The female equivalent of an incel is a feminist. The male equivalent of a feminist is an incel. They are the same type of person.

[MCheetah]

The female equivalent of an incel is a feminist. That's literally it, right there.

What is an incel?

An incel is a male who hates all women simply because he can't get any positive romantic or sexual attention from the few super-attractive women he deems as "worthy" (Stacys), all while ignoring all the other lesser attractive women in society, who he sees as 'fat, ugly, slutty, old, or single mothers', thus inferior in his eyes as worthy sexual partners.

Incels are typically angry, misogynist losers who lack all accountability towards bettering themselves as men, see themselves as utterly entitled to sex and obedience from attractive submissive women, prefer to solely blame women for their lack of success with getting sex, and has a negative view of literally all girls and women, and thinks of men as superior to women, but held back by gynocentrism and hypergamy. They are sad, lonely, pathetic, angry men.

Incels view their success in life by sexual conquests with women and the social status it'll bring them.

What is a feminist?

A feminist is a female (or male with the testosterone levels of one) who hates all men simply because they can't get the success and wealth they want in life compared to the few super-elite men in society they deem as wealthy and "privileged due to patriarchy" (Chads), all while ignoring all the other men in society, who are short, broke, unhappy, losers, or 'trash' in their eyes, choosing not to count them as "men" among the oppression of "patriarchy."

Feminists are typically angry, misandrist losers who lack all accountability towards bettering themselves as people, sees themselves as victims, prefer to solely blame men for their lack of success in life, and has a negative view of literally all boys and men, and think of women as superior to men, but held back by "patriarchy." They are sad, lonely, pathetic, angry people.

Feminists view their success in life by wealth, and control & authority over men, and the social power it'll bring them.

To conclude:

While modern society DOES suck, the important thing to remember is that not all women are bad, and not all men are bad, even if many have personally hurt you in life. That dark outlook is what leads someone into becoming an angry, bitter feminist or incel. And that anger can be an abyss if you don't fight it and surround yourself with positive examples of the opposite sex, to offset the negative ones you've been exposed to.

But yeah. Feminists and incels are the same people. Now you know.

[IceCreamSandwich]

I feel like just misandrists would be the equivalent of mysoginists. And some feminists are misandrists. And some incels are mysoginists. But I wouldn't say all of them. There are incels who don't hate women and feminists who don't hate men, and neither of those terms even became popularized for negative reasons.

Even though there are a lot of bad people on both sides, I think it's not as close to fully saturated as you say. But depending on who is around you it can certainly seem like it is sometimes.

[ChicanaChick]

Meanwhile their goals may be different (the incel thinks success is sleeping around with attractive women and the feminist think success is being getting a wealthy man as her provider) they both pretty much seem like miserable people. They both have the same negative mentality towards the oppsosite gender.

[ChicanaChick]

Thank you for sharing the information.

[Emiliamazing]

I'm not certain that I would have both of those groups quite so angry at the opposite sex, but I completely agree on your commentary regarding who you should you surround yourself with.
it is really sad that so many men and women have ridiculous standards that they're attracted to. Very few people in the world have every single, perfect characteristic, and we all certainly don't have the same idea of what beauty and intelligence is.

[Emiliamazing]

Something comes to mind regarding those who treat the opposite sex in a bad manner, is the propensity of our society to blame others for problems they created. I have a feeling this is part of the issue which creates "incels & feminists"

[MCheetah]

One interesting thing I noticed has to do with their colors and general appearance. Incels wear muted colors and clothing, like brown, beige, black white, or gray, and that is reflected in their personality of them being meek, quiet, and timid. They are visually and by-personality unnoticeable and nearly invisible.

By contrast, feminists tend to have brighter-than-usual colors reflected on them, which is why they often have neon-colored hair, like green, blue, purple, or pink, and that's also reflected in their personality in being loud, abrasive, and rude, like their colors perfectly reflect their toxic personality (Aposematism.) Like the opposite of incels, feminists are visually and by-personality loud, obnoxious, and very hard-to-ignore.

Quite an interesting juxtaposition between the two that I noticed, considering their mentalities are the same.

[MCheetah]

TL;DR: Incels are human skunks and feminists are human dart frogs.

[DudeDiligence]

The only difference between incels and feminists, aside from their genitalia, is that society still grants feminists some credibility. That is changing though.

[MCheetah]

I think Amber Heard single-handedly killed Third Wave Feminism and the MeToo movement. And if not her alone, then certainly countless other stories of lying abusive women stacking up over the years to finally change the public perception of feminism in the zeitgeist. You hardly hear anyone talk about the old feminist talking points of the Wage Gap and Rape Culture anymore. The woke is still obsessed with making everything about race, "Not Sees," and the trans-indoctrination agenda, however.

[KlinkyCoder]

Here is one thing. The incels have cited studies and research that seem to confirm the issues they talk about. I don't think they are entirely wrong there.

[MCheetah]

Their reasons for being angry aren't wrong. Their attitude towards it, is.

That's why I have more respect for MGTOWs, who just walk away from women and choose not to engage in the foolishness, than I do for incels, who just blame women for being Stacys, and mainly, literally do NOTHING to better themselves or their own lives; not for women but for their own self-worth. Just like feminists, incels take no accountability for their failures whatsoever and never come to the realization that THEY need to work on themselves, mentally and likely physically.

Most of society will tell you men need to jump through hoops and kiss women's asses at their own expense and dignity. Incels are the opposite where they think all 10/10 women should get on their knees and give BJ's to an obese, Cheetos-dust covered, acne-ridden "gamer" who doesn't bathe, and that any woman who doesn't, deserves to be sold into sex trafficking in Yemen or something.

But incels and blue-pillers don't realize that the important thing is to work on YOURSELF, beyond all else. Not kissing women's asses or getting angry that you can't get a 10/10 due to not being a billionaire and all (and Hollywood is filled to the brim with incels anyway; the incels who DO have money to buy their into sex are the Harvey Weinsteins of the world.)

To be fair though, it took me my whole twenties before I realized this fact: my own happiness and acceptance needs to come first. I believe others need to feel the same way, first.

[SoftCliff]

So, how would you differentiate between a misanthrope (someone who dislikes and distrusts the human species or humankind) in general, and incels, femcels or feminists? I feel like all these new terms describe basically the same thing

[MCheetah]

A misanthrope has valid reasons to hate humanity and does so equally and without specific discrimination. A misanthrope also has no other intelligent species to judge humanity against, making their feelings slightly more justified and not rooted in superiority of one group over the other (unless, they're like, an actual alien or something.)

And incels and feminists I already described here. And femcels don't exist; there's no such thing as a (biological) woman who can't find a partner to date her, or at least sleep with her. Ironically, partially because incels exist and some of them would be willing to be her life mate.

[SoftCliff]

I see, makes sense. thank you for your explanation

[ThoseCognacEyes]

They’re the outliers of society. Unfortunately, their percentage is growing and they’re being validated by the PC culture that we have.

[Fishyrich]

You have failed to understand what a feminist is. A feminist is one who stands up for the rights of girls and women.

I am a man and I am a feminist. I want my daughters to have the same opportunities as my son, and not to be pre-judged with sexist expectations. I am proud of my wife, whose career is flying ahead of mine.

I am a feminist.

[worldscolide]

I would say a female Incel is an Incel by choice. Women can literally get sex any time they want, but they only want the top 5% of men.. So they are suddenly incels because of that.

[MCheetah]

That choice is exactly why femcels - female involuntarily celibates - are an oxymoron and non-existent. But as far as mindset goes, incels and feminists are identical.

[vennominaga]

Dude, no idea where the heck this "get sex any time they want" thing comes from. Plenty of women here have admitted to not having a partner and therefore not having sex.

if you dont have a partner, you dont have sex. Which is why Kim Kardashian is currently not having sex - she's divorced and broke-up with Pete.

[worldscolide]

@vennominaga and we found the white knight. Dude. The difference between men and women. A man in a crowd of women cannot say "I want to have sex, please someone have sex with me" and expect to get a response. On the other hand i guarantee, no matter how ugly and undesirable the woman is, if she did the same, she was one woman in a crowd of men, and said "I want to have sex, please someone have sex with me" she would have men Competing to have sex with her. That is the difference. If you can't see that, then you are blind to objective reality.

[vennominaga]

Except we don't have "crowds" in our society. Kim Kardashian can't have sex because she is SINGLE.

Of course, I'm not that stupid, I understand your point. But whatever, the fact is is that everyone is "incel" at some point in their lives.

[worldscolide]

@vennominaga i dont know what your obsession is with that piece of trash Kardashian, But even in her case, if she went out and literally stepped to any male and said "lets have sex" virtually no male would turn her down. Sex does not just happen inside of relationships, If it did, we would not have such a prevalent hookup culture. Single or not she is not having sex by choice not because she is an incel.

[LiamJHayden]

Pretty much this. Excluding the occasional happy incel and even rarer first wave equality under the law feminists, you've nailed it, they generally hate the other because of their rejection by, or failure to be able to control, the other.

[Fuentes]

Fuck them both lol they will both be forever alone

[A_Bell]

They seem to look alike. Hmmm?

[SaltyBeaches]

Someone finally said it. Thank you.

[aaron210419]

This is brilliantly stated

[InsecureLivesMatter]

Amen.

[InsecureLivesMatter]

It's like the Nick Fuentes vs Tariq Nasheed equivalency