"No"
*ignore
"Hahahah , fuck off"
"You're pretty and all but I can't right now"
"Uh... I'm sorry , you're really cute but ...thank you for asking"
"Uh.... sorry , I'm not really looking for anything but you seem nice"
Self-explanatory.
"No"
*ignore
"Hahahah , fuck off"
"You're pretty and all but I can't right now"
"Uh... I'm sorry , you're really cute but ...thank you for asking"
"Uh.... sorry , I'm not really looking for anything but you seem nice"
Self-explanatory.
When women say NO men get MAD so maybe we are tired of being super polite because we are scared? I was polite when rejecting a guy and I still got hit! What about the woman who was shot and killed by a man after refusing to give him her number? What about the young girl who was stabbed and killed in her school stairway for refusing to go to prom with a boy? Men get harsh words sometimes but women are being KILLED just for saying no to a man. Because men are so entitled they think they deserve any woman they want and when they don't get what the want they get violent. I have personally been punched for politely refusing to go this this guy's house to "watch movies and cuddle and kiss". The principal had to pull him off because he was so angry. Literally all I said was "No thanks I have a boyfriend, you know I have a boyfriend" and he started hitting me.
Wow I'm really sorry some ass did that to you. Honestly though with complete psychopaths like that anything other than a solid yes would probably have them attack you unfortunately which really sucks. Monsters like that just ruin dating and romance for everyone. It makes other actual decent guys afraid to approach because they are scared they'll be humiliated or pepper sprayed and girls are terrified of being assaulted for saying no.
I'm sorry that happened to you, but I think you would have gotten hit whether you were polite or not.
That you were hurt by a man, while regrettable, is no justification for being impolite to strangers. I've been attacked by homeless people, but I don't say "fuck off" to them every time one addresses me. You can be firm, you can be strong, without being impolite. There is a difference between being polite and being friendly. I'm not suggesting people be friendly, but that "fuck off" response was uncalled for, nor will it in any way deter a man from attacking a woman.
So you base all men on your one negative? My family adopted a woman whose dad molested his own daughter (the other sister) and to this day that adoptive "sister" respects me and holds me up as an example of how men should act. You assuming all men are guilty until proven innocent is the sort of thing that is damaging the relations between the sexes. I personally prevented a rape when a female friend took some new medication (passed out), and of the 3 men with me at her apartment at the time (we didn't know each other), one said he was just going to "do it" to her, and the others' body language was saying "we won't stop you". So I got the phone out (land line), threatened to dial 911 to start reporting a rape (and told them what I thought of them), and the other 3 guys left in a hurry. by the way I've relocated to another city where I knew absolutely nobody. In your world I didn't have the right to chat up any women, but I am glad to inform you I met my 55 year old girlfriend on the street at random.
The first two women were completely rude, and have no integrity whatsoever. The third one however was at least somewhat interested, and rejected him due to not getting to know her. If he had simply asked for her name first, and maybe asked an ice-breaker question, then she probably would have given him her number. When you approach a woman like that, it comes off as "He only wants me for my physical attractiveness, not for me". Regardless though, they were all rude in the way that they rejected him. They could have had a lot more chivalrousness than they did.
Depending on the time and place, it could've worked.
@GreatnessPersonified Yeah it works at clubs and concerts.
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What is the connection between a video about rejection and "Chivalry Is Dead!"?
Courtesy being met with insults probably is not encouraging the other person to continue to be chivalrous.
The problem I have with this video is that A) they only approached conventionally attractive women. These women probably do get hit on more than the average woman and B) the guy was also asking for their number.
He started off by saying "Hey, I thought you were really cute"... The woman on the other hand, she was saying Hi and went to shake their hand. That seems like a more polite approach.
A random guy just asking for my number won't get it most likely. You have to be careful who you give your number to. I don't withhold my number because I'm a big meanie, I withhold it because I don't want to get stalked. Seriously though. Some women have posted links of scary things that have happened when a woman rejects a guy. Guys can be scary! Not all guys of course, but women always have to be afraid because they never know what could happen.
I was online dating once, and I mistakenly gave this guy my number. He then proceeded to keep texting me creepy stuff. Even after I told him I was not interested. I gave him a chance, I was talking to him and found that we just weren't compatible. And he was making me very uncomfortable (ie. Wanting me to come over to his house right away alone, and telling me that we should be boyfriend and girlfriend (after an hour of talking to each other, we hadn't even met in person yet :S)). So I told him politely that Sorry, I wasn't interestd and sorry. He refused to take no for an answer and for the next year and a half (yes, year and a half!!!) he proceeded to keep texting me. The texts got angrier and angrier and I never responded to any of them :(
He kept texting stuff like "What would we be doing right now if we were together?" "What do you think it would be like if we were girlfriend and bf?", etc...
So women have to worry about that kind of stuff. They have to worry about getting stabbed, about being assaulted, about being raped all the time!
And also, no one owes you a friendly response. Maybe these people were busy or trying to get home or saw the camera and it scared them? People do stupid things now a days, pull pranks and do things to scare people. These women were probably just trying to protect themselves.
Why do women have to justify not wanting to talk to someone when it could potentially be a scary situation? I know it's hard for some guys to understand, especially since they don't always experience this type of stuff. But try to think abouut it from a woman's perspective. Some random dude asking for your number.
Someone queue the violin! It's so funny how so many males just don't get it & won't accept the fact, Women Don't Owe You Shit! Stop approaching random chicks you don't know shit about & you're feelings won't get hurt. You are not entitled to us, our number, or a date.
@Minxxie ~ gave real accounts, Women Die by Fuckboys who can't take no for an answer!
Stop trying to point fingers at women & grow some balls, have these discussions with your male friends. Call each other out on your over-sexualized behavior, aggressiveness, & physical violence.
At least Aziz Ansari gets it:
Explains the majority of guys who's butthurt over rejection:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a22013-why-nice-guys-girls-are-not-really-nice
A guy who understands the point of chivalry:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a21871-chivalry-why-men-should-hold-onto-it-not-because-of-norms-made-by
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Chump :)
You fail at comprehension and your bitterness is oozing out all over the place.
You said:
"Someone queue the violin! It's so funny how so many males just don't get it & won't accept the fact, Women Don't Owe You Shit! Stop approaching random chicks you don't know shit about & you're feelings won't get hurt. You are not entitled to us, our number, or a date. "
The issue isn't that the men feel entitled to a date, they feel entitled to being treated like a human being, you need not be a total miserable cunt to reject someone. This is the obvious point being made.
Also Rejection can cause physical pain, social rejection in humans comes with a sort of "fear of death" reaction in the brain. Rejection can cause life long trauma and everyone's tolerance to it will vary. Just another reason why rejecting with a little decency is important.
This video is obviously click bait as most people. A good person doesn't want to cause pain to another, unlike you.
@Jager66
LOL! Thanks for proving my point right & being the perfect example of an entitled fuckboy!
"Women Don't Owe You Shit!" "Stop appraching women you don't know shit about & your feelings won't get hurt"
How do you not understand that?
No one has to be nice to a complete stranger who is impeding on their time & space. Your feelings don't mean shit to anyone who doesn't know you personally. What would make you think otherwise?
Why do you think women should greet you with graciousness when you are the one bothering them?
What he is trying to say is: "don't be so damn rude".
There is no need to use vulgar language when dealing with strangers.
@Lardy_Pirate
There's no reason to expect kindness when dealing with strangers, you do not know them & they do not know you.
You cannot control how a person will react. So why do you believe you can, especially, when its been proven time again that people will react rudely towards strangers invading their space?
Strangers do not know you & do not owe you shit
So basically you're saying that men should not approach women?
Not just women - all people are entitled to basic politeness.
In addition to the fact that men can be creepy and aggressive as others have mentioned, it's also about supply and demand. If a woman has already been approached by 5 guys and you're number 6, of course she's going to be irritated.
I felt the same way last year when I put out my resume. I got a new job and still months and months later recruiters still keep calling me. Some days I was getting 5 or 6 calls from guys with foreign accents I could barely understand wanting to know if I was interested in jobs paying half of what I'm making now. Many of them don't take no for an answer and keep calling back. Extremely irritating. I assume women feel the same way about guys when they get asked out a lot.
When you approach women you have to learn body language and attraction signals. Eye contact is a good one. If she's breaking eye contact almost immediately and looking away then she doesn't want to talk to you. If she maintains eye contact for a few seconds or longer, smiles, looks down, that's a much more probable chance she finds you attractive and wouldn't mind talking to you.
While many of those women were rude, it's also rude to approach random women who are clearly headed somewhere and didn't give you and open body language signals. When approaching women you should focus on talking to women who are not walking anywhere in a hurry, have open body language, and do not immediately look away when you make eye contact.
This is a bit of an unfair comparison.
The reason for this is because girls' standards are WAY, WAY higher on average. This means guys will take any chance they can get. Why do you think most girls sit back and wait to be asked out? Because they can.
It's disgusting I know, but it's not because women are inherently mean or anything. They just have incredibly high standards.
I do agree that it's time to change this though. No doubt that encouraging more women to make the first move would break this sexist stereotype. So that's what I do.
women are inherently mean. either this is a biological phenomenon or they're just not being raised right. and you can complain about misogyny or whatever but if you really want people to believe its not the former than you have to do better at the latter. this behavior is despicable, and you have NO RIGHT to expect men not to hate women for behaving that way. fix yourselves, then you can complain about misogyny
Society encourages it.
Society to men: "Bro, your standards are too high you entitled pig."
Society to women: "You go girl! Never lower your standards!"
@R3d_Anonymous Sadly accurate. They did a study on this. They did a survey with men determining what they thought of a the women they where given pictures of and as to be expected it was a bell curve, most women where average with it tapering the further to the extremes you got. For women however, they stated 80% of the men pictured where below average. The average was below average which shouldn't be possible even. Its rather twisted how things are.
soooo you're expecting to be paid back for acting like a gentlemen (which is something you should have been doing in the first place) by getting a date hmm seems legit.
i would have rejected a guy who asked me for my number while i was out and about, far as i am concerned they could be an axe murderer
How about a "Uh... I'm sorry , you're really cute but... thank you for asking" instead of "fuck off" ? Notice how both were rejected but in very different ways.
ok and this is how many girls? no more than 12? (and that is being nice i was going to go with 7) there is over 4 billion women on the planet i dont 12 is a good representation.
12 what?
Anyway , you do understand it's just a social experiment that shows how women reject dating requests from men and in turns shows how different the genders are come to saying no. It seems it's only helping to how chivalry has been killed by women debate. Can I prove it empirically the majority of women are like that? No , but it does opens a portal into the world of the differences between the genders.
again its small sample size no more than 12 girls are in that video. no girl has to automatically accept a date request from anybody
Neither did the guys automatically accept a date request.
You're missing the point here. Both the guy and the girl were rejected but the difference is the method of rejection.
again small sample sizes for both the guys and girls in that video. you are slow aren't you?
At least now you understand the 1st point of how both genders were rejected.
Let's move onto the 2nd point that I have to reiterate.
"Can I prove it empirically the majority of women are like that? No , but it does opens a portal into the world of the differences between the genders."
"which is something you should have been doing in the first place"
Well, no. I just act neutral and go about my business when I am in public. I don't go out of my way to be nice or rude to anyone. No guys NEEDS to act like a gentleman in public, stop oppressing us with your traditional gender roles and expectations.
yes no one NEEDS to act like a nice or even decent human being but it is out of line when you are nice and expect any sort of payback for it.
@randomusername3464
"but it is out of line when you are nice and expect any sort of payback for it. "
I agree but disagree. Guys and girls like to be rewarded for their actions, it seems. But like I said, I am neutral in public. I don't want to be rewarded or punished for anything. But I've been taunted for being a self proclaimed nice guy before by girls, even though I never proclaimed my niceness, ever. So nobody should complain when guys refuse to play by the rules, please stop oppressing us with your lopsided gender roles.
okay whatever dude apparently you are the (self proclaimed) right one around here have a good life
@randomusername3464
Wait, what? I wanted to have a conversation, it seems like you didn't like me pointing out your unrealistic expectations you hold over others. This is weird.
what am i doing wrong? I said you are now the self proclaimed right one around here. I am agreeing with you no run along and have a nice life.
@RandomUsername3464
Self proclaimed right one? What is wrong with you? Do you really get this mad at a normal conversation? By your logic, you are the self proclaimed right one too.
so i dont agree with you and you get mad? then i do agree with you and you get mad? some people you can't please. I never called myself the self proclaimed right one but you did. i was merely agreeing with you. i am not mad i seriously can not stop laugh at this conversation if anyone is mad its you. @randomusername3464
"I never called myself the self proclaimed right one but you did."
Prove it. I'm not mad, but I am confused about this conversation. But it's a good thing you stopped oppressing me with your traditional gender roles like you did at the beginning.
its kind of self explanatory if you badly want to see how i never called myself the self proclaimed smart one simply read the old replies unless you know you want me to get a plane ticket to Canada.
Haha, yeah but I never called myself the self proclaimed smart one either. And what does that mean, about getting a plane ticket to Canada? Is that a physical threat against me?
Yes you did and when I said I would go to Canada to see you I was kidding. Because to be honest, I think you are an ass. Who has nothing better I to do. @rabdomusername3464
This isn't about guys not getting rewarded, It's about rudeness and coldness. An axe murder? Stop pulling things out of your ass to try to excuse the fact that you (and many other women) need to get over themselves.
so how large of a size does it need to be? for any kind of testing if you take a certain sample size, at random, it will reflect the general public sentiments. It doesn't always work of course but it is accepted scientific way of doing it. So, for you, they should have kept going until they found enough women that are willing to treat men respectfully then stopped right?
The fact is that way too many women, esp the young ones like you, expect men to be a certain way and expect them to put up with bitchy attitudes of women.
No I didn't, and I'm not sure why you are being so rude to me and calling me an ass here. I'm not a gentleman, but I thought we were friends. This is disappointing, brah.
@archdruidmordred it does not matter he could be dexter because i dont know about you but i take dating seriously every person i date is a potential life partner so why would i go on a date with a person i just met. i would like to know someone for a few months before i go on a date
Then just say no thank you. Don't treat him like he did something wrong.
good to know. since you obviously know me better than i know myself so you know how i reject guys *i am stabbing you in my mind* @archdruidmordred
You're defending this behavior so I assumed you acted that way too.
@archdruidmordred no i am being incredibly sarcastic
fuck you bitches like you are the problem
Someone is in a great mood. @aliencreature
pity the fool who can't tell the difference between my mood and her behavior
@The_Empty basically.
@Ginnyweasley
After noticing the downvotes and reading the replies, it almost seems like people are getting mad at you for wanting to say no? That's kinda infringing your rights as a human being. I don't really agree with the whole axe murder thing because that could happen anywhere and to avoid that people usually look for red flags (im not telling you that you can't reject men for that reason I am just giving my opinon on the matter). Also it's kinda common sense to acknowledge that people don't have to be nice to you back after being nice to them, yet you should be nice regardless which I think you said (about being a gentleman regardless). Its a bit immature to think the opposite, life isn't all sunshine and rainbows.. hasn't anyone heard of the quote "Don't expect for a lion to not attack you when you don't attack it"? So in that sense you don't have to be a pushover about it but at least be respectful to other people in general despite their sex.
Also I didn't see anything about her saying that you should reject people rudely she just said to not expect for people to be nice.
@sakurachii no kidding. I am not here to make friends all I am saying is nobody has to accept because a date for someone else because the other person was nice. I could not care less about the downvotes I am not here to make friends just to give my opinion on stuff. Yes it's an exaggeration to say a person I just met the street is an axe murderer. My best friend could be an axe murderer but I have been to her house and she does not bodies plastered on the walls so I doubt that. My point is that I wouldn't go out with someone I literally just met.
I can't deny that tbh. But thing is, girls get catcalled all the time in the streets unlike guys, and it's getting super annoying and tiresome for us. So, you can't really blame us for not being "nice" most of the time since you're the reason why girls think you can be freaks at times.
You guys have no idea how many times us girls had thoughts in our minds like "oh god, stay calm, I hope that creepy dude doesn't kidnap me"/ "oh shit, they're staring. Please don't rape me" while walking alone esp at night..
So, sorrynotsorry..
damn that sorrynotsorry broke my heart *bad memories, nothing to do with you* 😔😞😖
Um whatever that is about, i'm sorry..
@jormungand
Um. You can still approach whatever woman u want but do it differently, I dunno. Some might like it. Or you.
@Rawrzz
BubleSuperBee,
Do you encourage people to say "fuck off?" to strangers, simply because you feel they're creepy? Why not do that to homeless people? After all, many people are creeped out by homeless people (and not entirely without reason). They too fear that homeless people will hurt them. So do you encourage that we say "fuck off" to all homeless people simply because no one is entitled to a friendly response? Should I encourage my students to say "fuck off" to each other if they feel like it, and then justify it by saying "no one is entitled to a friendly response?" If you have children, will you encourage them to say "fuck off" to any stranger who talks to them simply because they feel unsafe?
I get that you are scared and I encourage young men to approach women in a way that makes them feel safe. However, I do actually believe that we owe strangers a modicum of politeness (and politeness is NOT the same as friendliness).
The hell does that have to do with what I just said? Which part says "girls, whenever a dude approaches u in public, tell them to fuck off"?
I'm not encouraging anyone, I was just stating why what the take owner said is true. And that certainly does not include homeless people. Thats a totally different story. @Bluemax
"The hell does that have to do with what I just said?"
Plenty.
You seem to be giving justification as to why that woman said "fuck off" in the video as if it's perfectly understandable, particularly when you say "So, you can't really blame us for not being 'nice'"
And no, the homeless analogy isn't all that different.
If you can say, "So, you can't really blame us for not being "nice" most of the time since you're the reason why girls think you can be freaks at times," then why can't anyone say "So you can't really blame me for not being 'nice' to homeless people since they're the reason why I think they can be freaks at times?"
I wasn't referring *
lmao @ the responses.
"poor poor women get lavished all day and they're sick of it"
For pete's sakes, women. There's nothing wrong with admitting that women feel emboldened enough to be rude to unwanted suitors. It's not a secret and you're not fooling anybody by denying it or rationalizing it. Just own up to it and move on. You're not fooling men, just each other (and maybe getting 17 y/o clueless white knights to mouth the words). It was just a funny video showing what everyone knows!!! Get a sense of humor!
*BIG FACEPALM*
Not justifying the behaviour but for every guy who comes across nice in this situation, then there is a guy who doesn't. My girlfriend called me once crying saying this guy was asking for her number, but he got quite aggressive and intimidated her. Luckily this was in a busy setting so onlookers got involved. You really think my girl is now going to stop and be nice to ANY guy who approaches her in the future... Now she just ignores and keeps it moving. I'm sure there are girls who have been in this position and have adopted a similar approach.
The girl who laughed and said fuck off is completely out of order, needs a drink thrown in her face for that.
You're severely overestimating how kind guys are when rejecting women they don't want. Not having asked a guy out yourself you would have no way of knowing.
You may have been rudely rejected by women what makes you think women have not been rudely rejected by men? By of a video?
if it was common it would happen in the video
I don't think it's actually an accurate representation. If they had tested more girls, I'm sure there would be some that are nice. I've never done any of those replies the girls gave so it's not fair to say that's how all girls reject.
How about saying ''That's how some rude people reject''.
One word for ya:
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Love the gif
@QuestionMan Haha
Despite the editing, the man fits in. =)
This is my new favourite gif.
SO sick of the misuse of the word "chivalry". It never had anything to do with the treatment of women.
Seriously, people need to research the origins of the word.
chiv·al·ry
ˈSHivəlrē/Submit
noun
the medieval knightly system with its religious, moral, and social code.
historical
knights, noblemen, and horsemen collectively.
"I fought against the cream of French chivalry"
the combination of qualities expected of an ideal knight, especially courage, honor, courtesy, justice, and a readiness to help the weak.
So basically they think women are weak.
I don't see anything in this definition about women. But I made a MyTake on this after contributing here last night.
@dragonfly6516
I assumed they include women because of the "readiness to help the weak." part.
@Victoria963 Ah I see what you mean. Yeah, that is true.
I feel like this video should be about how much more awesome chicks are at approaching!
I mean Andrea may have been politely rejected but that girl has GAME!
Watch her all smiling and saying hey, waits for the dude to actually stop and talk to her, introduces herself and asks his name.
Don't see her walking up to a guy who is clearly in a rush going somewhere and just saying Hey i know this is random (i don't even care to know your name) but you're cute, can i get digits?
1st girl he didn't even ask out! That's not being rejected, that's called having shit to do and not stopping to talk to strangers on the street. I mean how does someone watch this and not notice that Andrea is totally schooling you on how to ask someone out! That dude seems like he's not even invested, she's smiling, she's shaking their hands... i mean come the fuck on. Not even comparable!
lol, smh
All these women in this video are very rude. End of story. Those women were in the wrong not the man. Now I am not saying women have to give guys their number but to be strait out rude like that is not acceptable. If the guy had not taken no for an answer and was hassling her then I could understand it but for that to be the first thing for her to say well only those women in that video are at fault.
The woman that said No is rude, at that stage she had no idea what that guy was going to say, she should not assume. The woman that just ignored is also rude because ignoring people is rude and the last woman that said fuck off is very rude and also in the wrong. Like I said if that guy had not taken no for an answer and he was hassling the women then I could understand the women reacting that way.
Guys don't get hit on all the time like attractive girls do though. So if a nice guy approaches you you're so used to creepy, too forward guys that you immediately go on the defense and you're like, "leave me alone!" when the dude's probably harmless.
Don't get me wrong though, that was an eye opener how rude we are in comparison to guys with rejection. I would never say something like that to a nice looking guy but if he looked creepy or was too forward/sexual then I'd definitely tell him to go away.
I don't really blame the women. They probably get asked out ALL the time and are reasonably fed up of it and it's not every day that guys get asked out.
This "experiment" isn't really accurate anyway
This pretty much. It's like imagine getting a phone call about something free or a promotion, you think it must be something good and get excited.. only to just be a telemarketer asking for money and something else. Even if after so much of taking those unsolicitated calls, one is for real you'll end up lashing at that innocent person.
Too much that you don't know who is for real anymore.
I find it interesting that instead of discussion, most of the responses from the women are mainly defending the women in the video.
Bias aside, it's an interesting topic, so why not discuss instead of taking the defensive.
Going to avoid the backlash by goin Anonymous. XD
yeah exactly, rushing to the aid of a total bitch is the problem here. when you coddle someones worst aspects, they grow rampant. its probably why those girls are like this in the first place
What I think:
1. The guy doing the experiment looks way less attractive than the girl doing the experiment.
2. He approached way hotter girls than the girl did. The guys she approached in the experiment are just meh except for 1.
3. If he approached girls who get approached as often as the guys, the reactions could be more polite.
4. Even hot people who aren't rude from the beginning, slowly turn rude, because they have to turn down a lot of people everyday. Imagine having to walk 20 mins to get somewhere and get stopped every 5 mins to nicely turn down a stranger for 3 mins. That's 12 extra minutes of the day that you don't get back and you didn't exactly make 4 new great friends.
1. No.
2. Subjective.
3. Doesn't justify their actions. That's like saying you work for a fast food restaurant and you're tired of customers coming in all day, so you tell them to get lost. Even if they're giving you a hard time, you still be polite to ensure that you create a good image for yourself. These women aren't exactly the epitome of a good person.
3. I agree, but that doesn't justify their actions. Low integrity.
4. Most people love attention, but only from people who they want it from. Still doesn't mean they can be rude to those they don't find appealing. People approach me all the time regardless of gender or looks, and I don't tell them to get lost. These women need to get over themselves and act like adults.
1. Are you gay? He's just meh. She might not have an attractive face to some, but her body is attractive.
2. True, but I think the majority would agree with me.
3. I never said it justifies their actions. The one who said fuck off is extremely rude. I'm saying the guys who get approached just as often as them, think Justin Bieber or any other celeb, are just as rude. Also, false comparison. Restaurant workers are getting paid to do their job. These people are just going about their day and don't get paid for getting approached thus have not to ensure being polite to 'keep a job'.
4. I'm sure you're always polite and take your time with all the beggars and people who want to talk about Jesus or environmental causes that want your money. This is no different. There's nothing wrong with saying "Sorry, not interested". You're not obliged to give anything to everyone who wants anything from you.
1. How can you compare "attractiveness" with guys and girls? It's TWO different genders. Not to mention YOUR opinion of "attractive" isn't the same as everyone else's.
2. This is pretty much the same point I made with number 1. It's SUBJECTIVE.
3. How is he supposed to know this?
4. This is a lousy excuse.
I'm not saying this video is legit (It's probably fake) but your reasons for justifying this behavior are terrible.
I suspect there was some editing involved here, weeding out the responses. I think most women are more polite, and there may well have been some rude responses from men.
I have never done this to any woman, so I don't have a dog in this show. That being said, I think a simple, "No thank you" would suffice. The woman doesn't need to slow down. She doesn't need to disregard her safety.
For those who say you're not entitled to her number, I completely agree. You're not entitled to a friendly response. I completely agree. However, I encourage politeness, and friendly and politeness aren't the same. I think the "fuck off" response was uncalled for. The other responses I'm OK with (though I would have encouraged anyone, male or female, to put say "No thank you" instead of "no."
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