When i saw the title i was like "YES ITS WRONG!" Then i saw th picture and description and realized you were talking about a little kid bathing with her father, not like a teenager showering with her dad. This is I don't know i guess okay depending on their age, our mom used to bath me and my sister or brother together to save time in elemntary school, this just looks weird because its a dad and daughter, its looked at as more perverted than a mother and son, but it does look weird and i can't speak on whats normal becasue i dont have kids or a duaghter. But itll be worse because he's a dad/guy and she's a girl/daughter like how in society its usually looked at as okay when a hot older female teacher bangs a 15 year old male student but its perverted when a older male teacher goes for a 15 year old girl. Its looked at like that because girls appear more innocent in our society and guys are more labeled dominant and sexual when it comes to relations with the opposite sex. So when you see a dad in a picture like that its weird because you associate him with being more sexaul or initating the action , which means you instinctively think he has sexual or kind of predator like intentions , and you associate the daughter with the subconsious belief that girls are more innocent, so the fact that its his daughter makes it look even more perverted, because naturally incest is wrong , she's a little girl , and girls are associated with being innocent, it amplifies those effects because she's his daughter , so it goes double. This makes the belief its wrong bigger because you see a little girl in this scenerio with a big grown man whos her father, and you naturally think he's perverted and had bad intentions because how we see guys as sexual dominate and initiative , it looks like a big pervert trying to prey on his little girl.
I can image the same picture with a mom and her son and i wouldn't really think its wrong or have the same conflicting thoughts about it. This is because we naturally dont look at girls as sexually dominate and initiative like guys , so we dont have that bias conflicting our perception in that case. With a mother and son (has to be young as well) you kind of see it for what it really is. Its not looked at as sexual or preying down on him or anything. But maybe a parent might have a different opinion.
But naturally he can't have bad intentions for it to be okay. And she has to be really young.
People are stupid, but too f*cking stupid to thing this guy is a rapist for bathing with HIS OWN daughter.
So if the mother is bathing with her son, it's ok?
What the fuck is going on that we have to insult a father that is just having innocent fun with his daughter.
For fucks sake, stop with this bullshit.
I was raised by a single father and and I showered with him till I was like 9 or 10 he would wash my hair and yeh I thought it was odd that I felt his penis rubbing on my back and turning around and it would be in my face and I would just think he was just cleaning it really good and would say he was making conditioner to make my hair soft. I never told anyone and would make me take 1 in the morning and 1 at night didn't know what cum was till I got 12 and then realized it wasn't conditioner and not facial moisturizer like he said.
He should AT LEAST wear a bathing suit.. He shouldn't have his junk hanging out all up in her personal space. She's just a little girl! I'd be traumatized if my father did that to me. Even as a little girl, when I was in the shower and needed my dad to take off the handheld showerhead for me (I couldn't reach) he would look away or cover his eyes while doing so and gave me the privacy and respect that I deserved.
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People can be so stupid sometimes. If it was a mother and her son, the mother wouldn't be called a rapist.
It's fine because she is only a kindergarten and it's his daughter.
Totally normal. Obvs.
The girl should be on the road to taking showers by herself, but she's five.
Five years old, y'all.
I had a single dad. I did not have a mom. What was HE supposed to do? Eh?
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I don't think there is anything wrong with the father for doing it. I just don't think it's right because a little girl shouldn't have to see her fathers naked body because that image may be stuck in her head for the rest of her life, I wouldn't wish that on anyone.
Its not bad but i think once a child starts to enter the world and socialize with other children, this should stop. Maybe have another baby and bath with him/her but let this one grow up now, she doesn't need to be seeing her fathers penis. Maybe if its a boy its a little less shocking. A few more years and she will be learning about sex ed.
Its a little odd but by all means its ok for now.
its okay to take bath like that but stupid to post that photo with both of them naked
He's not a rapist unless he rapes... if you mean sexual abuse of any kind, if it's innocent bathing with a small child it can be okay. Not everyone is comfortable with that. I think the age of reason tends to be around age 7, so I would say below that may be okay. I personally wouldn't do it.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with that, though I wouldn't do it myself. I remember this one Sunday morning my mom had both me and my younger brother take a shower with her so we all could hurry up and get ready for church. It was a blast! But I vaguely remember my mom wearing only her underwear.
Past a certain age it wouldn't seem right obviously but if she's in kindergarten then I don't see how it's bad. There's nothing sexual about it. It's parent bonding time with your little kid in the bath tub where kids often play.
You said it yourself: clean-minded. It's totally innocent.
No I dont think it is bad. I am a nanny I've been taking care of a girl for 3 years. And everyday i work im suposed to bath her. I started to feel weird to keep physically washing her by my own hands because now she is 4. But she will actually ask me to do it with her or help. Its hard to say no to a kid you care about.
Sad , when thinks like this get distorted in such a manner :(
The fuck up thing about this is if it was a woman people would be A ok with it and have no pervasive though that the mother was not "clean minded".
It's normal. She looks too young to be trusted to bathe herself anyways without possibly drowning. Once kids get old enough to bathe themselves then it's weird.
I think it's OK if he is taking shower with her but he should be wearing his underwear at least...
He should not be naked...
Or maybe give her a bath in a tub but no need to take a bath himself!
Is it starting to get a little weird?
Yeah.
Does it make the guy a rapist?
Do I even need to fucking answer that?
Im not sure if your question is "is he a rapist?" or "are people right?"
To the first question, I'd answer "no, it's not "
To the last "yes it is"
I think there is no problem when Dad cleans his daughter , but i object to be naked in front of his kid even if his mind is clean... also i object to bath her if she passed 7 years old
I am certain he will stop when she is feels uncomfortable, probably by age 8.
A "rapist"? God some people are absolutely, bloody stupid.
no he's the father I doubt he wants to do anything too his own daughter
it's fine at any age with anyone.
it's not sexual to be naked or nude with anyone be it family, friends or even a stranger.
She's in kindergarten. She'll remember that. That is so wrong.
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