I don't fit in with my sorority?

Anonymous
Hey!
I don't really know what to do about my sorority situation. I joined a sorority to meet new people, participate in fun events/fundraisers for philanthropy, and to feel a general sense of pride with the people whose letters I associate with.
Yet I realized that I don't have much in common with almost anyone in the sorority that gave me a bid. Most of my sisters are just plain odd and leave a WTF impression on everyone that isn't in my sorority that meets them.
Everyone is also incredibly uninvolved - no one ever shows up to events to support other organizations and to represent our own. It has happened that I show up to something as the only one, and we are a chapter of over 100 girls!!
We are the only sorority that has absolutely 0 mixers because fraternities literally hate us (they think we're unattractive and antisocial - objectively, about 90% of us are overweight, and barely anyone goes out or makes an effort to meet new people). Every time I go out, boys don't believe me that I'm in the sorority that I'm in because I'm actually *gasp* social! And in the rare occasion that we do have a mixer, that frat never wants to mix with us again.
I have more friends in other sororities than I do in my own! My sisters just bond over like "lol we're the outcast sorority" and seem to be proud of it. Whenever my non-Greek friends ask me which sorority they should rush, I feel compelled to tell them not to rush mine because they will get neither a great sisterhood nor better social life out of it, but I feel like that is wrong since I'm supposed to believe that we are the best; when in reality, my sorority just seems to have taken the girls that no other sorority wanted.
I really don't know how I can improve the sorority spirit if I am maybe one of three girls in the entire chapter who actually puts in effort.
Help?
I don't fit in with my sorority?
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