There Is No Such Thing As A Slutty Woman

[Jason407]

Yes, Girls Like Sex

It's 2018. We know that girls like sex. They like it just as much, if not more, than guys. Girls also don't need an emotional connection to have sex with a guy. Most girls have had many one night stands, so we know that they like sleeping with random guys. It's their life and they should do what they want, judge free. The same way guys should be able to sleep around and not get called "fuckboys". It goes both ways. Both genders like to fuck, so what.

Girls Could Be Way More Slutty

Think about it. Girls have the power when it comes to sex. They choose when sex happens. Now I don't know the stats but I would think the average girl has fucked around 30 guys. Maybe that's wrong but that's what I'd say is realistic. Now obviously really attractive women probably have hundreds but the average girl is probably at around 30. So considering how girls love sex as much as guys, they could have sex like 5 times a day, with different guys, but choose not to. So 30 is actually really low, and for attractive women, a couple hundred is low. Because women could have thousands if they wanted. So really no women are sluts, considering what I just said. They could all be way worse but aren't.

Embrace It!

Who really cares? Girls have lots of sex with lots of guys. Does it really matter? Guys, just enjoy society and go out and get laid a couple hundred times. It's good. Relationships are cancer anyways. Relationships are the worst thing that can happen to a guy so just fuck around instead. Thank girls for being easy, don't shame them!

Thanks for reading!

[englisc]

This is just retarded. Most women sleep around, that doesn't make it a good thing, and yes it matters. Women who sleep around a lot are more likely to divorce, that's statistically proven. They're also more likely to have and spread STDs. More likely to have unwanted pregnancies leaving so many poor kids fatherless because either she doesn't know who the father is or he doesn't want to know. This leads to a fucked up society, fucked up kids, people who are stupid enough to call relationships cancer and see sleeping around as a great thing. You're only 17 so maybe that has a lot to do with your naive views, but still, what you're saying is ridiculous.

[Jason407]

Yeah but most girls sleep around. So why does it matter?

[englisc]

I already mentioned why it matters in my answer. You probably don't understand because you haven't grown up yet, and you're still thi king entirely with your dick.

[englisc]

I probably shouldn't give you so much shit as I was probably just the same at 17, naive as fuck when it comes to women and full of hormones. It's only until you get older that you realise what a retard you were at that age.

[Jason407]

Wait wait wait. I don't have to be 27 to know that girls like to have casual sex with randomers.

[englisc]

But you're not old enough yet to know why it's not a good thing.

[Jason407]

But it doesn't matter because every girl does it. So you'll have to get over it or just die alone.

[englisc]

No, not every girl. Not every guy either.

[Florancerose404]

Not every girl does it, that all depends on their upbringing. For instance I was raised by a Irish traditional family who only ever drilled into me to look for a long term partner and potential husband/farther.
So long term committed relationships.

The trouble is with today’s world they have this mindset that they can fuck any tom dick and harry. Even if they do, you’re either becoming a whore or making the woman a whore by your own actions then when one day you settle the woman may well be weary of you because of your past history with women same thing goes for the women that sleep around, what man wants a woman that’s sat on all the cocks thrown at her, I mean could and would you have a whore raising your child/REN as one day that person will be role model to a child. 🤷‍♀️🙃

[englisc]

@Florancerose404

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TqbI-gTwqyA

[Florancerose404]

True words

[Travis_Skyles]

>average girl has fucked around 30 guys
>Now obviously really attractive women probably have hundreds
>Relationships are cancer anyways
Whaaa? This is fucking bait, right? or are you just an idiot?

[Jason407]

I said in my opinion. I would think 30 is normal. Most women get married around age 30 right, now if they are mainly single for their twenties and late teens, they're bound to have a lot of partners. Like multiple boyfriends, the odd tinder hookup and as well as hooking up with guys on night's out. Most young girls are party girls, they party regularly. So how would a young, single girl who parties a lot NOT have around 30? As for attractive women, they can get whoever they want so they're bound to fuck a lot of guys. Lastly, relationships are a huge cause of misery for people and modern relationships are trash, everyone is an attention whoring cheater.

[Travis_Skyles]

you have a warped perception of females.

[Jason407]

Really? How so?

[ChronicThinker]

Yeah, there is. Sorry to burst everyone's bubble but having a lot of casual sex is slutty. I get that women think it's unfair that men don't get the same stereotype, but if we're being honest, it's because women are basically the gatekeepers of sex. They can get it effortlessly, so when a woman isn't at least somewhat selective about who she throws her body around with, she's a slut.

Sorry, not sorry. Does being a slut make you a bad person though? No, I don't think it does.

[Jason407]

Yeah but 30 partners isn't a lot. Even a couple of hundred isn't that much considering girls could literally fuck thousands of guys. You get what I'm saying?

[ChronicThinker]

30 partners is a shit ton.

[ChronicThinker]

Also, no, it's not plausible to assume someone could fuck thousands of men. There aren't that many days in a year, for one, and you would have to literally dedicate hours of your day fucking 20+ men a day to get those numbers. No one could reasonably do that from a physical standpoint, but then you also have to consider diseases.

[Jason407]

Yeah I guess so but most girls are around 30 so doesn't that make it normal? And considering girls could have thousands, thirty is nothing.

[Jason407]

From age 18 to like 30, girls are mostly single. If a girl fucks a new guy evry month that's alreayd hundreds of guys. And I am not saying it's realistic but it is possible. Most hot girls are in the hundreds so thousands is definitely possible.

[Benedek38]

If you lay with a different person every month - that's slutty.

[Bluedream13]

woke as fuck. I will provide further distinction. Being a slut does not make you an immoral person... so what does bad mean? You aren't evil so there's the good news XD

[GnarCute]

On nooo... I didn't recognize you because your dun have the avatar any more x'D
But ye your right 100%

[Anonymous]

LOL, let's see...

1. Sure, we like sex but we are kinda picky.
2. WTF - 30 guys? Nah, no more than 7-8, most girls I know had even less. Only nymphos tend to have 30 or more guys on average.
3. No way, relationships are great if you find the right person.

[Jason407]

30 seems normal to me. Girls are mainly single when they they're young and they also tend to party a lot. So a single, horny, drunk and attractive girl is bound to fuck lots of guys. 8 is way too low.

[Opinion Owner]

LOL, nope, single or not, but we don't just fuck on parties. 8 is actually very high, most girls had less guys... some of them only 2-3.

[Jason407]

But how is that possible? How can an attractive girl, who treats sex the same way as guys do, a girl who is horny and loves sex, only fuck 3 people. That just doesn't make any sense.

[Opinion Owner]

Because girls tend to be more picky, they select only the hottest guys.

[Jason407]

But there's tons of hot guys. If a girl goes to clubs a lot she's bound to meet many hot guys. So that doesn't answer the question. Something still isn't adding up.

[Opinion Owner]

Not really, girls are very selective, and even then, we don't just have sex with every hot guy, we choose based on some other characteristics.

[Jason407]

But there is millions of guys on this planet. 30 is microscopic compared to the amount of guys she will meet. Girls will meet hundreds of guys in their life, so the belief that she'll only sleep with a couple of them makes no sense. If girls sleep with like 8 guys, at least 5 will be boyfriends. There's no way girls go throaugh college and their twenties, mainly single, and only have 1-3 one night stands. Unless they don't like sex as much as guys or they only wanna do it with special guys.

[Opinion Owner]

Most girls don't have one night stands because of the social norms.
Most girls won't meet millions of guys because some girls live in smaller countries.
Most girls love sex, but only with special guys (special is different for each girl).

[Zefram]

This kid doesn't get it.

[Opinion Owner]

@Zefram Yeah, I guess he is clueless.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for MHO

[MlleCake]

I appreciate what you're getting at here, but you have some of your facts wrong, or well, they are based on just your own ideas and not any real study. Likewise, when a woman is called a slut, it is often based on what people "think" her sex life is and not what it actually is. It's an insult leveled at a woman to damage her reputation, but may have nothing to do with the woman's action, just that someone was angry at her and wanted to slander her.

The truth is, young people are having less sex and delaying sex more these days. Unfortunately, they are using condoms less though, which worries me.

[madhatters4]

"Girls Could Be Way More Slutty"

this statement alone says that women can be slutty but could be sluttier.

yes women can be sluts. men can be sluts. being not selective about one's sexual partners by definition is the behavior of a slut... no big deal. live your life

[Jason407]

Exactly. But girls could have thousands but choose only around 30/maybe a couple hundred if they're hot. So they could be way worse.

[madhatters4]

it's hard to truly gauge because you are dealing with a sensitive subject where people tend to conservatively or aggressively report based on what they think want to hear but most reports i have seen don't put the number of partners over 10 for the average woman in a lifetime

[Jason407]

And do you believe such surveys? Just think about it. Most girls like to party a lot nowadays. So when girls are partying a lot, are single and young, of course they're gonna sleep around. Sex is just viewed as a fun thing to the modern girl and so they like hooking up with guys. So 30 is realistic. Maybe.

[madhatters4]

i'd believe it more than just throwing out a unfounded number like 30. i know few if any women who have slept with 30 people

[Jason407]

But girls have sex. They like sex and have no problem having casual sex. So how do they NOT have many partners.

[madhatters4]

men have sex, like sex and don't average more than 7-10 partners in their lifetime as well. just because people enjoy sex doesn't mean they are running around having sex with all sorts of different people. i love sex. i've been having sex since i was 17. i've probably had sex... jeez i don't know 500xs, 1000xs. still i've only had 6 sexual partners including my wife

[Jason407]

yeah but sex is easier to get for girls. Guys have to get lucky, girls just have to open their legs. Girls typically have way more partners than guys. If guys could fuck 50 girls they would, but girls have that power and they take advantage of that

[madhatters4]

not really true. it may be easier for women to find a sexual partner but it's not as simple as opening their legs. and it also is not especially hard for a man to find a sexual partner. think about this. there are more women than men. if every woman wants to have sex at one time that means every man could potentially have sex

nonetheless the reality is the majority of people are discrete (selective) about sexual partners. just because they can doesn't mean they necessarily do have sex

[Jason407]

Yeah but attractive women can get ANY guy they want. So if girls treat sex the same way guys do, and have attractive guys begging to fuck them, why WOULDN'T they fuck around. 8 just sounds ridiculously low. Girls like and have casual sex so there's no way they stop at 8

[madhatters4]

because people simply aren't as interested in having indiscreet sex as you presume or would think. you are simply stating factually untrue things. "girls like to have casual sex". clearly the research begs to differ, same is said for men.

[Jason407]

Studies show the vast majority of women have had casual sex. The average girl has had 6 one night stands. You're wrong.

[madhatters4]

where did you get that figure. i googled and found 66-70% of women and men admit to having had one night stands. that is both sexes so even if half of those were women it still wouldn't be most women having had one night stands. and even then it doesn't say MOST women have had 6 one-night stands.
please show me some evidence

[Jason407]

What study is that? And yeah the survey was on men and women so 70% of men AND women have had one. Another study says 82% of women have had casual sex. I'll get the links, you get me your one.

[Jason407]

www.google.com/url

[Jason407]

www.google.com/url

[madhatters4]

www.menshealth.com.au/how-many-one-night-stands-women-really-had
www.bustle.com/.../118289-70-percent-of-americans-have-had-a-one-night-stand-plus-9-other-facts-about-casual-sex
www.refinery29.com/.../one-night-stand-casual-sex-facts
www.metro.us/.../one-night-stand-survey-dr-ed

looks like 66%

[Jason407]

The first one states that the average for a woman was 6. So on average girls have sex with 6 guys, unless that statistc includes sex with the same guy.

[madhatters4]

i think i see what you mean. so it says 66% of women have had one-night stands. and of that 66% the average number of one-night stands is 6. so they survey 500. so 330 admit to having had one-night stands.

it's a bit of a grey area as is all research on sexual behavior since you have to ask how they select the respondents and how honest the respondents are being are the over inflating or under representing the exploits.

still from what i've seen it says the average number of sexual partners is from 7-10 for both men and women in their lives... who knows at this point. but in my experience most women aren't especially slutty. i'd say of the girls i know less than 5% would've had sex with 30 or more people thus far

[Jason407]

I suppose. I mean a girl could have had 6 one night stands with 2 different guys, so she answered 6. I don't know really.

[madhatters4]

i suppose. yeah it gets murky.

[devilish-cutie]

my policy is whoever sleeps with a bunch of people is a slut regardless of gender
the only trouble is that you don't have slut word for male gender

[Jason407]

Doesn't everyone sleep with a bunch of people? Especially girls? Like 30 is a bunch but I think that's normal for modern women so that's why I don't think they're sluts. But girls could sleep with so many different people, the fact that they're around 30 (imo) means they are quite sexually conservative.

[devilish-cutie]

there are a lot of religious people that dont sleep around
also, if the person had like 5 long relationships and sleep with them that is not slutty
but if she slept with 5 guys within a year and with no serious intent, that is slutty
just cause it has ben your experience that gils have many sexual partners doesn't mean that is majority; people also often dont tell the truth about their sexual experiences

[Jason407]

Exactly so most girls are just hoes.

[devilish-cutie]

No, you would first have to know most girls sexual past to claim that
In my experience they mostly are not slutty

[Zefram]

Man-whore?
It's totally a slut word for the male gender.
I also call my brother (who has gyrated through the better parts of the Greater Sudbury, Toronto and Winnipeg Areas) Giggolo. Dude has to have had upwards of 20 by now.
Contrast with my 1.

[Jason407]

@Zefram 20 is nothing. He's a beta male.

[Zefram]

Dude. You're making me fucking laugh man.
What's your number? Exactly.
Go troll somewhere else dude.

[Jason407]

@Zefram it's more than you and your brother anyways ahaha beta

[InTimoreDei]

There is actually. "Slodder" is the male equivalent. The only problem is that people don't use it. But maybe they should bring it back.

[devilish-cutie]

we need slodder/men-whore whatever word for it in every languages dictionary, well at least in English

[TheSoundOfSilas]

Fuckboy and gigolo seem to be in use.

[Anonymous]

Wow this was a pile of bullshit wasn't it. Not hard to yell you are still young. You honestly think relationships are a cancer? Probably won't be saying that when you get older. Also 30 is considered low haha. A few hundred is low for an attractive woman. You seriously need to stop watch so many movie and porn kid. Those aren't low numbers. They are on the high end. There is nothing wrong with slut shaming, male or female. Shaming someone has a reason in society, it is to make it known and to deter others from doing something that isn't seen as acceptable in society. Being overly easy is one of these things. It's because it leads to the spread of diseases, cause problems with relationships in society, leads to kids growing up without a parent, and ultimately makes a person a less desirable person in society which can hurt their well being and those around them. Everything you said just sounded like it came from an overly horny uninformed teenager.

[Jason407]

Wait so girls don't like having casual sex? f you're saying that you're wrong.

[Opinion Owner]

No I didn't sat that. I'm saying that you are far off on your number of how many do and to what extent. You said 30 is the average for an average looking woman. 100+ for an above average looking woman. Those numbers are fucked. Where did you even get them? Did you do your own fucked up math? Or did you just pull them out of your ass? The number I keep seeing in multiple studies and also being stated by other users here is the average number for women is 7. That is far off of 30. So sorry kid, you're wrong and your point of view is way off.

[Jason407]

If you're an attractive woman. Who parties all the time (most young women). You can get any guy you want. Girls are also easy when they're sluts. If girls treat sex the same as guys and they enjoy it as much as well as being just as horny. They also see sex as a mere fun thing to do.

This applies to most young girls. So how could a women like that only have 7 partners? Are you kidding me? What bullshit.

[Opinion Owner]

Just because someone parties doesn't mean that they are having sex. Most people that like to go out or party usually don't go home with someone new each night. Also women to an extent don't see sex as the same as men. A lot of women only want sex when they are in a relationship or they want a relationship, men are the opposite and don't really want a relationship but use it as a mean to get sex. Not the same thing. Also men and women are held to different standards in terms of sex. Men are praised for sex since it is hard for them to get, women are shamed for to much sex since it is easier for them to get. They know this, everyone knows this. So they don't sleep with ever guy they see since they will get labeled a slut and be looked down upon. On top of that they know that girls who are seen as easy don't have good luck with relationships, something most of them want. So they don't have a bunch of meaningless sex so they will still be seen as girlfriend material.

[Opinion Owner]

Also the only girls you did discribe is sluts. To which your own question is "There is no such thing as a sluty woman?" WTF! Which one is it?

Of course sluts are going to have high numbers. That's a byproduct of being a slut. Bit not every woman is a slut. The majority aren't. Hench why the average is only have 7 sexual partners in a lifetime.

So if all women are having 30 to 100+ partners. Men must be pulling in the same kind of numbers. If not who are all these women sleeping with? Then if that is the case no one is a slut. That's just normal sexual behavior. But it isn't. Because it isn't true for men or women. You just are delusional kid. Stop looking at women so poorly as if they are all sluts. Something is giving you a fucked up view of women and relationships. Best figure out what it is now before you get older and realize you have serious problems. My guess is lay off watching the teen comedies and more so porn. And go out and interact with some real women.

[Jason407]

Oh and you just know everything right?

[Opinion Owner]

No not at all. But I clearly know more then you kid. You can't even get into a bar or drink legally. So WTF do you know about parties and going out? Honestly how many women do you even know? Now how many do you know have 30 or more past partners? Have you ever even been in a relationship or had sex kid? Because the bullshit facts you are spitting out makes it sound like you don't even know a woman, let alone women or female sexuality.

[SirRexington]

@Jason407. I want to clear something up for a minute. Destroy tour bullshit at the source...

Some people like to smoke cigarettes, some like to drink all day or do cocaine. Does that make those good decisions? Should those people be doing those things? Of course they can, but is doing so healthy or intelligent?

[D_Bone_Steak]

You just have to be that guy they feel they'd be hitting the lottery by getting pregnant by you... then pull out and laugh at their dumb asses.

All you dudes that think a girl will 'act right' because you're going to be a 'nice guy' and 'play by the rules'... prepare for these bitches to cuck you retard. I'm not going to feel sorry for you when it happens either. She won't unless she absolutely needs you, and then she'll be all apologetic about fucking the pool boy, but otherwise you're just setting yourself up for failure.

The rest of you blue pilled individuals will end up giving up all the shit you wanted to do to please her... you'll even end up being a democrat... fucking cuck.

[SirRexington]

Sorry man. Doesn't matter how much you try to push promiscuity to the forefront of life but I hate to break it to ya, fuckboys and sluts exist.

Fuckboys and sluts are shitty people. It's well documented that sex IS more of an emotional act than a physical one which is why many professionals try to discourse casual encounters. Promiscuity is bad for your mental and physical health, that's a fact that we've been aware of for years.

Stop encouraging this harmful behavior. It's 2018, we get it. You don't respect yourself or anyone else. But others do, stop telling people who actually care that they shouldn't because it makes them a prude. Fuck off. I'm sick of this bullshit.

You wanna be a trashcan, I'll treat you and view you like garbage then. You can do whatever you want. But stop expecting people to respect your horrible decisions!

[Anonymous]

There is defenitley such a thing as a slutty woman, if there wasn't the word slut would not exist

[Jason407]

Maybe but it's just a meaningless insult. Most girls sleep around a bit but I think girls could fuck way more guys than they do. Around 30 is actually low considering what most girls could be like.

[thedivaa]

if slut is a meaningless insult then why sluts get all butthurt when they get called it

[Opinion Owner]

@thedivaa exactly and sluts are the first to call other girls slurs.

[thedivaa]

Sluts never call others sluts. Yhey hate thay word. They fight for ending the use of it

[IndieGirlJess]

Jason I think you are talking wishful thinking and wondering why you haven't got past 5. Not everybody likes to have sex like rabbits unless they don't care to be responsible and care of any consequences, pregnancy being #1. Of course being married or in a committed relationship is different. No one has notches on their bedposts then or spend all their time trying to get a girl into bed and wind up with nothing in the end but former lovers in their memory.

[Qwerty_0]

Yes there is. Yes, sex is awesome, we all know that, but I will just as soon call a woman going around trying to sleep with as many guys as possible a slut as I would someone who sits around doing nothing eating doritos and drinking mountain dew all day a fat lazy pig.

[3rdSrike]

1- having freedom is not consequences free, just cause you can do it and are allowed to do it does not mean it has no consequences.

2- you're too young to be a cuck my friend so man the f*ck up and stop being like that, such women are not the kind of women you want to date and marry they are for fun only.

[Jason407]

Most women are like that so guys gotta just accept it.

[TheUglyMan]

Most women aren't like that dude

[3rdSrike]

lol so you're basically saying that most women are sluts and you just gave up, i have news for you, most women are not like that, sure a large number is f*Cked up but good girls exist, look for them and dont settle for the slutty ones.

[Sevenpointfive]

I've fucked some really pretty women/girls. The really pretty ones are as picky as me. I feel really honored that I had the pleasure of their company.

There are those that don't know their worth, but I won't stick it in them because they've been everywhere.

[dmgstarfleet]

I agree with your sentiment-I LOVE "sluts"! However it depends on how slut is defined. IF it is by numbers alone (women admit to about half at most of their actual number) then it would be purely a matter of how many partners. The real point is that slut should be a descriptive rather than a pejorative term

[ultimega]

I'm not sure about those statistics...
an average 30 people, really?

[Jason407]

Yes. Every young girl parties a lot. And seen as girls treat sex the same way guys do, and are just as horny, of course they've been with more than 30 guys. There's no way an attractive girl, who parties a lot has like 10 partners. What bullshit

[levantine99]

this guy doesn't know what he talks about. for most women on earth the average is 8 guys or something. the 30 he mentions might be true in cities like new york and for specific demographics of women.

[Anonymous]

30 is way exaggerated, but otherwise you have some good points. Girls aren't sluts and people should be allowed to like sex instead of being shamed for it!
And indeed, don't hate on someone for being easy, be happy she likes to have that experience with you.

However, it isn't that easy for girls to sleep with guys. We can get turned down too, and then there's things like having time and diseases and feelings and attraction.

[Jemini_Crocket]

30 people? The fak. I agree that we (most of us) like sex as much as guys but 30? lol that's quite high.

[Jason407]

30 isn't high. Girls enjoy sex and treat it the same way guys do. So why, wouldn't they have 30 and stuff? Something isn't adding up.

[Jemini_Crocket]

Even guys here don't fuck so many girls lol My sister had over 30 guys and she IS a slut. Anything over 20 is just too much and even 10+ sounds bad but that's how people here see it. Depends on the opinion.

[Jason407]

I'm not sure. Girls like sex more than guys and just see it as a "fun" thing. So I don't know how they wouldn't have a lot of partners.

[Jemini_Crocket]

Nope. It's all about individuals. Sex is fun but most people still prefer to have sex with one person they actually have feelings for but real love is not really easy to find so it usually takes some people but certainly, not thirty.

[Jason407]

People would date if they wanted to find real love. They wouldn't have sex with complete strangers. So this is still not adding up.

[Bluedream13]

it's because some women are so incredibly slutty they screw the numbers. Some women sleep with 30 men over the course of one music festival

[Zefram]

@Jemini_Crocket Thank you, fuck I saw 30 I was like 30? Holy fuck is that true?
Cause I'm a gullable motherfucker when it comes to sex and relationships I'm new to both man.
I've had fucking 1. Plan on keeping that number. My girlfriend has had 8, 9 with me. I thought that was kinda a lot but she's really nice and sweet and I don't like to judge someone on their past.
Thirty is fucking insane man. Like I gotta ask where you're getting these fucking stats, how many women do you know period. Now how many do you know have been with 30+ guys. If your answer is less than 4 then you'd better rethink your supposed "data".

[Zefram]

Oh by the way I was talking to Jason for that last part.

[StrawberryMan]

Men like sex more than women due to high levels of testosterone. I've even come across quite a few women who said they have no interest in sex, but never men.

[Jemini_Crocket]

@Zefram I think around 10 is alright though even that sounds a lot to me but can't really and don't even want to control their life as some possessive jealous partner.

I believe he got these stats from what he has seen around him like seeing many girls being hoes doesn't mean that every girl is.

[bloodmountain1990]

30? that's pretty high, where'd you get those stats?

That being said, I never ask a girl what her count is. As long as she's clean and treats me right, I could care less. I've had times where girls would volunteer info like that on the date and it only ended up awkward.

[Celtero]

Kid, you're just brownnosing women here hoping you'll get some positive attention from them.

Sluts are fucking gross and worthless partners.

[jellyroo]

Slut is a pointless term to me, it has zero value.
I don't care about your numbers, just bang safely.

[thedivaa]

you have had casual sex. It's obvious

[jellyroo]

@thedivaa LMAO, I've never had casual sex in my entire life. But please, make some more assumptions, it doesn't make you look like a complete moron at all. ;)

[thedivaa]

of course, you deny. Because you know having casual sex is embarrassing

[jellyroo]

@thedivaa I don't think it's embarrassing, Einstein, I just don't participate in it. I prefer to be in an actual relationship with someone who I have sex with.
But you're going to a stubborn naysayer because you didn't like what I said, and OBVIOUSLY you can never make a statement on something (i. e. sluts) without being one yourself. Cleeearly. Wonderful logic there.

[thedivaa]

I am monogamous and one night stands sound totally disgusting to me. You have a positive view on one night stand which contradicts your monogamous views.

[jellyroo]

@thedivaa The way I live my life doesn't have to be hyperimposed on everyone else or else they're bad people. I'm not that selfish actually ;)

[thedivaa]

Are you saying you have a positive view on any lifestyle?
Selfishness has nothing to do with having moral codes

[jellyroo]

@thedivaa Did I say "I have a positive view on ANY lifestyle"? Why are you even asking when you can clearly read for yourself and see that I haven't?
You're being silly now.

[thedivaa]

You are silly.
You pretend not to understand what i said.
Do you have a positive outlook on female promisciity. Yes or no?

[jellyroo]

@thedivaa Nope, haven't said anything about any positive outlook.

[thedivaa]

To me female promiscuity is gross.

[jellyroo]

@thedivaa Good for you, completely irrelevant to me, but good for you.

[thedivaa]

I am glad this doesn't hurt you because many women get hurt when I said I dislike female promiscuity. Good for you

[jellyroo]

@thedivaa I don't need to obsessively apply my feelings about things onto others. I'm living my life and do not need to concern myself with whether someone has fucked zero people or twenty people. It's a waste of energy to make fuzz about.

[jellyroo]

@thedivaa And since I have no desire to fuck around personally, it wouldn't make sense for me to be hurt by your subjective opinion on casual sex. I think you're putting too much care into this opinion, but that's your pejorative.

[thedivaa]

Women get too offended when I say i dislike female promiscuity.

[jellyroo]

@thedivaa That's fascinating?

[thedivaa]

That's insecure of them

[3rdSrike]

"Slut is a pointless term to me, it has zero value. " its not you who cares about that, its us men the people who women are usually attracted to and wanna marry and bang, if we smell slutty we run away, so whenther you like it or not or it has value for you or not literally means nothing, absoultly nothing cause you can't do anything with that opinion and it holds no important whatsoever.

[jellyroo]

@3rdSrike Okay? I don't care since I'm not looking for a man and don't live a "slutty" lifestyle to begin with, but thanks for your input.

[3rdSrike]

Again caring or not caring is really irrelvant, and never said you're slutty

[jellyroo]

@3rdSrike It is relevant to me, since I'm not about to waste my time ranting about people who do not affect me whatsoever, and don't do any substantial harm. The fact that some guys are ticked off by women who like casual sex couldn't be less relevant to me. You're not wanting to bang those women anyway so why make such a fuzz instead of focusing on meeting a woman who can compete with your standards?

It just seems abysmal to me.

[SmileyInk]

Exactly, if shit doesn't effect you, why would you put yourself through fussing about it? You just end-up pissed off at the things you can't control, like the fact that most humans like sex. Sex drive, most people have it and yeah you can call them a slut if you really feel you want to degrade another human for simply meeting sexual needs when you could just not worry yourself with that person (if it grinds your gears so much).

[jellyroo]

@SmileyInk I must agree with this.

[3rdSrike]

@SmileyInk slut shaming does affect you big time, if i tell the guy who wants to date you ( and i have done it before ) that you're a slut he will move on and get the idea of dating you out of his head, you think it doesn't affect you casue you can see it directly affect you but you can be sure that we (men) warn each other always about slutty women, and when we find a slut we pump and dump her, it affects you a lot you just chose to ignore it, which is not a smart move.

[3rdSrike]

can't see it directly affecting you *

[jellyroo]

@3rdSrike What exactly constitutes a "slut", in your opinion?

[3rdSrike]

depends on region really each country has its own tradion, but i were to talk about a western girl , if she has casual sex, had a ONS, had sex on first date, had friends with benefits, had sex with more than 2 people, if she had sex with anyone she hasn't dated a for a long time , steals men from their gfs/wives, has sex for money or any other favors.

[3rdSrike]

girls look at celebs are like " look she's having sex left and right and is not considered a slut " well she makes 100m a year , do you? she has influence over so many people, and they also forget that celebs get divorced so much they're basically a joke as role models.

[jellyroo]

@3rdSrike uhhhhh. That sounds very silly. Where did you get that from?

[3rdSrike]

where did i get that from? me, other men and basically men in general, now you understand why so many women can find a "good" man, cause literally no man is going to walk up to you and tell you this , we prefer to keep it hidden and filter women , you will look at the hot doctor/lawyer and wonder why that girl gets to be his life partner and not you... well now you have a way of understanding why, you really think women's actions are consequences free? you really think a woman can just sleep with 10 guys then have the man of her dream marry her? unless you're lucky af, that is simply not going to happen.

[thedivaa]

@SmileyInk people can dislike sluts. That is their business. You can't change their opinion no matter how hard you try

[jellyroo]

@3rdSrike lmao, how can you use men to determine that women look at celebrities and say "she's banging so many dudes so why shouldn't I"? Silly.
Also, how does money constitute whether you're "allowed" to sleep around or not?

[SmileyInk]

@thedivaa Of course, Its completely up to the reader if they want to shift their perspective or not on the matter, I get that. Just, for sake of understanding, can you give me some insight on why you want to potentially hurt someone by calling them that slur, like you've disrespected them and thats it? Like you didn't get anything from it, they are just temporally hurt?
I get it if you explain that having a lot of sex might hurt their chances for a deeper relationship in the future? (even though that isn't finite, cause who knows who they'll meet)

I just want to know what significance comes from disliking someone who is fulfilling normal human desires?

[thedivaa]

@SmileyInk having sex with many people is not normal. Its imature and trashy

[SmileyInk]

@thedivaa Do you have any explanation for it that isn't highly subjective?
If not thats alright, I dont want to expect too much from this conversation. ^^'

[thedivaa]

@SmileyInk having sex woth many people is risky and shows no self respect. Do I even need to explain this to you?

[SmileyInk]

@thedivaa Explain your views like a good conversation calls for? I'd hope so, see as I asked you to. XD
Now, risky (imo) isn't exactly a well rounded reason, see as driving a car is risky, climbing a mountain is risky, medical surgeries are risky, hell eating food (ya might choke!) is risky!
Risk is a part of life, and its our choice to take those risks for pleasure and adventure and even basic survival; I'm sorry you view risk as something to avoid, nothing ventured nothing gained. Just (as jellyroo put it) be safe in all that you do! Take those risks, but take them safely.

(Not sure what to say about that second reason as that, again, is really up to personal view)

[thedivaa]

@SmileyInk you can still get pleasure without being a slut

[SmileyInk]

@thedivaa But logic like that only works if you feel like being a slut is a bad thing? Ah, I guess this just still boils down to different opinions on the matter, welp I tried.

[thedivaa]

@SmileyInk you think slut is a good thing? Lmfao

[SmileyInk]

@thedivaa I dont think is something to be admired or dissed, it just is. I'm sorry you find that astonishing?

[Zefram]

Fucking 30? Lol in what fucking world?
Show me your absurd fucking sources sir.

[Jason407]

You're way too naive if you think girls have like 5. lol

[Zefram]

No, I'm actually pretty sane and I live in the adult world.
You, on the other hand, are 17 and little shit. Think you know it all and really you don't know fuck. You're numbers are way out of whack, you're take on relationships as "cancer" is fucking pitiful and as a whole I can't figure out if you're just trolling like a son of a bitch or real about this.
'Cause either way you... or maybe you're whole generation but right now I'm just gonna identify you specifically, are fucked with this mentality.

HOW MANY FUCKING GIRLS DO YOU KNOW HAVE FUCKED 30+ GUYS DUDE? NO ONE IS THIS STUPID.
There are a lot of 50 year olds I know who have only had 1 partner. In fact their average is probably something like 6-8. At FIFTY.
Good luck catching Gonorrhea.

[Jason407]

Whatever bro. Girls lie so they'll never admit the truth. Go live in you 1950s dream world

[Zefram]

You're not answering my question and it's kinda proving my point.

[blackmetalelitist]

Sex is awesome! Enjoy it. Just use protection and becareful. Don't need any diseases. Becareful of saying it out loud too, people judge people on their private lives today because they think they are more entitled.