Honestly, shy guys never get the girl. And it's because women aren't attracted to people who aren't confident and assertive and expressive. If you like her, ask her out. Don't assume you have some unlimited time frame to do so or that she's just magically going to know how you feel and wait around because the real world doesn't work like that. With 6 billion possibilities, why would anyone wait around? If someone can't get it together, it's their problem, and a girl will find someone who will. You are overthinking and overanalyzing. STOP. Just ask her out. The less you think about it, the better it will be. Instead of wasting all that time thinking, just do it. It takes all of what, 1 uncomfortable second of your life? It's like getting a shot. It's over in a flash, so why exert stress worrying about something so fast? It sounds like the worrying you've done leading up to it is far more time consuming and uncomfortable. Just get it over with and then you'll know. Be confident.
Ask her to play a game and then ask each other Qns. like who you fancy or how far you been with the other sex and find out all this stuff and then just ask her out after this it really works I fancy this guy and we did this and he fancied me but he didn't have the guts to ask me out I wanna try it with this guy in the year above cos if you read my Qn it says everything okay I promise you it works... x
You'll never know unless you ask. Overcome being shy! The worst that could happen is she says she's not interested or has a b/f. Then ya move on =) Yes yes not as easy as I make it sound but in reality don't be so emotional and go for it! Women LOVE confidence!
If you want to stop short of asking her out, you'll have to lengthen your conversations with her. Ask her to lunch (this isn't "asking her out", just getting her out of the classroom with you so you can talk a little bit more). Ask her about her interests and share yours, e.g., what movies you like, what music you listen to, what you do for fun, what some of your life goals are, etc. If you've already had some of those "friendly" conversations, then it's time to just go for it and ask her out--it's the only way to really, truly know if she is interested. Best of luck.
mate that's actually going about it the WRONG way... because the more you go on these quassi dates the more you become a "FRIEND" the more you're friend, the less chances of her EVER being you GF.
You have to ask her out on a date... "like I wanna take you to this place, etc..."
and don't be nervous about it, because after all its just a girl.. She's not gonna laugh at you is she... come on.
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