This is a complex matter. On the one hand, women want to be acknowledged for their looks. On the other hand, they don't want to be judged by them. Guys have to walk a thin line, or they are accused of being superficial or sexually objectifying women...
It only creates a minority of people to create and support a stereotype, thus I'm not claiming stereotypes are rational. However, there they are. I try to get to know each person as an individual.
@VaIiant Oh okay. So tell me all about how the media glorifies non-white women as the most beautiful. Tell me all about the numerous commercials for black hair and skin products. Tell me all about how non-white women are put on a pedestal as being the most beautiful.
“Regarded better” and “thought of as prettier” are very different things. In Latin America or Africa, women of color of that country would be regarded as the most beautiful. The States is a predominantly European country, of course our media finds white Women more attractive.
@VaIiant Not just in America, I know people from all over the world, I live in Florida. I used to teach English as a second language, so I met lots of people. They really like blondes. Have you ever looked at Asian chicks? Half of them have dyed blonde hair.
@VaIiant There is a difference between having pale skin and white skin. Japanese people can have pale skin but that actually is not the norm for most Asians, who still have tannish skin. And it is wrong the way a lot of them love pale skin and how so many Asian women only love white men.
It could be worse. You could be a black girl like me and people treated you like you are a ghetto loud mean and obnoxious and some think you are ugly just because your skin is darker. I'd be a blonde white girl in a heartbeat.
We have a convoluted social structure these days. As a man, I think we must judge how to treat a woman by the queues you display. Soe women what traditional values, some prefer feminism etc
Yah I don't really like all the white woman out there don't get me wrong some are really nice, but I prefer some dark chocolate, you get me (rasicmmmmmm alert)
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men commenting on this site be like, "stereotypes exist for a reason! but somehow i still can't figure out how to get laid, why do all women rely on generalizations"
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This is a complex matter. On the one hand, women want to be acknowledged for their looks. On the other hand, they don't want to be judged by them. Guys have to walk a thin line, or they are accused of being superficial or sexually objectifying women...
It only creates a minority of people to create and support a stereotype, thus I'm not claiming stereotypes are rational. However, there they are. I try to get to know each person as an individual.
i never judge a book by its cover. the only time i believe someone is dumb is after they have opened their mouth...
But at the end of the day you are still regarded better than a woman of a color.
Not in today’s society.
@VaIiant Oh okay. So tell me all about how the media glorifies non-white women as the most beautiful. Tell me all about the numerous commercials for black hair and skin products. Tell me all about how non-white women are put on a pedestal as being the most beautiful.
“Regarded better” and “thought of as prettier” are very different things. In Latin America or Africa, women of color of that country would be regarded as the most beautiful. The States is a predominantly European country, of course our media finds white Women more attractive.
@VaIiant No. We are supposed to be a diverse nation that accepts everyone.
Accepting and finding attractive are completely different things.
@VaIiant Don't fool yourself, 90% of all men think white women are the hottest.
@Bachnalian uh, in America, yes.
@VaIiant Not just in America, I know people from all over the world, I live in Florida. I used to teach English as a second language, so I met lots of people. They really like blondes. Have you ever looked at Asian chicks? Half of them have dyed blonde hair.
@Bachnalian In South Africa, Black women are considered the most attractive.
@VaIiant nah in my country too, im indonesian, and many people here think that white women are pretty and attractive.
@NomNom16 In Asian countries pale skin is desirable, much like tan skin here.
@NomNom16 I know, I can't stand that shit with Asian people. Liking white skin over their own.
That was really bad and many people wanted to make their skin as white as possible...
Uh, for many Asians, very pale skin is natural.
@VaIiant There is a difference between having pale skin and white skin. Japanese people can have pale skin but that actually is not the norm for most Asians, who still have tannish skin. And it is wrong the way a lot of them love pale skin and how so many Asian women only love white men.
Now you’re just giving in to stereotypes.
@VaIiant but that's true 😅
@NomNom16 uh... stereotypes are never true, because they generalize an entire race.
@VaIiant at some point theyre true wether it's not for the entire race. Stereotype stared from something i think.
@NomNom16 some stereotypes are true, but not when you’re trying to generalize every person in the world.
According to this video, since you are a blonde girl. You have a promising career as a thief.
https://youtu.be/RObuFhIDnlMMentioning you being blonde completely discredited the whole take.
Geez! I feel so sad for you. I'm really sorry that you go through this. :(
And blond girls, when they are all cute and dressy look so pretty why would people treat you like that? D:
It could be worse. You could be a black girl like me and people treated you like you are a ghetto loud mean and obnoxious and some think you are ugly just because your skin is darker. I'd be a blonde white girl in a heartbeat.
We have a convoluted social structure these days. As a man, I think we must judge how to treat a woman by the queues you display. Soe women what traditional values, some prefer feminism etc
Well I never thought that judging others by the way they dress is stereotyping, but I guess it is. And I admit, I am guilty!
Yea if you are blonde you have it easier than me and get anyone's attention so I don't see your problem
it's a very wrong kind of attention, so don't worry, you're not missing out.
@PurpleStorm I wish I got at least half of that attention.. Who wouldn't want a tall rich handsome guy?
lool
Yah I don't really like all the white woman out there don't get me wrong some are really nice, but I prefer some dark chocolate, you get me (rasicmmmmmm alert)
men commenting on this site be like, "stereotypes exist for a reason! but somehow i still can't figure out how to get laid, why do all women rely on generalizations"
Some nationalities are smelly and that's not a stereotype it's a fact.
Aren't stereotypes in most cases based on facts?
@Bachnalian no, most stereotypes are based on racism.
On tope of this, them dems, millenniums, liberals and snowflakes make a complete globalist package plan.
Be very afraid now.
Would you treat a guy who looks like a homeless and a guy who is wearing all Canali the same way?
No. Id treat the homeless guy with much more respect
I will take the world over soon.
There will be pizza parties and dancing penguins. It'll be great. No more stereotypes. Just penguins and pizza.
Stereotypes rule a world for a reason: because they are true in much bigger part of situations than they are false
That's because they're real.
Fuck you.
Stereotypes are here to stay!