That is precisely the reason I never liked going to clubs... sucks because I enjoy dancing but I could never have any fun at typically clubs because so many guys assume if you're in a club you're far game and they'll put their hands all over you without even saying hi first or giving you a chance to say no. It's super disgusting.
@Sara413 why not go swing dancing? I know it's a more respectful atmosphere, and you can have fun with a good conversation.
Yea it happens a lot lol. At this point I've gotten pretty good at determining a respectful guy from one that isn't, but it's not uncommon at all.
Sure, I could do that... but the point is that I should be able to go to a club with my friends, have a few drinks and dance my little buns off without being sexually assaulted. It's not ok that when I was in my party phase I had to choose to either stay away from clubs or basically just accept that I'd be molested while there. Nothing about that is acceptable.
There is no rape culture if you look at the actual stats the cases like the one you mentioned are extremely rare. Other places like South Africa do have a real rape epidemic here we dont, we just have feminists greatly exaggerating things
only people that have never been close to a situation like that say this
@lost_alice Alice I've known girls that got raped that doesn't change my point there's no culture for it in America. It's a feminist culture and any guy that does is punished severely.
ssweet-dispositionn.tumblr.com/.../micdotcom-another-white-rape-case-ends-without
and this is only one case
@lost_alice I stopped reading halfway through tumblr is Not a valid news site it's GARBAGE. If I said another Black rape case it's racist but saying another White isn't when Black happens more statistically? Lol playing race card
it just shows everything that happened and the important part here is not the race part is the part that he didn't go to jail
@lost_alice if it's not the race part why you link me it when you know I'm White
You are White but not honest
Just because there's more rape happening in other countries does not mean that we don't have some type of culture around it ourselves.
But we dont though and before you claim there's a culture why dont you look at the stats and tell me exactly whos comitting the rapes and how often it happens
I totally agree with this list, that's exactly why Islam is thee number 1 threat to women's rights and for that Islam needs to be stopped!
Right...
Didn't know about the rape culture. Their men are really horny comparing to my home country though, many of them creep on anything with a vagina.
That's disgusting.
Why the need for trigger warnings? Wouldn't people be smart enough to just not read it?
just courtesy..
It's a feminist fashion trend. They've got all sorts of shirts and accessory signs with all sorts of hilarious and ludicrous shit written on them.
This "trend" arose as a response to a real issue which needed awareness.
Rapes do occur and that sucks, but they don't create a culture... The culture of rape was created by feminists...
Whine, whine, whine. You didn't once mention male victims in prison and how it's 100% normal to hear the joke "don't drop the soap" which is basically saying "you're gonna get raped in jail".
I haven't whined about anything lol. And I'm sorry if I didn't mention every single thing in society that would constitute as such, but that statement is very much included in what I would consider a part of the culture.
You know, that stuff scares me. I admit it, I despise other dudes.
As a male victim of rape I find this highly offensive.
I apologize, may I ask why?
rape culture is what's happening in germany, not some shitty feminist shoutout
Rape is not socially acceptable anywhere, it's not normalized in any way. Rape culture doesn't exist by your definition.
@nog642 WE never have or had a rape culture. Our enemies always had and have a rape culture. That's evident!
@jacquesvol Who is "Our enemies"?
The ones our media and govt say is the enemy, of course. Isn't that evident?
@jacquesvol But who is that? I don't think rape culture by your definition is present anywhere in the world.
Over the times it have been the Germans, the Japanese, the Russians, the Chinese, the Muslims, the Mexicans.
The enemy is always changing: You'd known that if you had read 1984 . Big bother tells you who the enemy is.
*Big Brother
@jacquesvol Over the times, not currently. Therefore it is no longer an issue.
@nog462 you clearly haven't been listening enough to the medias. :-|
Hints: 1. Cologne , 2. a wall to keep those out.
One of the very few , great take coming out of this battle.
Thank you!
here's what i think about the rape culture that uninformed women keep talking about
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZtO2A5aLnrs