I stopped getting likes on facebook. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

Like on my last profilepic I got 150likes easily and it added to 198 in a month or something. Now I changed it and it got only 108 in 4days. So I tought maybe because it wasn't pretty enough. But now i changed it again and I got only 10in 10mins. Normally i would get 50in the first 10mins... what is happaning? Uis it bc summer holydays just started and nobody is on fb that much or does everybody suddenly hate me? HELP!!!

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I wanted to say something about all these mean comments this question got: No, fb is not all what matters, grades and stuff matter more I don't know how it is in other countries but in Belgium the likes and followers on FB are REALLY IMPORTANT. If you don't have at least 100likes that means nobody cares about you. Likes and followers are really a big deal here so I'm worried of becoming an outcast because from 170likes you are seen as populair. Less than 100 is fatality for social life...

[Johnson123]

i'm going to tell you something... something you need to hear girl and please take the time to read :) ...

Who gives a shit about likes, so you telling me that the number of likes define your popularity? the number of likes depends on if you're happy or not for he day? Does Facebook and Instagram rule over your life? ... if the answer to all 3 are yes i'am sorry to say but that is very very sad. It seems obvious you are good looking by the number of likes you get, you want to know how many likes i get? maybe 10 or 20, 30 or 40 if i'am really lucky. Now you are proabably good looking and popular, i on the other hand not really. But i don't care. I do other things in life which i dont say on facebook and i'am happy (or try my best to be).

My point is don't let "Likes" define YOU. Screw that girl, focus and worry on making your life better. Likes won't get you a job or make you learn a new skill you know.

I'm just trying to help you out and no you are not hated on facebook

[MCtricks]

Well said :L *claps*

[Johnson123]

thanks @MCtricks i hope the anon read this, just trying to help her out.

[Jay-Are]

Is this serious? Should we call this "Facebook like syndrome"?
Do people still like you in real life? That is what counts.

Unless you are a singer or something. Than it is important.

[Asker]

Actually that's the point. If you have more likes it means people like you more.

[Jay-Are]

No. That just means that more people know how to use their index finger to click on "like".
They don't like you. They don't even know if you like Burger King or Mc Donalds.
Your real life friends like you.

[Jay-Are]

I did not mean to be mean. I'm saying this to help you. I know Belgium (I'm from Holland myself). And I understand what you are saying. But that is just peer pressure. Not reality.
Don't go along with this. It may look like this is real life but it isn't.

Not saying that you do the following but I know a ton of girls that do anything to get likes on Facebook. Their pictures are getting more and more naked just to get some attention. Don't go this path. Build quality real friendships with real quality people. If you are in trouble and you need help it doesn't matter if you have 1 like or 1 million likes. Only those real quality people will be there for you.

[1987Lover]

Don't be retarded. Who the hell cares how many likes you got. Half the time I like people's pp's and they look like crap. You are fine the way you are.

[JoahZ10nT]

Lol :) true, that!

[findingdreamland]

Maybe people get busy or sth?
It is just facebook. Do not worry about it.

[LittleSally]

Ummm Teacher, me, meeeeeee!

"You should get a life."

[vck_l]

It's only Facebook. You're obviously pretty. Get over it!

[Femphile_xoxo]

Sometimes folks just fall out of popularity! Or maybe the people who follow you are interested in cat videos now rather than you. I know that likes might matter to you but bah! Your personality and value don't boil down to likes on Facebook! You're so much more than what a few people think of you on social media.
Also, Facebook is just a social media platform, it's not the real world! I don't think you're becoming an outcast or a loser simply because people aren't liking your posts.

Goodluck, gal pal 😘 hope you have a good day 🙏

[BertMacklinFBI]

you should stop caring. but then again...

#Under18Problems

[Dandeus]

More like #VapidIdiotProblems

[NiallM]

You shouldn't base your self esteem off how many likes you get on a picture, I guarantee that you are a very pretty young lady but looks only make up a tiny part of attractiveness, personality makes up the vast majority and if personality should be seen in a photo then you'd be getting thousands of likes. Forget about likes and focus on how you feel about yourself :)

[JSmuve]

"Oh noez. I only have 100 likes. No one is paying attention to me. Oh woez me"

First world problems.

[sunset5]

The number of likes on your Facebook pictures is quite possibly the least important thing in the world. Don't worry about it.

[JoahZ10nT]

Lol you little girl!! Should go out and have fun 🎉... Stop worring about stupid likes... You don't win nothing by getting likes... Get over it.. m

[Luvme66]

I think Facebook is BS

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[Stacyzee]

Call 911 !
Because this sounds like a real emergency !

[Yesits_GalaxyHotChoc]

It does right?

[Stacyzee]

Lol! Yep.

[QueenBaae]

You're now ugly. I'd suggest checking into an ugly home. You seriously care about like hahahahahahaha gosh

[Anonymous]

Dont know if your aware sweetheart but people have recently lost their lives in the tunisia beach massacre children with parents families shortened and your worred about how many likes you get on a profile get a grip of yourself

[Hidden_P]

Why does it matter? Do you know all these people? Is it painfully damaging your life?

Don't take facebook too seriously.

[Balcazaurus]

Likes don't mean shit.

If you're pretty and you know it then that's enough.

[ArabianPwincess197]

That's tragic! My condolences. Watch your favourite movie with a tub of ben and jerry. It might help overcome this standstill your life has come to :(

[Canterbury_Bellz]

It doesn't matter. It's Facebook. Do you have 198 friends in real life that you talk to every day? No. So why do you care if they like your profile pic?

[Flotri66]

It doesn't matter!!!

The only people that care about likes are insecure people.

Don't let it get to you. All I care about is my close friends that I hang out with. And those are the ones I receive.

[Saydou]

with all due respect does FB likes offer a money? i dont know why many many many people care, if they like its OK if they dont, i am still who i am.

[ArabianPwincess197]

Does it?

[Saydou]

I dont think so but have a deal with others to like for u to like for them

[Weirdguy24]

You must have horrible, horrible stress about this.

[Asker]

I actually do...

[Anonymous]

That doesn't matter.

I used to get ~500 likes on Facebook Profile pictures (my own not the grumpy cat), now i am getting about ~200 likes, i didn't bother, i don't even check xD.

Change photos less often.

[Opinion Owner]

#killme

[JoahZ10nT]

Your tooo damnn goodlooking grumpy!!! No wonder you are getting 200+ likes 👍

[Opinion Owner]

More of a friendly person there and my friend is pro photographer, that's why, not because of looks. I use it less though.

I added almost everybody i know xD.

[Opinion Owner]

@joahz10nt

^^ do you have BB Z10?

[ArabianPwincess197]

Thought there was gonna me another gif :o

[Opinion Owner]

@arabianpwincess197

There you go, i have too much memes to choose from.

https://imgur.com/ePIPRmE.jpg

[ArabianPwincess197]

LOL.

[Anonymous]

You horrible attention whore/softcore prostitute! get over it

[Asker]

How does that make me a prostitute?

[Opinion Owner]

It's an allegory, but you are selling your sexuality "it wasn't pretty enough"(as well as your overall description) for popularity, validation and ego boost, that it softcore prostitution.

[Asker]

Prostitution is selling your body for sexual things. 1) i don't get money for my pics or do anything sexual 2) I don't post naked or sexualised pics 3) your argument about my "my pic wasn't pretty enough is invalid. Here is why: you see 2 pics, it doesn't matter what genre, animals, natur idc but one is prettyer than the other in some way. Maybe the filter on the other one was better, maybe the object was prettyer it doesn'r matter. Now what you are saying is that the prettyer pic, even if it's an animal or a plant is selling softcore prostitution

[Opinion Owner]

someone doesn't know what an allegory is

[Opinion Owner]

You allegorical prostitute you.

[Asker]

That's horribly mean, and immature for someone your age. You should be ashamed...

[Opinion Owner]

Many a man with an English degree, has decreed your type as a prostitute through popular allegory,(i have an English lit degree, and in one of my classes a 60 year old man with a doctorate used this allegory) an apt comparison indeed. And i am 21 despite what my profile says.

[Asker]

So what? Dude you're calling a 15 year old a prostitute. That's disturbing shit. Even if it has a different meaning, not manu people will get it and immidiately assosiate it with sexual treatment for getting payed what would be very disturbing to do for a 15years old. So it is for an adult man to call a teenage girl a prostitute. I suggest for you to be carefull with that word, espescialy with a teenager as the subject.

[Opinion Owner]

There are 10 year old actual prostitutes in this world. And if the way you are going is social dogma to sexualization of teens, know that old men have been having sex with teen and pre teen girls since the beginning of human existence, The law just prohibits it now for pragmatic reasons, but men of all ages are still sexually attracted to teenage girls.

[Asker]

Damn if you think that middle all ordinary middle age men are sexually atraccted to teen girls and that that s normal it means a few things: 1) you are sexually frustrated 2) you like teenage girls and want them to be prostitutes And btw: child prostitution etc are illegal for moral reasons. Yes it s a fact 500years ago it was normal but back then it was normal to random kill peopl and to treat women badly. 50years ago black people bashing was okay. IT's 2015THESE THINGS ARE NOT OKAY!

[Opinion Owner]

You don't think most men of all ages are sexually attracted to a good looking 15 year old? go learn basic biology, seriously. It is completely normal, they/we aren't pedophiles, as if the women has reached some degree of sexual maturity (breast development, thigh to waist ratio suggestive of birthing ability) they are still attracted to signs of sexual maturity. Girls of 13 can have developed breasts and hips, and older men are definitely still attracted to them in a purely sexual sense. A small modern example, men of all ages waited for Mary-kate and Ashly Olsen to be of legal age, there was a big following based on sexual attraction for them since they where 14.

[Asker]

It's funny how you say you have an English degree meanwhile you don't know the difference between where and WERE*

[Opinion Owner]

ooo ad hominems, and that was a typing mistake, not erroneous knowledge.

[Asker]

Yea right, just go to doing what you did before what probibly was molesting 14year old girls. Hope the police gets you.

[Yesits_GalaxyHotChoc]

Now the world shall end. If all you care about is fb likes then you need to get out more

[front2back]

Or maybe Facebook likes don't mean shit?

[front2back]

@ Update
I skated my Belgian friend Britta if Belgian people take thier Facebook likes seriously... she said, "No they don't matter, WTF? Stomme trut."

[Asker]

Teenagers. Not adults.

[Koldhearted]

It must be awesome being an attractive teenage girl.

[Ricky209]

Sam trolls clogging up the Internet with thier stupid topics.

[Anonymous]

This is such a stupid question, seriously I don't think most people get more the 30likes on their profile pictures on fb

[KidanisCortes]

Are you serious? wth man kids these days

[Anonymous]

OMG everyone stop! This girl isn't getting the attention she needs on Facebook!

[Anonymous]

Why is having so many "likes" in Belgium so important. Is there some "rulebook" that says you have to have a certain amount in Belgium. 'tf?

[Anonymous]

You should probably get a life.

[Anonymous]

Darling you don't need face book likes, or any other social media to define your beauty ! You are gorgeous Inside and Out ~

[BurtonTricks]

1st world problems right here... Lmao

[ArabianPwincess197]

Lol.

[Maggimay]

what a catastrophe !!! OMG..

[supercutebutt]

Post a link to your fb and we will click like! :)

[batgirl22]

Bro everyone is busy. Don't worry lol

[DontDropIt]

why is this so funny lol

[blackeagle007]

Does someone have a violen?

[JustNeedSumFriends]

stop making facebook a priority...

[Dtegesd123]

post pics of cute animals, they always get likes

[HollywoodGlam]

That's okay, it's not a big deal.

[ThatGuy98]

I'm happy if I get 50.. :D

[Anonymous]

You should get a life :)

[Eugene]

Post your boobs.

Should get some attention.

[amphet11]

She probably already does that, how do you think she got 150 likes?

[Asker]

I actually don't, i just post selfies. And 150likes is very reasonable where i live

[Eugene]

@amphet11

Indeed... Silly me.

Well, she can become a transsexual. With all the hype in Western countries about that, she should be able to accumulate more than 150 likes as a male.

[amphet11]

Selfies in a tight tank top where your cleavage is very visible

[Eugene]

@amphet11
Too mainstream.

[Asker]

I don't understand why you all are so mean. I don't even have a cleavage bc I don't have big boobs. Now happy?

[Eugene]

We're not mean. We're just laughing at such desire for cheap attention over what? Some website.
I mean, you're young, don't you have something more productive to do? Sports, boys, hobbies?

[Asker]

Ofc i do but if you've read te update you would understand it more i think

[Eugene]

You have some weird perception on social life.

Real friends are always numerous. I can have millions in my friendlist, but does that makes me real friends with them.
Those likes are meaningless and only have some kind of weight within some socially awkward outcasts.