I feel like I don't fit into society and its trends and how people live on a daily basis. Any thoughts?

[Anonymous]

I have literally no friends and I feel alone as ever. I tried reddit but to my knowledge that app was toxic from the core with people or strangers laughing at me and my insecurities. How do you think i can fit in. I feel I dont fit into society unfortunately :( People have started to show off to our family implying they are better than us, but they are not. We are nicer than them.

It is a horrible feeling. How do I start making friends. I need help

[AmandaYVR]

Reddit is overall quite toxic.

You're actually more likely to get support here. Although even here (and everywhere) you will also find aggression, etc.

You actually sound like a good person with a decent head on her shoulders.

Remind yourself that everyone feels lonely. It just varies when, and by how much.

Sometimes being different, or the differences that are unique to you, can become the most valuable in society and to others.

Write here. Express yourself, your thoughts. Stay away from posting photos of yourself. That is an empty well that will never be filled. And sexual attention has little value in the end.

Using your words, being open-minded, being kind to others, and NOT anon'ing, will bring you into this community, and as people slowly begin to know you, the familiarity will eventually bring camaraderie and friendships. You wn't get that if you anon. Trust me.

There are good people here. (And not so good, just as you will find everywhere. Though remember that almost no one is all bad.) Socializing takes practice. You can have different views, but if you don't delete their views (comments), don't block those whom you merely disagreed with, and are genuine in your curiosity of others and the world, you'll eventually start to gain some confidence in who you are, what traits you have that are of value, and come to respect yourself, while still being kind and receptive to others. Everyone wants to be appreciated. And listened to. Finding connections, friends, and more, often begins simply with this.

Good luck to you. 💐

[KingslayerC]

No matter where you live, you can find similar people. Assuming you live around other people and not in the wilderness. Take whatever you like to do, and find online groups that do the same thing in your area. It may take a while to find the kind of people you want to be around, but trust me, most people are out looking for friends too.

[sidhagain]

Friendship just happens honestly.. just keep interacting to the extent you like and the magic happens

Don't make yourself force into a friendship or relationship ever

As you keep interesting you'd definitely find people with frequencies matching yours

[Asker]

there you go again!

[sidhagain]

Wdym

[Asker]

I mean that here you are with your negativity :) Good luck.

[sidhagain]

Negativity?

Really?

[Berethor]

Maybe you would have better luck on GAG than on Reddit, you can Message people here.

[Asker]

people are trolling me on here too!

[Asker]

but that's exactly why reddit is sham

[Berethor]

Well I am not going to troll you, what are they laughing at anyway? what so funny?

[Asker]

I wish there was an exact reason why they troll me for their own purposes. I may be an attention seeker but people think I look hideous in the clothes I wear. I thought the world was a free world, until I saw people making fun of me.

[Asker]

Maybe posting too much has led to this kind of response.

[Asker]

The WORLD is laughing at me that I don't do anything EXCEPT post online and seek attention for my "not so clear photos." Maybe it is my fault, but its not like they are not faulty either

[Asker]

People are insecure so they latch onto me because they feed off of mines. Plus, a second thought I WANT TO bring into perspective is that guys on dating apps are not nice at all, and so aren't random people in person. If all they want to do is laugh at me, then I don't think we were meant to be friends anyways.

[Berethor]

I see, maybe you should consider start wearing other type of clothes, might help. :)

[Asker]

Why should I wear "other" clothes and have pretty clean pictures just to please sour trolls online

[Asker]

Why should I do it to just please these trolls?

[Berethor]

How you know that they trolls? maybe they really don't like your clothes, it not legit?

[Asker]

its not my clothes they dont like. they just dont like me.

[Asker]

You dont have to be so rude and yes they are trolling. look at my other post. no one needs to talk like that

[Berethor]

Maybe, why they didn't like you, didn't you a nice girl? maybe you should ignore them.

[Asker]

I don't understand your reasoning. Didn't you a nice girl means what

[Berethor]

Are you a nice girl? if you a nice girl then most people are going to like you I think.

[Asker]

I am. explain to me why people are laughing at my photos and being rude then.

[Berethor]

Some people are judging only by looks, what can you do? maybe you should ignore them.

[Asker]

did they know I actually look like a pretty princessy model and they are trolls?

[Asker]

they just want girls who show their boobs, post high quality photos online and look like those tiktok girls.

[Berethor]

I don't know how you look like because you are not having a picture, how should I know?

[Asker]

look at my profile then

[Berethor]

It not you, it a generic picture on GAG, but yea maybe they just want to see boobs.

[Asker]

well, there you goo! lol, they are literally toxic for no reason at all. and the same happened to me on reddit. it makes me think tiktok won't go well at all

[Asker]

the internet is outrageous for some people unfortunately.

[Berethor]

Guys tend to be more sexual than girl what can you do? you can ignore those guys.

[Asker]

well apps online like dating apps, and reddit + this one are toxic in their nature. No one cares about anyone on here. They might just wanna have seggs, and that makes people out to have it. There is no reality just unrealistic expectations!!!

[Asker]

and number 2, I am MUCH MORE ATTRACTIVE than they are telling me. They actually wrote in the comments that I look " like a ugly girl thinking I am so pretty"

[Berethor]

I would take your word for it because you never shown picture of yourself here. :)

[Asker]

No actually click on my profile, you will see that I posted a photo

[Berethor]

I did and I saw nothing, it's okay, you don't have to show yourself if you don't want.

[Asker]

No there is a photo posted there.

[Asker]

Take a closer look. the images won't bite you lol

[Berethor]

On a new question? now I see, yea I think that you look okay, you not ugly. :)

[Asker]

I don't look "okay" I look better than that.

[Asker]

You really dont have to be so rude.

[Berethor]

Why I am rude? I said that you not ugly, you look like a normal girl to me. :)

[Asker]

I do not look normal. In fact I look like A MODEL. and you cannot say no to that

[exitseven]

Join the club. I don't know if it is social media that caused this but it is hard to make friends the older you get the harder it is.