Why Are You So Mad?

[Anonymous]

Why Are You So Mad?

I have noticed this a lot on gag previously. You may find me teasing or putting down a large group jokingly. However, it will never be just a individual person , I view that as wrong, weak, even cruel. In My own past MyTakes, I seem to have really upset a large number of gentleman. To the point some lost their entire vocabulary and could not even speak normal language anymore. They only could curse, try to upset me or insult me, and call me names. Over nothing really so, Why Are You So Mad?

Remember if you get offended by me, you are the only one who cares about that. It's not my problem, or my fault you are so easily triggered by one total strangers opinion. This Mytake I hope will help some to understand themselves a little better, and not offend 7/8 of guys who read it.

Why Do People Put Others Down At All?

As Ass backwards as it may sound, these people feel better about themselves by making others feel worse. They will typically have low self-esteem, and their misguided way of boosting it is to take aim at another person randomly and fire their emotional gun.

Why Do People Lash Out Randomly?

• Displaced Aggression is why

Frustration elicits verbally or physically aggressive behavior that is directed toward the source of that provocation or frustration, typically not matching or exceeding its triggers intensity level at all.

In Displaced Aggression, an aggressive behavior is directed at a person (a total stranger even) that is not the source of the aggression or frustration. Displaced aggression occurs when it is impossible or unwise to respond aggressively toward the source of the actual anger.

That Poor, Poor Ego

Since these men were little boys they have always been taught to win against a girl. In a man’s mind, losing to a woman can be viewed as a shameful weakness maybe worse. Some just can not mentally handle it sadly.

Before a man becomes an adult, his family, friends, and society have already planted this thought in his mind. Better Win! your a boy she's a girl. Fair enough I guess, but when that ego reaches adulthood that ego may change into a egotistical issue for him.

When a man becomes egoistic, his state of mind can suddenly become adamant against logic, so in the heat of the moment, he may ignore the truth and the real situation, and then get stuck in a destructive pattern of behavior.

The deep insecurity inside is externalized meaning, other people are the problem not them. The mind set for an entitled male is to make sure their head is higher than that of women or who they view as a unqualified or unequal men.

If there is a threat to that small mind set, they must fight like the devil to make the world right again. They feel righteously angry for the threats to their place in the world...

It's always easy to point your fingers and blame others, but its much harder to point them at yourself. -GSP-

I hope this Mytake helped someone to understand displaced aggression wither male or female and understand others behavior issues on this site .

Thanks for readying everyone....

#WowgirlRocks

[Snakeyes7]

This stuff doesn’t make people angry because it is making fun of me directly because it isn’t. It makes generalizations that you know isn’t entirely true.

I don’t know of any guy who has meltdowns like these or has that fragile of an ego. Maybe those were the men you were exposed to or maybe it’s projection.

My point is you can’t make a generalization of a group of people over something they are born with because those people don’t have a singular goal in mind like a political ideology so attributing a characteristic on someone based on an unrelated possession makes no sense. This is why no one likes racist or sexist people.

[myTake Owner]

Everyone loves me😂
Noted👍

[myTake Owner]

Good points

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I think lots of people on here take things way too serious. It's just a website people.

[myTake Owner]

Wasn't this better for me. I thought a lot about what you said. I feel this is progression in me writing

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Thanks for mho

[myTake Owner]

Course

[MzAsh]

Some men are just threatened by women and feel the constant need to compete.

[myTake Owner]

I simply agree MZ 🙂

[Obtuse]

I tend to not get so angry these days except in response to truly traumatic events like the passing of a loved one. But I love angry and belligerent humor!

I guess when I go on my cranky belligerent sprees, some people might imagine me with forehead vein popping out of my head when I'm usually laughing and finding it all funny. I struggle to convey mood across just text. There is like a crankiness underlying it all but those minor types of irritations usually seem funnier to me than worth getting truly angry about. I love comedians like Bill Burr with their angry humor.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/eEoDUneWTyM

I want to master this type of thing but it's still a WIP. :-D This is awesome to me especially since I'm from Japan. It's so opposite of the heavily-filtered emphasis on politeness and courtesy here that makes people stifle their own opinions to the point where they can hardly ever share what they truly think.

[archiz]

I know which take you are talking about it.
I agree, and I get also misplaced and out of proportion reactions in some of my posts.
Thing is, you are entitled to have an opinion.
I read your mytake and you weren't rude at all.
So people can disagree and debate it respectfully or just shut the fuck up.
Being condescending like I said to a user isn't a form of communication it is an aggressive attack.
The number one rule in any debate or discussion is to be diplomatic, respectful and detached.

[Mehzmeh]

I love your post.

So, people who are self conscious about anything, lash out. Especially, male's over 30. Because they think the world owes them. And then they hit 40. And knows they fucked up. I have learned that it's not that easy admitting it. It's because, people have been taught that if something you don't agree with, you have to argue about it. Or, put them down. Because, you don't see there point of veiw... Okay, going to stop. Or I, am going to ramble on.

[myTake Owner]

Thank you for that

[Mehzmeh]

👍🏿

[IAMNathanael]

Nah, I ain't mad. I think what a lot of guys (and people in general) should realize is that they don't have to read anything on the internet. Also, when people complain about male behavior, if you (or I, I guess) don't display that behavior, then don't worry about it.

[myTake Owner]

I do display it. It makes me feel bad some men don't embrace basically being a man. I love shooting, fishing, car racing, I do MMA , I drink Bourbon. I feel bad I wish they would at least try doing such things

[TonyMetal_1986]

Thank god i get attacked by male and female and the whole LGBTQ+-×÷ community but all my supports of REAL men and REAL ladies are there for me and the hulk will never be down 😌

[myTake Owner]

Me just men and the T's
I understand buddy

[TonyMetal_1986]

Don't worry wonder owly birdy girl 😊

[bamesjond0069]

Yeah most people are mad because they know they are losers and suck. Men often are mad because they work some shitty job and have a boss who tells them what to do and they have no power over anything in their lives. And women often are mad because they have ruined themselves. Slept around had kids with random guys let themselves get obese and good men dont value women like that and they know it. So all they have left is to get mad at everyone except themselves.

[myTake Owner]

Are you sure we haven't ever dated🤨 you sound just like someone I would or have

[bamesjond0069]

I don't think so. Lol.

[cth96190]

I am not angry, at least not in the way that you described anger.
That would be irrational.
I have lived long enough to see Feminists and sundry other delusional hateful women reap the bitter harvest that they planted during their youth.
Seeing their tears and hearing their laments almost make worthwhile the pain that they caused me.

[Dchrls78104]

A real problem in the West: people refusing to take responsibility for themselves and learn self-control.

[myTake Owner]

Nice

[LEADFOOTboi]

i agree, @WowwGirl... either these people have major issues... or they're just trolling relentlessly... i've trolled a little around here, but but only when i make myself look like an entire BAFOON... because i think it's funny to make myself look like a dumbass while arguing with strangers

[TestUser9823]

The fact that men have any power in this world at all. Men deserve to be subordinate to women. The fact that more men than women have COVID-19 makes me glad. I only hope that a significantly larger number of men die from COVID-19 than women. If only Boris Johnson died from the illness. Maybe then a woman would have been brought into power.

[77gnat]

Wahhh wahhh you're a snowflake and a cuck! Wahhh women/bitches hate me but I'm such a nice guy wahhh wahh. I reported you! Wahhh you're a snowflake why won't you date me! I'm a white victim and everyone is taking my guns and rights away... wahhh Imma nice guy you assholes! Wahhhh wahhhhh (I blame their parents and eventually them for not wanting to be a better man). Good question... wahhh wahhh you made me read,!

[cgehr783]

Dude your sexually frustrated. You should take care of ur needs until you figure out how to attract a mate. Ur not going to do that by taking ur anger out on women online.

[77gnat]

@cgehr783 Let me guess. You broke your sarcasm meter in a snow blowing accident?

[Desire-for-Greatness]

Generalizations make people mad. Especially if the generalizations carry a negative connotation.

Statements like: men are...

Women are...

That type of stuff makes people angry.

[apple24]

Because I have to work and my feet hurt! Because I want an iPad but my feet hurt so I can’t.
because I have to learn a subject but then my brain hurts!

[BlackWidow93]

I'm mad because I can't figure out Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild. I suck at life man...

[myTake Owner]

Me too

[BlackWidow93]

I'm glad I'm not alone

[Sevenpointfive]

i read this right after a post i think just validated the one i had just commented on.

[888theGreat]

You can send me an AR-15 and it is all good!

[myTake Owner]

🤔...

[Jjpayne]

Who's mad? What's going on?

[myTake Owner]

My MyTakes are insane dude

[1828avaava1828]

Nice take!

Wowgirlrocks

[myTake Owner]

Avarocks

[backdoorman]

Oh fuck, you again? Get a life, butthurt girl.