Many Men don't realize the amount of power that they have!

[Anonymous]

Introduction

It's true when they say men are the ones in power, in this my take I will discuss the many reasons why men are in power.

Men can get a lot of women unemployed.

no more money on OF, PH and TT!.

Most of the supporters of p*rn hub, only fans, tik tok etc. are men and so if the men there decide to stop using their money to pay the large majority of women on those apps then a large population of those women is going to be unemployed or living pay check to pay check.

Men are the ones who give women the most validation.

Men are not shy of giving women attention and validation and to be honest a lot of women love it even if they pretend like they don't, so if men decide to stop giving women attention and validation especially online where they do it the most then many women's worlds will be completely shattered, tears will be shed, ego's will be popped, self confidences will be perished.

Men can hurt many woman's feelings severely by just telling her that she is unattractive and by rejecting her advances.

literally!.

If single men unite and start a common list for standards for women a lot of women will follow those standards.

They say majority rules so if men united and formed a list of standards for women who want marriage or a relationship like for example, be a virgin, have less sex partners, don't wear make up, know how to cook, etc.. and they promoted this list a whole movement would be built on it and many women would start following it and a lot of men would stop complaining about how disappointing it is to date women in 2022.

Women did it too and now more men are going to gym, getting jobs, making money, and doing a lot more things girls said they are into in order to grab their attention, lock them down and then make a baby with her.

If a lot of men stop using social media then a lot of women would stop using social media.

Many women who go on social media go there to seek attention from men anyways.

Men can start their own movement and come up with a name for it,

Man Chester United✊✊🏻✊🏼✊🏽✊🏽✊🏿.

Where they highlight the issues they have in society like, abuse by women, unfair child support policies, fair trials is they are accused of abuse or assault, etc. If this becomes a thing modern feminism nay even become abolished.

Men are the ones who decide if whether they want to marry you or not.

Most women are straight and are into men and most women really want marriage so that speaks for it's self. Also men are the one's who get down in on one knee in most cases.

If a man hits a woman back for hitting him first she may just end up at the ICU.

Most men are much stronger than women naturally, so all the girls that hit men because they take advantage of the fact that most men do not hit women you may just hit the wrong one one-day. And the guy may not not go to jail if he hit her back as self defense, I know some girls like playing the jail card unfairly so... yeah!

If men realize that they should date their love interests for long before marriage a lot of relationship problems will be solved.

A lot of women are going to act out the qualities you stated that you want on the list I talked about earlier so the only way to know if a woman is practicing those things genuinely and that they have become her genuine habits is to date her for 1 whole year before marriage.

During that year observe her keep score of her slip ups and mistakes if her mistakes are few and are not so serious forgive her she's trying and no one is perfect, if they are serious repeated mistakes dump her ASAP and find a new woman, and repeat the same process on her.

Men make better bosses(leaders) than women.

Women are not biologically wired to be bosses, we are biologically wired to follow orders from bosses. We are hormonal, we are mostly sensitive, we can be moody, we mensurate and so If we lead it becomes much harder for us but to men it comes easily, men's biology makes it much easier for them to lead.

Men are less sensitive (have you heard how men take jabs at each other and find it funny lol), Men are less hormonal( there are a lot more moody women than men in the world) I feel like men find it easier to put their emotions aside and get down to being a boss whereas women struggle with that because women are more emotional.

The reason why women are emotional, moody, hormonal is because we are wired to bring life into the world. That's our nature we were built to be mothers not leaders and all the qualities we have in terms of being more emotional make us good at catering to our kids needs and at being a good mom. Our qualities as women also make us great followers, because there is no leader without a follower, leaders need followers because they play important roles as well!.

Men were built to be leaders that's their calling and they excel at it! most male bosses are awesome and most female bosses are not doing a good job at being a boss!. Of course men and women were wired for other things too but I'm just mentioning this one aspect for this take.

If men realize that there are a lot of women who are much better than the one you have now they are going to be dangerous!.

There is a woman who is much better than the one you have right now, finding her may be hard but everything is hard in this life as the wise men say. So if ever you are finding it hard to break up with your woman when you do want to break up with her, remember there's women who are way better for you out there.

If more men learned how to be happy and content while being single society will be in trouble.

Society is in trouble because men like that are seen as a threat, I read the Gag post on this, it was quiet epic. It's because 1, human extinction will be trending because the population will drop and society will panic, they'll probably start paying people to reproduce and may be even marry, and 2, the single women who want relationships and kids are going to be very very frustrated by these men. While these men enjoy being single and have a blast!.

I wrote this hoping that I included some points that have not really been seen before, I don't know if I did a good job at that though, I am not going to mention all the other things many men do that are very great like working to provide running water, farming, electricity, IT etc. Because then my take will be long. But men really do run this show, they are the bosses of the world, it's natures gift to them.

Us girls motivate each other a lot so I wanted to make a my take for the guys, so chin up guys 👍.

men have a powerfulness✊!.

[ManOnFire]

Ummmmm, it's interesting. But I think a large reason men don't realize their power is because women don't want them to. Did you forget that today's women are all about having the power, and especially over men? They want men to believe themselves as actually inferior to women. Not sure if you were being mostly sarcastic with this Take or not, but I’ll kind of piece through it anyway.

Men can get a lot of women unemployed.

- It’s a cheeky concept, and I do hate the OnlyFans and TikTok women, but it wouldn’t put that much of a dent in a woman’s income. A woman can always find another sexual outlet for cash, like prostitution. What women criticize men for using but think it should be okay for women to do it. Contradictory much?

Men are the ones who give women the most validation.

- Women love blaming men for why women do things to get attention, when the truth is that women care 10x more about what other women think, especially in looks. Constantly competing with one another. Women already ignore the very men who give them attention anyway, and I’m pretty sure if men didn’t give them all the Likes they get on social media, it still would not stop women from wanting or trying to get attention. They might actually try even harder.

Men can hurt many woman's feelings severely by just telling her that she is unattractive and by rejecting her advances.

- This I can say is definitely true. A woman who is thought to be hot by 20 men will still have an amazingly fragile ego just from knowing there is one guy who literally does not think she is good-looking or at least particularly special. A man who is not giving the popular hot girl love and attention really gets inside her head.

If single men unite and start a common list for standards for women a lot of women will follow those standards.

- I really wouldn’t ever want men to come up with any standards. Because all the “high standards” bologna is a manipulation strategy women use to try to get men to jump if they ask her how high. Women proclaiming high standards almost never have them anyway, and largely limit their ideas of standards to what should only qualify for a relationship, and are never the values and characteristics that she should be practicing every day.

If a lot of men stop using social media then a lot of women would stop using social media.

- Still don’t think that’s true. I think they would use it even more, and would love that they can be seen and just compete with other women. It would just become a girl scout club.

Men can start their own movement and come up with a name for it

- Not something else I would want men to do either. Although we already have with the whole Men’s Rights thing, and that hasn’t been taken seriously this far either, so…

Men are the ones who decide if whether they want to marry you or not.

- True. And I would say this is definitely an area of power for men.

If a man hits a woman back for hitting him first she may just end up at the ICU.

- If it were that simple women would’ve long understood that men deserve respect too, so just gonna skip this one.

If men realize that they should date their love interests for long before marriage a lot of relationship problems will be solved.

- That’s trying to say that men are largely the ones who don’t date for very long before marriage, when it’s usually the women who want to jump into marriage before long because they're afraid if they don't get married fast they're gonna lose the guy. But your points here are good: A lot of women are going to act out the qualities you stated that you want on the list I talked about earlier

Men make better bosses (leaders) than women.

- Mostly true, yeah. Most of the women in high positions I worked with in the past were usually the problematic ones, and serpentine while still smiling at you. Male bosses can sometimes be assholes but it just comes with the territory I think.

If men realize that there are a lot of women who are much better than the one you have now they are going to be dangerous!.

- Doesn’t this open the door for cheating? Women already worry that a guy is going to look at another one and think she’s better than what he already has. So I don’t think that approach is very wise.

If more men learned how to be happy and content while being single society will be in trouble.

- I think single men are happier than single women. Single women are perpetually lonely and sad about being single and worried about staying that way forever. You hear all the talk of how women are less depressed because they are more social and have friends, even though the truth is they’re often socializing to try to cure their depression, but are down again when they’re alone, and don’t know how to be happy with themselves. It’s a lot of women who are fake and pretend they’re living the life with their friends, eating out, and traveling, and who especially love displaying that on social media, but at the end of the day are insecure and depressed. A lot of the unhappiness you hear about single men is usually related to the ones who just aren’t having sex.

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[myTake Owner]

ummmm thank you so freaking much for reading my take and for giving feedback I love feedback I will respond to some of your feedback though Just so I can further explain my perspective of things as I was writing my take.

Men can get a lot of women unemployed.
I included prostitution in that list it goes as part of the etc. men are the ones who support these sex workers and so if they stopped supporting them well they'd go out of business. The purpose of this my take was to show men how powerful they are.

[myTake Owner]

If men realize that there are a lot of women who are much better than the one you have now they are going to be dangerous!.

This statement is very very true though, and I wrote it because I'm tired of seeing men stay in relationships with horrible women, also if you look at my approach I wrote it as a way to show men that if their ex is not cutting it they can most certainly find a better woman who will cut it, I did not encourage any guy to cheat, some of us women are told that there is always a man who is better than the one you have now too but most of us have never cheated on our partners. so whoever uses that as an excuse to cheat, well good luck to that guy.

[myTake Owner]

Men are the ones who give women the most validation.

I am a woman in my 20s and trust me when I tell you that firstly a large number of women are straight and are into men, the reason why they care so much about their looks is not because they care what other women think it's because they care what men think. Men most men love beautiful women so that's why women try so hard to look attractive, you see in the bbw community the women there are remaining fat because there are fat fetish men who validate their unhealthy habits and who validate them for being bbws. This whole thing is a ploy but I'm exposing it!. Oh yes women do compete with other women but they are competing for a man's attention and they use their looks to do that, so if men start paying attention to women with plastic surgery, then other girls will go get plastic surgery so they can get attention from men too. look at the large number of women wearing revealing clothing do you honestly believe they are doing it for other women? its genuinely for the men like I said there is a large number of straight women in the world, bisexual and lesbian women are a minority. If that's the case then women are wearing these revealing clothes, make ups, high heels to boost their appearance so they can attract men and thus get validation from them I even went and asked women why they wear revealing clothes and make up and they said because when they wear modest clothes with no make up not many guys give them attention and usually they get ignored but when they bring out the make up, revealing clothing, high heels then they get a lot of attention and they love it!.

[myTake Owner]

If single men unite and start a common list for standards for women a lot of women will follow those standards.

I wrote this to show men that it's definitely doable and it being doable is due to the fact that men have power, men already did set standards for women but it's not a large number of men pushing forward those standards so the echo dies out but if more men join in and promote these standards well then it will happen its already happening some women are practicing those standards set by men. Men are saying they want women who are not fat, women who are willing to learn how to cook or who can cook, women who are smart, women who do not yell and nag, women who do not get physically abusive, woman who dress modestly in public and provocatively only for them in private, women who are virgins or who have a low body count, A woman who will never cheat, woman who are not single mothers this is a gist of the standards most men are claiming that they are looking for in a partner. Like I said men are doing everything girls said they are into in order to attract them so its fair for men to do the same and tell women what they require from them, they didn't need me to tell them this though they already came to gather and set standards all they need to do now is echo this louder!.

[myTake Owner]

If a lot of men stop using social media then a lot of women would stop using social media.

by social media i am referring to dating apps, insta, snap, etc a lot women who go there really do go there to seek validation from men if you look at the comment section for the women who use those things and the dms they are from thirsty men and from men who tell them how attractive they are. they get very little comments from other women most comments come from the men. and then the owners of those media platforms have realized that ohh a lot of girls are on here so lets get them to promote products for our sponsors targeting what women who come here are interested in which is clothing, fitness products, make up, hair products, big bum and curve exercises, plastic and cosmetic surgery and they call the women who promote these products insta models and these products are literally all the things women use to attract men.

[myTake Owner]

If a man hits a woman back for hitting him first she may just end up at the ICU.

I listed it here to show men that they are powerful, unfortunately women who like beating up men are so dumb that they don't realize that if that guy hits back then they might just see themselves at the ICU. hopefully they'll read that and stop hitting men.

Men can hurt many woman's feelings severely by just telling her that she is unattractive and by rejecting her advances.

well said on your part! and I completely agree.

[myTake Owner]

If men realize that they should date their love interests for long before marriage a lot of relationship problems will be solved.
It's just a tip I hear so many men say when I married my wife she was a doll then after 6 months she turned into a monster, So if men realize that if they date the women for longer before marriage they'll get to see all her true colors, it gives them the upper hand also because like I said men are the ones who are in control of who they marry. Dating a woman for longer before marriage will enhance a man's control. if it's the women who try to push marriage early before y'all have even dated for a year refuse she's most probably trying to do that so she can get you to marry her, reveal her true colors and then y'all divorce and she gets the benefits hence why i said men need to unite and speak up for themselves so divorce can be more equal and benefit both parties equally.

Men can start their own movement and come up with a name for it.
Mens rights is working, now men who hit women back as self defense don't go to jail usually, false rape charges backfire against women, women get in trouble for abusing men , and there are other men's rights which are taken seriously so it seems to me that this man's rights movement is progressing slowly but the bright side is that it is progressing.

[myTake Owner]

If more men learned how to be happy and content while being single society will be in trouble.

Well I'm single I only started dating at 19 had my first boyfriend but we broke up and after that I stayed single and I'm loving it, I'm happy but no human stays happy for a long time our emotions fluctuate, you get sad, annoyed, neutral, scared etc.

so those feelings are normal. there is no way to escape loneliness and depression you can certainly feel depressed and lonely with a good partner by your side. so loneliness and depression don't happen because you're alone they happen because of how you think, people who can think positively and realistically never feel lonely even when they are alone but even if you don't feel lonely, you'll feel sad, you'll feel happy your emotions are going to fluctuate we are human after all and no human stays only being happy. Getting into a relationship won't make you happy because happiness comes from within you it's all about how you think and how you deal with your negative emotions if you are able to channel and express your sadness, anger etc. in a healthy way then you'll be happy, if you are able to think positively and realistically about life then you'll be happy.

[myTake Owner]

Therefore anyone can be happy alone, I've met happy single women and they were a breath of fresh air you could tell their happiness is genuine! it was amazing happiness is infectious. Oh yeah agreed social media is fake, people lie on there and only post the versions of themselves that are good not the bad genuine ones, and they just love rubbing in their successes that's very toxic that's why I'm no longer on most social media platforms.

Also nothing is easy being a single person is hard it's not easy to train your mind to think positively and realistically and its not easy to express your emotions in a healthy way but once you get this down you'll reap the benefits!. but yeah nothing in this life is easy everything comes with challenging disadvantages.

glad to see that there are some points where you agreed with me!.

[ManOnFire]

Yeah, some of these are true. This is a strong point: "Like I said men are doing everything girls said they are into in order to attract them so its fair for men to do the same and tell women what they require from them"

[Belgie]

"Men can hurt many woman's feelings severely by just telling her that she is unattractive and by rejecting her advances"

What advances? Women almost never make the first move. They do something incredibly subtle, maybe, and lie to themselves that the guy noticed and is aware. Then when he does nothing, she says he rejected her.

Utter nonsense.

[ManOnFire]

@Belgie That’s true too, yeah.

[Asad1ONE1]

Where do you get these ideas from? Twisted minds.

Besides, men do have standards you know? I'd actually like to call them preferences.

[Asad1ONE1]

Also, the twisted Anonymous patronizing troll actually thinks men are the ones that decide to marry. What is she 5 years old?

It's a mutual thing.

[Asad1ONE1]

And single men and women can both be either happy or miserable, depending on the person and not your gender. Same with wanting sex or not.

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Wow you are right on

[myTake Owner]

oh thank youuu!😊

[JustAnj]

Please do not take this offensively. I am going to disregard your commentary and focus purely on the main subjects.

"Men are the ones who decide if whether they want to marry you or not."

I feel like this needs to be worded better because this really reflects the idea that men have power over women when really it should represent how men have power over thier choices.

"Men are able to make life changing choices for in thier relationships that effect thier futures."

- Maybe someone else can find a better way to say this, everyone is different in how they see thier futures.

"If men realize that they should date their love interests for long before marriage a lot of relationship problems will be solved."

I agree though I have a bit of a issue with the "A lot of relationships problems will be solved" due to the nature of change, when we get older we find ourselves growing. This can complicate things in a relationship may a person have had love interests thier partner they desired.

I think men should follow love interests that will allow them to grow with a person over material reasons. This would take a lot of awareness on men's part to separate the things they truly value in one's character over thier outer beauty.

"Men make better bosses (leaders) than women."

This one I think can also be reworded.

"Men make great bosses and should continue to be great leaders."

Men are capable of great leadership by influencing others to be great characters with flaws that show growth and improvement. They represent father figures to the youth and represent authority and strength.

There is so many qualities a man holds with the ability to strive for growth and diligence. It's an empowering influence so much so in our youth we all look to meet those standards in ourselves.

"If men realize that there are a lot of women who are much better than the one you have now they are going to be dangerous!"

I think we should give men more credit, this gives the idea that women hold power over men. When men have mental stability and strength, a man has the ability to hold himself accountable for his self respect and no man will disrespect himself for a unstable future when they choose the one they are in. Men are great leaders and seek to be even greater. They do not look to lower Thier self respect or standards they strive for growth in storms to balance the storm.

"If more men learned how to be happy and content while being single society will be in trouble."

I think this comment subject disempowers men into believing they are not allowed to be happy in themselves.

Men being happy and content is a necessity as a single man, men should seek out self love and should strive towards growth so they can be happy. This allows room for the right person to come into thier lives that adds growth to thier happiness. This way they are truly happy and not chosing the wrong partner out of fear of being alone.

[ObscuredBeyond]

The powers that are tolerated worldwide want to especially weaken western men, by filling women's heads with so many things that just aren't so, that they become governable only by the powers that are tolerated, their sheepherders, and by no other sense of principle. Impossible to control any other way, foolish, senseless, so you'd be a fool to even want them, let alone exert control over them, or even want to.

At the same time, men are neutered culturally at every opportunity, made to either not know their true power, or be shamed for attempting to exert any of it at any time for any reason.

This is especially cancerous in woke advertising, which has polluted the western corporate world to the point of being unable to think outside of the associated prejudices.

White Americans are especially the target of this sort of role conditioning.

The woman, assuming she isn't gay, is always nasty, controlling, barely lets the man get a word in, is magically always right, and the money always magically exists to cater to her every insane commercialist and materialistic demand. Even if they can't afford X, there are ways to protect yourself and your family without purchasing X, and her parenting is largely to blame for her kids becoming clueless and defenseless idiots, it's always his fault, never hers, because reee.

Moreover, he's always portrayed as having no value outside of being an ATM. He's bumbling, stupid, weak, clueless, beta cuck, and you wonder how the hell she ever saw anything in him worth pursuing in the first place if she constantly harangues him like an object to be hated, but don't question the logic.

Yes, she's even portrayed as a know-it-all if her husband is a black man, but he's at least allowed to remain cool and savvy, in spite being a clueless idiot. There, they at least don't play up verbal abuse for comedy.

Don't think this indoctrination is pervasive enough? Let's look at Disney princes. One-dimensional buffoons in the beginning, who exist only so the heroine can get married as a way to solve all her problems.

In the Renaissance era, Beast was the first time that the prince was allowed any depth. But they made him a douchebag, and he has to change everything about himself to be worthy of a girl who does virtually nothing.

Aladdin was a con man. Even in the Disney knockoffs, Dereck was a shallow fool, Dmitri was a con man, etc. Milo was pathetic, Hercules could only impress the girl because he was literally a demigod, and Tarzan had the mind of an ape.

Then came modern Disney. Naveen: lazy and worthless until the girl makes him give a crap. (And he learns that voodoo kinda sucks). Flynn: thief and conman. Adjusting for inflation, Frozen gives us Hanz and Kristoff, a con man and a weird loser, respectively.

Moana doesn't even bother with a love interest. She gets to help a lost demigod regain his honor.

Even in Power Rangers, girl power only shines half the time because the dudes get arbitrarily nerfed by phlebotinum for an episode. RPM had an especially egregious example, with a magic gas that only causes men to fall asleep. Because making Venjix a sexist will REALLY sell how evil he is!

I'm not even going to bother discussing the dumpster fire that is most Netflix adaptations.

When it comes to exerting this power you speak of, modern western men are damned if they don't and damned if they do.

[Anonymous]

Nice MyTake, thanks for posting it. I agree with most of it but have some comments...

“Men can get a lot of women unemployed” – It is much easier for a woman to get a man fired by accusing him of something, which literally happens daily in places like the US.

“Men are the ones who give women the most validation” – True, but the reverse is true as well.

“Men can hurt many woman's feelings severely by just telling her that she is unattractive and by rejecting her advances” – This is true for both men and women.

“If a lot of men stop using social media then a lot of women would stop using social media. Many women who go on social media go there to seek attention from men anyways” – I don’t think so, women love social media far too much and I don’t think it would change much is men stopped using it.

“Men can start their own movement and come up with a name for it” – We already have, it’s called the Men’s Rights Movement.

“Men are the ones who decide if whether they want to marry you or not” – This one is definitely true, and women have screwed themselves badly here. Women are the gatekeepers to sex and men are the gatekeepers to relationships and marriage, and men are taking their gatekeeper role MUCH more seriously than women are these days.

“If a man hits a woman back for hitting him first she may just end up at the ICU” – Um, if a man hits a women back he may just end up in jail.

“If men realize that they should date their love interests for long before marriage a lot of relationship problems will be solved” – The problem is that relationships and marriage are much less beneficial for men today than in the past, so many men are avoiding them and opting instead for casual sex.

“Men make better bosses (leaders) than women” – This is objectively true. Men are better leaders in general, and as employees many women prefer male bosses because female bosses can be very hard on other females. I have heard countless women say they hate working for female bosses.

“If more men learned how to be happy and content while being single society will be in trouble” – We already are doing that, and the problems that is creating for society have only begun.

“Society is in trouble because men like that are seen as a threat” – Very true, and many people are in denial about that fact.

[myTake Owner]

Thank you for the compliment so I posted this to shine a light solely on the advantages that men have I did not want to highlight women's advantages at all, just the men's advantages that make them powerful if you want to see my thought process and a further explanation of my points please do consider reading my comments on Man on fire's comment section. I appreciate all your points they are true, and I appreciate the effort you put into writing this.

[myTake Owner]

oh no wait some of your points are true but i disagree with others I would copy and paste everything on here but I dunno what works for you most stuff i said on his comment section is what i would have said on yours.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe you can just tell me briefly which points you're referring to and I'll go read what you wrote about them under man on fire's post. I read through it at a high level and it wasn't clear to me which ones you disagree with me on.

I do understand why you wrote this and I appreciate you doing it. You are right about men having more power than they sometimes think, but I think the bigger issue today is that women have a lot of power and privilege that they take for granted or just deny.

[myTake Owner]

The part where you said men get hurt too when women tell them they are unattractive or reject them, Men say that many of them have been approaching women for a long time and they get rejected by them sometimes or most of the time and so rejection becomes more of a norm for men but for women on the other hand she goes to social media and gets a lot of dms from men giving her attention complimenting her, thirsting over her so her ego gets super inflated and then when that one guy rejects her she's gonna have a tough time getting over it even when there's 20 more knocking on her door. It's happened to me when I got rejected by some men so the men who explained this to me were spot on!.

same with when a woman gets told she's unattractive because she gets so much attention from men especially online when she runs into 5 guys who tell her she's not attractive to them it's gonna crush her soul immensely even though there's 20 other guys who tell her she's super attractive to them. But guys girls are mean to most guys usually they straight up tell them that they are unattractive so they get used to that and they accept it and even find ways to max up their looks, so if you say to a guy oh you're ugly that would not hurt most men, some would even be like you're right or I know. Also because most men don't get that much attention from women online especially.

[myTake Owner]

Men can start their own movement and come up with a name for it.
Mens rights is working, now men who hit women back as self defense don't go to jail usually, false rape charges backfire against women, women get in trouble for abusing men , and there are other men's rights which are taken seriously so it seems to me that this man's rights movement is progressing slowly but the bright side is that it is progressing.

[myTake Owner]

If a man hits a woman back for hitting him first she may just end up at the ICU.

I listed it here to show men that they are powerful, unfortunately women who like beating up men are so dumb that they don't realize that if that guy hits back then they might just see themselves at the ICU. hopefully they'll read that and stop hitting men.

[myTake Owner]

If a lot of men stop using social media then a lot of women would stop using social media.

by social media i am referring to dating apps, insta, snap, etc a lot women who go there really do go there to seek validation from men if you look at the comment section for the women who use those things and the dms they are from thirsty men and from men who tell them how attractive they are. they get very little comments from other women most comments come from the men. and then the owners of those media platforms have realized that ohh a lot of girls are on here so lets get them to promote products for our sponsors targeting what women who come here are interested in which is clothing, fitness products, make up, hair products, big bum and curve exercises, plastic and cosmetic surgery and they call the women who promote these products insta models and these products are literally all the things women use to attract men.

[myTake Owner]

Otherwise I agree with everything you said!!! one hundred percent, with marriage I think nowadays the people who get married do so to uphold their religious practices so for those people marriage is still beneficial but otherwise you can be happy as a single, unmarried person even if you are religious despite your gender. Who ever said you need marriage and kids to be happy is a liar, People nowadays are single, childless and happier than ever, happiness is a choice its about how you think if you can think positively and realistically then you will be happy despite being single or married or in a relationship. But if someone wants kids and a wife or husband then they should go for it hopefully my take will help that man because I did this for the men.

[Opinion Owner]

So you think rejection or criticism is somehow easier for men to take because it happens to them more often? Think about that for a minute. Sorry but you're wrong about that one.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, the men's rights movement (MRM) is progressing, but very slowly. It is not taken very seriously yet though.

[Opinion Owner]

I think we are on the same page with respect to men hitting women.

[Opinion Owner]

I see your point about social media. You are right on that one.

[Opinion Owner]

Anyway, thanks again for posting this mytake. It's a good one!

[myTake Owner]

Like I said men told me this I dunno all I know is that when i was a social media junkie and one guy rejected me I would be so bummed that I did not even feel at all consoled by the 10 others who were interested in me. I think if you experience something over and over again you may get immune to it, So when the guy told me that or said that because he got rejected so much he learned how to be okay with rejection and not get as affected by it it made sense. even with looks he said because he got called ugly a lot he got used to it and being called ugly stopped affecting him. We are creatures of habit after all we were designed to get used to things if they happen over and over again.

[myTake Owner]

thanks a bunch!!!

[MountAverage]

Oh wow, a pink incel. That's new.

"Men can get a lot of women unemployed."
- Yeah, that's a bad thing. We need to change that.

"Men are the ones who give women the most validation."
- Sexual validation, yes. There's more important validation than that though.

"Men can hurt many woman's feelings severely by just telling her that she is unattractive and by rejecting her advances."
- This goes both ways pretty much equally.

"If single men unite and start a common list for standards for women a lot of women will follow those standards."
- Eh, I kinda doubt that would still work in 2022.

"If a lot of men stop using social media then a lot of women would stop using social media."
- A lot of women? Yes. But there is so much social media content out there by women for women.

"Men can start their own movement and come up with a name for it"
- Okay. What are you trying to say here? MRA and MGTOW and all that insane stuff already exists.

"If a man hits a woman back for hitting him first she may just end up at the ICU."
- Yeah, which is why htting back a woman should not be considered acceptable for men.

"If men realize that they should date their love interests for long before marriage a lot of relationship problems will be solved."
- I don't see how that's true at all.

"Men make better bosses (leaders) than women."
- Complete bullshit. How any person with just half a brain can still believe such utterly sexist drivel, is beyond me. Also, stop misusing biology for your beliefs. You clearly don't understand biology (I teach biology, so please spare me your non-arguments). Men are hormonal. Extremely hormonal. You don't know what you're talking about.

"If men realize that there are a lot of women who are much better than the one you have now they are going to be dangerous!"
- Dangerous? What are you even talking about?

"If more men learned how to be happy and content while being single society will be in trouble."
- What? Are you saying it's better for society if single men are NOT happy and content? Are you insane?

Wow, this was one of the worst myTakes I've every seen on here. Pure incel bullshit.

[myTake Owner]

You sure have a great life to come on here and insult a girl on her take, you must be so happy with your life to do something like that, thanks for wasting your time on me clearly I’ve made an impact in your life and you actually put effort into critiquing everything I wrote and into insulting me and your 36😂!.👏 🤣.

Like I care about anything you said you wrote a lot I just read the first and the last paragraph everything else you wrote was a waste of your time, I scrolled past the middle part 😂 Well done.

[myTake Owner]

@aliyapashav he's talking about you but of course you didn't realize that.

[MountAverage]

Not good at taking criticism, huh? LOL

I do have a great life, thanks! :) I actually spend very little time on this app. Writing this post took me about 7 minutes or so. Also, I didn't write this to reach YOU in any way. When I write a criticism on here, I write it for everyone else who might stumble across this post. Also, you seem to be the one who has enough time on her hand, considering you wrote this long myTake. So, there's that haha!

And what on Earth does age have anything to do with anything here? If anything, me being 36 just knows I have at least some experience and am not just pulling stuff out of my ass, like certain other people. For instance, as I mentioned before, I teach biology. So I know what I'm talking about when I say - you have no clue what you're talking about. I bet you're the type of person who'd use quantum physics to explain her spiritual beliefs or whatever, without having a single clue about quantum physics. Leave the sciences to the people who actually studied them, child. Stop embarrassing yourself.

Oh, and saying you don't care what I say but then taking the time to respond, just to say you don't care, is a pradox. You clearly did care :) And yes, I respond because I did care. Not about you, but about the topic. When people publicly spread falsehoods about topics I care about, I will call them out.

You're full of sexist incel drivel. You're a joke. This took me like 5 minutes to write. But you know what, unlike you loser, real life is actually waiting for me, so I'm gonna end this now. Feel free to tell me again you don't care. Buh-bye! :)

[Twalli]

I disagree that there us someone better for you out there. I guess if your relationship is shitty, yes, but otherwise there might not be. I honestly don't think three was someone else better out there for my parents. I think their relationship perfect, everyone else seems to think so. They never argue, if they disagree they calmly state their positions and either come to an agreement or agree to disagree. I don't think that they'd be able to do that with anyone else. I actually compare my relationship with my current girlfriend (and first) to the one my parents have. If anything it's better, they certainly think so. Unlike my parents who didn't NEED each other to be complete, my girlfriend and I do. More importantly we know that.

I also want to talk about the one year thing you mentioned. I am so glad you did. I refuse to even consider proposing until I've lived with the girl for at least a year. It's not for the reason you mentioned, but it's similar. When you go out or on dates, they're canceled if someone isn't feeling well enough. That doesn't happen with marriage. If we're in a long term relationship I know I like the best of times. I need to make sure I can deal with the worst of times

[myTake Owner]

I have been told that there is always going to be a men who is better than the one I have now and one of my guy friends told me that everyone can be compatible with a lot of people and that relationships are all about compromise. He was right, also If you have a partner and you have been with that person for a year y'all get comfortable so your now more likely to go out and see women/men who are more attractive than your partner, smarter than your partner, better to talk to than your partner etc. that alone just proves that no matter how good a person is there is always going to be someone who is much better than that person out there. This is not to say that people should not be content if they find good partners but It's to say that If you have a half-assing partner who is not improving themselves, and who is not that good or is even straight up horrible to ya then there is someone out there who is better for you, you should not be afraid to leave that person.

thanks so much for your comment I read it, it's great and I'm glad you agree with my one year point!!!

[Twalli]

You should NEVER be in a relationship that doesn't benefit you. While you can be with multiple people and relatively happy or content, I believe that there is ONE person out there that is perfect for you. Seeing as the world's population is upward of 7 billion, you have a better chance of winning the lottery than finding that person, but... if you do, then, well...

[RiseofArtemis]

The ones who screwed men over and caused this imbalance of power are women who got into politics and simp male politicians and giving benefits to women by using the government.

If the government never would have interfered in the peoples lives then we wouldn't have many of the issues women and men face today.

I have this believe that if people would live in a small village with no law enforcement and no government power, no government benefits, no law and only good moral values than that village would be the happiest as everyone has to fill in their role and if one of them acted in a way that could endanger the village then that person would be punished by the others of the village. If you would try to leave a girl alone while she's pregnant her brothers could find you and beat you up and drag you back. Good moral values are created by punishing those who try to break them.

Women would not be able to work without all those extensive benefits and day care for children. It was all engineered so that the corporations and government could make even more money by having women work.

[Aphrodite801]

Get over the fact that women don’t like you and leave them alone that simple sexist goofball

[Anonymous]

Interesting take. I agree with some points. I also want to add that If men want virgin young women, they should stop being a manhoe, and marry her instead of making her wait 10000000 years to marry but then complain about not getting young virgin women. You can't 'deflower' many women or make women wait for 1000000000 years to marry but then be suprised about the amount of non virgin older women. Young women are also the minority and they prefere few years older men and NOT old men according to statistics. If you want blood young women, then hurry up and find one in your 20s. Only mentall ill women aka women with daddy issue or gold diggers like 15 years older men

Women should immediately leave any man who dont want to marry her within one year. Women can't afford to waste her time because women are leftovers above their 30s by the same men.
I am also extremely against sex industry-majority of women (/men) get exploited in this industry. There is so much abuse in this shithole industry. It is difficult to quit. For example they make you have ton of debts for rejecting rude violent customers (!) .- in my opinion this is almost rape. According to statistics men who buy sex dont also care whether these women really do it with their free will or not and this is why these men are judged. Pornhub deleted majority of its content for a reason but many men get upset and this prove that men who consume this shit dont really care whether women do it with their free will or not.

[Opinion Owner]

According to statistics men who buy sex dont also care whether these women really do it with their free will or not and this is why these men are judged. Pornhub deleted majority of its content for a reason but many men AND women get upset and this prove that men who consume this shit dont really care whether women /MEN do it with their free will or not.

[Opinion Owner]

***** I should have mention women since women consume porn etc too. So it is not only men

[myTake Owner]

men do seek young virgin women but thanks to the promiscuous culture that encourages people to have as much sex as they can while young m most 20+ year old women have 5+ sex partners. yes I agree men are wrong for sleeping around and then expecting the women they like to be virgins when they get ready to settle down. Your right about most proper women only liking men who are a few years older than them yes your right men who want young woman should marry in their 20s agreed...

I'm just going to stay single, dating and being a wife and stuff is wayyyy to much work lol.

the sex industry thing is quiet sad thank you for sharing about it i had no idea how bad and sad the sex industry is, but there are women who enjoy it and who use men and sex for wealth, i was referring to those women on my take.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh lol i agree with you!!!

[RiseofArtemis]

Dating and being a wife is too much? You've got no idea how easy stay at home wife's/mothers have it compared to women who are single and work. If you are a stay at home mother then you only have to do 50% of what a working woman would do during the week while having about 50% more time for the things you'd do to clean a home.

[Opinion Owner]

@RiseofArtemis...
What? I did not talk about house wifes? What has that to do with my post?

[myTake Owner]

@RiseofArtemis everyone is different, how do you know that I’m not avoiding relationships because I’ve been in an abusive relationship? How do you know that I chose my job and being single over starting a family and having kids because I’m traumatised? You guys need to be careful with your words. Not every woman is meant to be a mom or a wife y’all need to stop boxing people into categories and just cause something works for one person does not mean it will work for the other.

There are women who avoid men because they know they are going to abuse them, there are women who don’t have kids because they know they won’t be able to take care of them and there are more examples like this humans are complex you cannot box us in and think everything is going to work for everyone.

[myTake Owner]

And besides that some people just don’t want kids and marriage and they wanna go do other things with their lives instead so never think that everyone wants to marry and have kids cause it’s not true.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@
Why should a woman leave a man if he doesn't want to get married within a year of getting in a relationship?

[Opinion Owner]

Because women can't afford to waste time. Men care about women's youth. Maybe one year is a little extrem but 2-3 years should be enough. some men even think that women above 25 are too old.

[Opinion Owner]

So if a 23 years old woman start dating/having relationship for 7 years but her boyfriend leaves her in her 30s. She will have very difficult in the dating market.

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry for generalizations about men by the way. I am so sorry

[RiseofArtemis]

Marriage is dead because the government killed it. If there was no negatives to marriage a lot of men would marry. no doubt. Nowadays its impossible to marry without having negatives. So its either the government fucks off from the marriage law and leaves it all to the church or you can say that wedding goodbye for all eternity. Modern day women are married to the government and not the man in their life.

How could we fix the marriage problem. Hmm I don't know maybe delete the divorce laws which are the sole reason why marriage is dead in the first place.

[Opinion Owner]

No the marriage laws prevent men for leaving her for stupid bs. However, it should apply to women too.

[Opinion Owner]

These "negatives" should apply to women too or government should punish men/women for wasting women's youth/wasting men's money.

[Opinion Owner]

I am just against people who waste other people's 'dating recources' lol

[RiseofArtemis]

The solution to men leaving women is raising a boy the fuck right. If you raise it wrong its your problem and not from the government. Instead of allowing divorce how about people get searched and punished if they try to leave. People act right when they know they will get consequences for it. If the punishment for leaving a woman pregnant was being beaten then it would stop men from leaving them.

We have several historical proofs that the strongest societies usually have the strictest behavioral laws and the harshest punishments for breaking them.

[Opinion Owner]

'The solution to men leaving women is raising a boy the fuck right. If you raise it wrong its your problem and not from the government.' --Wtf are you talking about? Are men kids? Just because my parents were shit, i am not going to be a shit person for example. The solution for women righ now is to choose good men till the government something about the rising single motherhood or fatherhood (?)
Yes parents play a role too. This is why i am against irresponsible people having kids. They should be punished but A kid need a mum and DAD too. So dads are very important too. So dads raise kids too. The fucking boy need a role model aka his dad. I blame both men and women for raising bad kids. So this is why i think not mentall ill dads and mums should be forced to look after their kids and should be forced pay alimony for the kid. Yes i know that court prefere mums when it comes zo custody which is unfair of course


'We have several historical proofs that the strongest societies usually have the strictest behavioral laws and the harshest punishments for breaking them.' I agree to an extent

[Snsl153]

Oh boy. I'm sorry, but this is just all wrong. For example, the first one, the one about men having the power to make many women unemployed. I notice you only gave examples of this from the fake world that exists online, and not from the actual, real world we live in. Isn't it now the case that when it comes to the hiring of staff, the old principle that only the best, most qualified, and most appropriate candidate will be selected has been superceded to a large extent because there are now other considerations to take into account, like the meeting of quotas? Perhaps not to a great degree in the private sector, but as I understand it that's now the number one consideration when it comes to government appointments.

Validation. Well, I'll agree that some (perhaps many) women are like this, but there are of course exceptions. Speaking for myself I don't need, nor seek, such validation from men, because I simply don't need it, and I don't need it because I have enough self-confidence and belief in myself to dispense with it entirely. Maybe I'm unusual in that respect.

"If single men unite and start a common list for standards for women a lot of women will follow those standards." - No, I can't see that happening. Even if men did exactly this, so what? Do you really believe we're all so weak that we'll cave in to peer pressure or societal expectations, and simply because all the men decided to go MGTOW or adopt Victorian Age morality? Please! Don't make me laugh.

Men make better bosses? Ahahahahaha... ! :D Surely you jest!

I could go on, but I've made my point. Overall I give this MyTake a 3 out of 10.

[Snsl153]

Oh, and one other thing. Everything about this MyTake screams catfish, because I seriously doubt there is a woman on GAG (or planet Earth for that matter) who would have written something like this, something that sounds like it's coming from a grumpy old MGTOW male.

[hIopinionated_]

Logic bypass stupid people. You’re wasting your time attempting to teach OP

[Ryfyle]

@hIopinionated_ Don't stop the seethe train with logic, let them waste their lives typing angry essays.

[TonyMetal___86]

What you have said in general is true but you made women look so weak and useless!

Personally i'll give you a simple answer that explains everything...

Men and women are equal when it comes to value, importance and under the laws..

They have different roles in life and they complete each other...

God told men to love their wives the same way jesus loved the church and to treat them the way he treats himself...

The man is the leader but a good leader who will provide, take care and feed his follower...

Without a man a girls feels unhappy and worthless but don't forget that if a man works hard outside and never lose hope or surrender, it's because he have a wife who always cheer him up when he's sad, who always brings him up when he's down and she's his fuel to always go outside to work hard and come back home...

A man is strong to be able to handle the harshness of life, to be able to work hard and to protect his family, that's why god gave men the power and this power shouldn't be used to beat a woman or hurt any of the man's family members...

No matter how strong a man can be and be self sufficient, he will always need a woman and for sure not only reproduce but he will need her in all aspects...

For example many men would have a short life if women weren't present in their loves because usually a wife takes care of her man's health and force him live a healthy life because she loves him from all her heart and considers his health important as much as her's...

Why do you think that god created marriage? It's because he wants to see a man and a woman united together and not living alone and each one shouting that they can do it on their own...

[Amy10223]

I kind of agree with all your points. Unfortunately for us women, this is the way the world and realtionships woth men work. It is up to the woman to be more confident, and not worry about whether she needs a man to define herself. Those women are blessed with confidence and independence. Men like that. I try to be that way myself and if the right man comes along that treats women with respect and equality, that's the man I'd want. Sure, we are vyer different in many ways, but we need to show one another we like you the way you are--and that there should not be a conceived competence between men and women.

[myTake Owner]

the issue here is that women don't want men to practice the natural skill of being a good leader, men, most men are born to be good leaders, being a good leader is also a sign of dominance men have a lot more testosterone than women so masculine and dominance comes with that territory.

So women are more submissive that comes with the territory of us having a lot more estrogen than men, in a healthy relationship with a man and a woman, a woman embraces her femininity, she's empathetic, she happily follows her man's lead, she's soft spoken, she does not nag her man, she loves taking care of her home and kids or pets, she loves taking care of others and of her man, she loves expressing her femininity through clothing and style overall, she loves to cook all the girly things basically and the man he is a good leader, he listens to her, he takes her seriously, he does not over power her or use his strength to over power her, he takes charge in most circumstances, he protects her, stuff like that.

there are common things that man and women need to practice in a relationship so thats where equality comes in, they both need to be good communicators, they both need to love each other, they both need to be persistent, they both need to play a role in working towards sustaining the relationship, if one cleans one cooks, if one fixes the car, one brings the one fixing the car a drink, they both need to care for each other stuff like that.

picking a man with good healthy leadership qualities is hard though its not easy to find that kind of man.

[Amy10223]

The biological aspect of testerone and estrogen is natural, of course. Men are stronger and will develop that leadership attitude with women. But just as women embrace their own feminity, mist men appreciate that quality just as women appreciate men who demonstrate their masculinity. I’m not saying those don’t exist; I’m saying that a woman in a man’s world can appreciate those attributes that men possess, and NOT have to live with the illusion they cannot live without them, and men can choose to do the same. Because it IS an illusion, or a norm that this society has rooted in women, and a hard task for many to think otherwise. But it can be done. I’m proof of it and have many friends who are the same way. We own our own homes, pay our own bills, travel on our own, etc while still maintaining relationships with family and men. I’m not alone. And I find the perfect mate who will accept me for who I am, and I accept him for whom he is without restricting him of his endeavors, that would meet me halfway, that would be a great thing.

[Amy10223]

** If I find the perfect mate…

[Amy10223]

PS I don’t happily follow the man’s lead unless I feel the same way and have the same belief system.

[myTake Owner]

No you're right!, Anyone can thrive as a single person despite their gender I'm a Christian and in my religion we are encouraged to serve God as single people, and that's what I want to do with my life, If a man comes along then great if not then great I will be more than okay either way If I have God by my side. Glad to here that you are a thriving single woman that is inspiring even!.

[Amy10223]

I'm a Christian too--iow I believe in God and in Christ. i dont think I am going against Him in this day and age.

[BlackBeauty90]

Man can get women unemployed

The only thing that separates women on OnlyFans & similar from a prostitute is they don't fuck for money. But as they have no self-respect & are desperate & selling their bodies/pictures that puts them on par with a prostitute.

Neither OnlyFans or prostitution is a job. It's a life choice. One that very few respectable women who are actually employed & have real jobs would ever consider in their life.

Men are the ones who give women the most validation.

No men give shallow useless sluts validation. Women who are confident in themselves don't need a man to validate then.

[Jamie05rhs]

"They say majority rules so if men united and formed a list of standards for women who want marriage or a relationship like for example, be a virgin, have less sex partners, don't wear make up, know how to cook, etc.. and they promoted this list a whole movement would be built on it and many women would start following it and a lot of men would stop complaining about how disappointing it is to date women in 2022."

HA! Good luck with that. The majority of men do NOT want women to be virgins! Otherwise they wouldn't get any sex!!

[myTake Owner]

many Christian women are virgins so perhaps its time more men become Christians especially because Christianity is moral and just. The bible is the best most factual book that has ever been written and prophetic.

[Jamie05rhs]

I already am a Christian and a virgin. I am waiting for marriage. We're on the same page, sister.

[myTake Owner]

Oh well I'm not waiting for marriage I'm planning on staying single and fulfilling God's work. But If I do end up marrying then good if not it's still good.

[myTake Owner]

I wish you all the best with it all, God bless you!.

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay; cool.

Thank you! You, too!

[JSmuve]

Hell ya! It's time men start realizing that a lot of the shit that happens nowadays is because we allow it to. It's honestly sad, but a lot of guys are quite content being simps hoping that women will notice them because guys want relationships more than women do and will lower their standards until they get into one. Great Take. And don't listen to the women dumping on you, calling you a "pick me girl". They're just more than content with keeping guys feeling unempowered, because if guys actually realized their worth, most of these women wouldn't be able to get away with the shit that they do.

[es20490446e]

This fits my own experience.

The simplest explanation why women take more time to know the guy better is that they want to be lead by him, so they need to trust him deeper.

Women feel the most comfortable when they can let it go of control, because they deeply trust you.

I think leading has bad reputation because people don't understand what it is about. Leading isn't to impose your decisions over the rest of people, but rather giving a sense of clarity that people will instinctively trust.

Women want to know that, if they lack clarity, you will provide it yourself. Sadly many men lack clarity, so they naturally repel women.

[SkyCastle90]

Dangerous. This black and white thinking reminds me of Gilead in Handmaid's Tale. You want men to be in control, yet most of them aren't qualified to lead a dog much less a family. Genuine leadership with the absence of megalomania is rare.

The only way I can see your idea working is if this generation make plenty of preparatory schools that not only prepare the next generation of boys for higher education, but teach them proper etiquette and true leadership; because the truth of the matter is a lot of us are stupid, lazy and horny (men and women), which can result in frustration, fear and recklessness. Our men today just aren't fit for that level of responsibility, just like how our women today lack accountability and humility.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Noone has power over you unless you give them that power... Noone can "validate" you unless you seek validation... Me personally, I don't seek validation from anyone regardless of their gender...

And last I checked, it takes two to agree or disagree to get married...

If you allow someone to call all the shots, you can't claim they have all the power when you're the one giving it to them.

[myTake Owner]

everyone has power over themselves, bosses have power over their employees, men have power over women because they are physically stronger than them biologically, women have power over men when they divorce them, men have power over women who look for their validation and attention, men have power over women most women are depending on the man to propose to her if he doesn't well then she won't get to marry him.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Divorce is about power? The woman that divorces her husband for cheating? Or in cases of physical abuse? Women divorcing men when they cheat, or to try to get money, that may be, but that's not the case for all divorces...

[myTake Owner]

Most women divorce their men for the benefits they get from divorce here in 2022. so that's power.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

That is more assumption than fact

[myTake Owner]

keep believing that ma'am. after all if you ever divorce (God forbid) you'll get benefits while your husband will fight hard not to end up homeless.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

See that's what you SAY, but when I DID divorce my first husband because of years of physical abuse, it was I that walked away with nothing but my clothes even though most everything we owned was paid for by ME... See that's what people fail to see... You are generalizing based on what you believe or think instead of real people's real reality while I am speaking from personal experience and not just my own... Spreading generalizations or untruths or assumptions as facts doesn't help anything.. Noone can learn with false information

[myTake Owner]

Okay your story is different and I am sorry you went with it but a lot of men even here on Gag have been used for benefits by women through divorce so that puts women in power, if a woman falsely accuses a man he gets introuble court systems favour women especially in the us, some women poke holes in their condoms in order to get pregnant by rich men and then they get him to pay child support and live off that child support. there are women who abuse their power out here ma'am so thats why i said what i said.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

People do, not just women.. This isn't a gender issue... And you fail to mention the men who cheat on their wives or abuse their wives, or abandon their children... Why don't you look up when child support was first put into law, and WHY...
Because there was too many men that thought that if they divorced their wives, it's excused them from providing our caring for their children, and if you're a good, respectable person, noone should have to force you to care for your child... I agree with the user that said you sound like a man with a pink account..
Is there women that fuck men over, ABSOLUTELY.. Is there also men that fuck over women... ABSOLUTELY...

[myTake Owner]

Yes there are horrible terrible men as well who do horrible things and who abuse their power you are right! and also no need to be rude I was taught to be a Christian and to never lie, I know better than to lie about my gender I am a woman, there are woman who understand why i made this take but it seems like men get my point even more, you and that girl who are calling me a man are clearly not getting my point and that's your problem not mine, there are people here who get me and that's all that matters to me.

[myTake Owner]

If I were a man I would never go and pretend to be a woman I'd be a proud man just as I am a proud woman.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Wait... Show me where I was rude? Oh wait, you can't because I wasn't.. Unless you're suggesting disagreeing with you if being rude... I merely an stating there is many users both male and female create fake accounts under the opposite gender and a dead give away is they go anon.. I mean can I ask why you would have to go Anon to post this?

[myTake Owner]

@brainsbeforebeauty you didn't say that you suggested that I am a man all because I have been speaking up against women than man and so you automatically assumed I am a man because of that that's rude. Also I have no reason to explain myself to you, my point is made I'm done. If I want to post as an anonymous user then I will most certainly do that end of story.

[Nazgol]

@Brainsbeforebeauty couldn't be more right! This girl is delusional 😆

[Asad1ONE1]

God is Ultimate Judge

[Asad1ONE1]

Life is short

[RavVid]

Thanks for this list! Appreciate the list of new points. But a lot of the old points are quite valid too.

A fundamental is that men always end up paying for sex because of our greater desire for it. But as you can see from Only fans a lot of women are willing to provide sexual services for cash money. Oldest profession etc.

What I am seeing is more and more men are finding it is quicker, easier and cheaper to just pay for sex rather than jump through all the hoops. The bar bill alone is usually more than it costs to have sex as a sure thing.

Certainly it is far cheaper than the Deferred Payment Plan as I like to call marriage.

[BlueScorpio]

Well that's what I was saying, I'm hearing a lot of men complain about onlyfans lately (which is weird cause there's been pornsites online for the longest) and if they really don't like it or what the women are doing, all they have to do is pull their support. Women will stop seeing that as reliable career and go for more honorable careers in society.

[myTake Owner]

It's refreshing to see a woman on here comment without putting me down so thank you! I completely agree with you...

[Anonymous]

Not a fan of anti-feminism propaganda. This internet community is weird. Time for me to go out and enjoy reality and forget ~ half of what I read.

Besides that, you did have some valid points about the choices men make, that influences women (e. g. donating money to OnlyFans sex models or showering them with (fake) compliments) and that pushes men into a handicap in dating: High Supply and low demand in adequate men. The idea of unifying men to make women see where we are heading to and what we accept (within reasonable standards irrelevant of the buzzword feminism) is worth trying. But definitely not like MGTOW does.

[myTake Owner]

your one to talk posting this as an anonymous user and all.

[myTake Owner]

you're

[Opinion Owner]

Ironically you are anonymous yourself. So?

[myTake Owner]

No don’t do that don’t call me out I’m a woman, men must not call women out on things 😏 you said your self your not an anti feminist 😏. So only your the one who has an anonymous profile not me because women are always right 😏.

[Aerolyn]

"If a man hits a woman back for hitting him first she may just end up at the ICU".

Yeah, and we may just get sent to life in prison for murder or some shit, nah, I'm good.

I've seen the difference in sentences that men gets compared to woman in general, I'm not even gonna try and hit back unless the bitch is trying to kill me.

[Aerolyn]

The one about the validation thing is right though.

I tend to feel like a lot of woman have ridiculous egos because of the constant attention men give them.

It's such a total difference on the internet.

If you're a girl then you're basically garunteed to get a shit ton of dms by default, damn near it not matter what you look like.

I've gotten dms at times because some people thought I was a damn girl, that's how bad this shit is.

If you're a guy that shit doesn't happen, unless your reallllly hot.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Don't forget to mention the fact that even if the guy didn't hit her or if the guy just blocked her attack, he can be accused as the perpetrator

[myTake Owner]

@Aiko_E_Lara that’s why I wrote this my take and I’m advising you men to start your own movement abs promote your own rights!

[myTake Owner]

And***

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Actually it's easier said than done. We may have the potential but what's potential when our power can just be taken away? The reasoning why society disposes men and supports women has something to do with evolution. Biologically, women can only give birth for only a few times in her life and they're the only ones who can nurture babies while men are capable of impregnating hundreds of women at a time. So if the population has a ratio of more men than women, it can doom the population which is why men are the disposable ones and they didn't have a choice. And that instinct is still in our society and it's still in our DNA. Something called "women are wonderful effect" that lots of women still like to take advantage of. Those powerful men at the top of the corporates ladder face struggles only a few people experienced. All the risks and pressure is what made them powerful and those men who took those risks either become powerful or dead.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And it's women who likes to blame it on men for their choices to not take the risks those powerful men did.

[myTake Owner]

@Aiko_E_Lara very interesting points you made there.