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Bad Body Image. It's Not Worth It. (Page 2)
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Ok but that doesn't change the fact girls will all go through it until they get fed up
Its not that they learn to actually not want those guys. Its that they just get fed up of the bullshit and settle
Thats not the same lol
Uh, if you're fat then you deserve to lose respect for yourself. Guilt can be good, as can insecurity. Perhaps it will make you wake up and DO something about it.
Improvement doesn't happen in a vacuum - you have to MAKE it happen.
I agreed with everything except this first used quote: "To lose confidence in one’s body is to lose confidence in oneself."
Nahh. I can be insecure about my body but genuinely confident in general due to my personality or other physical qualities
Beauty is always in the eye of the beholder. Guys are not perfect, and we do not always expect the same for the woman we want. Two out of three ain't bad.
The body image that we should have is the HEALTHY body image.. not the one that says "Hot girls are thin so I need to be thin too".. and we shouldn't be mean to those who complain about their but instead help them to understand true beauty comes from good health and a good heart.. its easy to say "you should stop complaining" but in reality all of us complain if we are not happy.. so think before you say something... Great message by the way
It's all true but you can't just stop it. I know too well about this, many other girls and boys too. I know I'll never stop though. Insecurities became a part of me. That's who I am now.
"A fit, healthy body is the best fashion statement."
If you are writing this for individuals who are fit and healthy you are not writing this to most individuals. If this is the case it is tragic that even those individuals fall to false perceptions.
Promoting obesity and things that make you sick are moral crimes. You shoild not accept or be encouraged to accept it or be talked into allowing to happen.
I skimmed but don’t think she is.
Yeah that’s not what she said.
@Hidden_P Yet, that is what many in the positive body image is more important than accuraate body image movement end up supporting. Because they do not want other people to accept that when your body is a mess there is no way to have a "positive" body image.
Obesity for life with a positive body image, yay. We would not want to encourage people to not make themselves into lifelong Victims by disregarding body positive people's opinions. Respecting and bowing down to identity politics eccentrics to the bloody end is far more important.
For the average person, we tend to be more critical than even our worst bullies. But it all stems from negative comments someone else said.
I never had a problem like that but damn you are good
but what can i do about insecurity, i am really ashamed that i am so ugly as this thing says because im insecure and that people will hate me for no reason, i know im insecure but dont know what i can do about it
Start doing Boxing, MMA or a hard core sport that makes you sweat the shit out of yourself. After 3 months of good training I made new friends with similar interests, lost weight, gained confidence. I used to be fat and ugly, now I'm just ugly but with lost of confidence, it also helped in other areas of life being more confident.
Honestly it isn't easy not having body image issues when everything is about looks and when you don't have a half decent body ( I'm talking about the type of body that doesn't look better with exercise).
Don’t care about my image. Going to get a baby bump.
I disagree to a degree. My own examinations of shortcomings I have resulted in me doing something to improve or overcome that. As long as it's constructive it doesn't hurt
Having some body insecurity is not only normal, it can be the motivator for you to keep improving.
Great take as always! :) keep it up
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A 'health' body is important though. Too much fat isn't healthy and too skinny isn't healthy.
Some of the most beautiful women I have ever met were BBW's. They were more real, honest, and fun loving than most BMI/HWP concerned people I have known.
The essay is not that bad. Though it starts with an feminist quotation.
But both extreme sides are wrong. Both the care -to-much about-oneself and the I-don't-care-being-ugly are wrong.
me don't want models. men want women who are healthy. being too fat or too skinny is unhealthy.