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You can't demand us to be chivalrous and expect us equality rights... it's one or the other cupcake. That's like feminism saying men are the ones who go to war because us women are traditional when it suits.
Equal rights means you will get treat the same way as a MAN.
Huhhh when a guy tries to be chivalrous he is seen weak, beta, nice guy to whom the girl is not attracted to... sexually or mentally, instead she wants a macho bad boy who will abuse her and treat her bad... And they still keep on going back to him and even like it and then cry later when they get dumped or when they had enough and then also blame whole men for her own choice of partner...
So after seeing this why would a good guy be chivalrous to a women? Fuck bring chivalrous...
I rather be a bad boy than being a chivalrous guy who is seen only as a friend...
Having been snarled at , then kicked for the " crime " of holding open a door , many years back for a young woman , nearly killed any chivalry in me totally dead , I do this for anyone , ironically it is other men that say thanks nearly every time , many women do not even acknowledge me & just haughtily strut past. However , to be fair , women have been severely indoctrinated in today's man bashing culture to view men as beneath them , I believe this to be a strong factor.
The last time that a woman (if you can call a Feminist a woman) spat abuse at me because I held a door open, she was only just entering the doorway. I let go of the door, which had an automatic closing device on the top. The door met her face about the time that she was 3/4 through the door.
She was so busy bugging her eyes at me in the way that leftards do and telling me what a disgusting member of the patriarchy I was that she did not notice that the door was closing.
I do not offer assistance to women any more, or extend the traditional Western courtesies. I have been abused by a Feminist once too often.
Flat tyre on the side of the freeway during torrential rain? Girls can do anything.
Car broken down on a lonely road during the night? A woman needs a man in the way that a fish needs a bicycle and masculinity is toxic. Too bad if the next car along is another Ted Bundy.
Too many logical fails by males in this thread. If you emasculated f**gots want to be approached by women, you need to create a safe environment for them to do so. So either the catcalling and groping stops or you better be prepare to be approached and handled by ugly b****es that you don't want., and you can't complain about it either Fair is fair you stupid mother f***ers.
Good luck trying to stop traditional, masculine men from picking up on women. Your little p***sy ways just makes their job easier and harder for women, which you queers seem to think is easier for you, really, it means less of the sex you want.
Furthermore, ladies, if you want to indulge these lazy p***ies who call themselves guys, I propose you don't have to doll yourselves up if you are going to do the work. It's not like these manginas are going to complain, all they want is equality sex, they're the women now, they need to know what equality is like. Furthermore, they need to spend more time dolling themselves up. So they shouldn't b*** if you put on 20-30 lbs or skip a shower or two. That's what they deserve.
It's okay, hun. Just take your pills and it's gonna be okay.
@notreallythere Aww, are you one of the precious snowflakes whose balls haven't dropped and can't handle rejection or approaching women? Poor baby.
Nope. I'm one of those precious poor babies who's attractive enough to attract women without having to approach, pay or pretend to be an alpha talking tough on the internet while at the same time censoring swearwords like a 13 year old girl in Catholic school. I'm the guy your girl goes to for "netflix and chill" after you paid for her dinner.
Dunning and Kruger are strong in this one. Quit lying and be truthful. Your home run swing: sit on your a** and whine. "Netflix and chill", translation:
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And in return, what do women provide for men? The whole reason I'm not chivalrous to every girl I meet is because many women take chivalry for granted. Chivalry should be earned, not expected. Additionally, I treat everyone with respect, such as holding doors, etc., not just women. I don't think a vagina makes you entitled to anything
Oh I simply adore and admire those gentemen types.. easiest way to earn my respect and feelings 😊. That being said I must also state that women are also to blame for the extinction of gentlemen and in my opinion lack of religious and moral values has led to this unfortunate state of affairs!
To the feminine traditional type of women because it's functional with them
It's not for the feminists or women who are entitled and overbearing towards men. This wasn't designed for these types of women
Women again wanting everything without the work
I think it's just traditional. It's a compliment, but I think people just hate having to fit into roles. Like imposed roles. I think it can be cool and it sounds like you like tradition a lot! But I like telling guys exactly what I want, so I don't have to worry about him being mean lol
And guys can make some terrible sexual comments, but they say the same to each and worse usually.
Everyone should treat each other with respect and empathy. It doesn't matter the gender. if I see a woman carrying something heavy, I offer to help and I'd do the same for a guy. Same with holding the door for the next person behind you. Chivalry isn't something we need in order to ensure women are respected, how about we all just be a decent to each other by default?
A woman wanting chivalry is just as nasty as a Feminist. It's a PC way of expressing their belief that they are an entitled princess who expects to live life on a pedestal. It's just as gross/creepy as any man who feels entitled to a woman's sexuality.
Im the kind of guy who would hold the door for my gal, move her chair and never show anger towards her... but im also the kind of guy that would be really pissed if we dont split the restaurant bill or if she expected me to give her expensive gifts... i would be proud of my daugther ( ill never have children) if she dated a guy like me because i would mean i raised a progresive and humble woman.
Is splitting the restaurant bill on a date acceptable in Chile in your generation? I always thought of Latin America as very traditional.
@notreallythere Chile its pretty similar to the US economically and socially... and just like in the US there are all sorts of people.
In order to be chivalrous, you have to be kind to both sexes, not just one. Men and women need to respect each other and assist each other, not have one sex do all the work. Us men aren't oxen, we are humans just like women.
"because we demand equality, we can't demand chivalry"
You indeed can't.
I'm a little confused as to why so many people are taking issue with this take. How is chivalry not a sign of respect? I'm confused. Someone explain please. I didn't really find anything in here something anyone should be offended by.
It's a sign of respect, but guys here say that they should get that from girls too. Now guys want to be treated like girls. And some other guys believe that it makes us inferior if we want to be treated like lady.
Why as a man am I going to be a chivalrous gentlemen aka a pushover when in today's world women gladly am deathly openly reveal their sexual nature and feminists shout from the hills and rooftops that they are proud to be whores and sleep around, why possibly am I going to hold doors open and be a walking mat when in today's hookup culture, I cancer get a piece of pussy doing nothing and women gladly put out?
brb respecting a girl who let Chad and Jamal deep throat and cum on her face like a little whore.
The cat is out of the bag. Men are not putting women on a pedestal when 90% that same girl was a little whore for an attractive male.
Here is a big difference between being a gentleman and just doing everything for a woman. Few people seem to understand that these days.
Chivalry is dieing because poeple have no respect for other poeple.
I agree 100% many of the boys on this site were apparently not taught these things by their father... or mother. Maybe they didn't have a father. its sad
What is sad is that you find it sad that more and more younger men and women aren't taught sexist stereotypes anymore.
@jessica5d sexist stereotypes? WTF are you even talkking about?
Or maybe men are afraid to act chivalrous because women take advantage of it.
@dontknow12 Its asd if that has been your experience. all the women I know are truly appreciative of chivalry, but even if a small subset of the population is abusive, that doesn't mean an entire male population needs to curtail gentlemanly, chivalrous and classy behavior because of them.
I understand. It just gets annoying when you put in a lot of effort for the girl and she doesn't reciprocate anything back. Which is part of the reason guys on here complain about paying on the first date.
Women are entilted to chivalry as much as men are entitled to sex... get over it.
@dontknow12 "he doesn't reciprocate anything back". It's not just that. If she just isn't genuinely interested, she typically lies about it which further hurts us guys. I'd rather be told that she had a good time but wasn't into me or doesn't think we'd be a good match, rather than have her tell me she's looking forward to a next date then ghosts me.
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Bullshit, girls like confident jerks who treat them like shit. Start treating the girl like equal and you are friendzoned.