Why can't we just be happy with our natural born looks?

[Anonymous]

Why must we let society makes us feel terrible for not fitting into their beauty standards?

She and many other women who did cosmetic/plastic surgery were perfect as they were before surgery.

what's so wrong about being rated a 1 out of 10 in terms of physical appearance, why can't we focus more on how we are as people and on making a good impact on the world as opposed to on how we look?

Why do we shame each other for perfectly natural features like, saggy breasts, hair loss, short height et cetera..

Don't get me wrong, it is important to take care of your health and body via proper diet, adequate exercise and good hygiene practices but being too bothered to fit into society's standards of beauty I think its not good...

Aging is not a crime it's natural so why try and minimize it, why not embrace it?

{Why do we go get plastic surgery instead of learning to accept what we perceive to be faults?}
Lets stop making it seem like a crime to not fit into societal standards of beauty and start making it a crime to behave or act in a way that harms society for example things like rape, murder, mass shootings, racism, narcissism, entitlement, abuse and so on and so forth. I think we need to start being more kind to ourselves and more accepting of our natural born features.

[Sour-rose]

Very simple answers.

-someone was BORN NATURAL AND THEIR FUNKIN' HOT
-because we want (____) and only surgery will do
-getting old, can't handle that shi
-that kid looks better than me and she's like only 2 years younger, wtf
-i look like actual shi
-i hate this body. :)

[Asker]

none of those answers are doing anyone any favors, we can't all fit into societal standards of beauty because nature did not intend it to be that way, being unattractive is not bad at all what you consider to be flaws in your looks is not flaws at all it's what nature created to be perfection, you are absolutely perfect in your natural born features.

[Sour-rose]

Its life, bae.

[NaultD]

Cosmetic surgery is more of an investment in mental bandwidth then anything else.

I got a front tooth punched out as a stupid teenager. It was always a thing for years. I was a toothless inbred hick with every person i met. Pay $8,000 for an implant and that was singlehandedly the best investment I've ever made in my life.

My issue became an non-issue overnight.

[Asker]

Keep telling yourself that but the more you say it will not necessarily make it true!. your looks are not as important as how you are as a person, i know people with missing teeth and they never got it fixed and that never affected their lives at all, they are still living their lives and being ordinary people.

[Whatever2929292]

Well there is nothing wrong with wanting to look the best we can. As well as this is personal stuff. I am NOT saying people should be self loathing.

But hey nothing wrong with wanting to be natural either.

[Asker]

that's what i said i said eat healthy yes, practice good hygiene but accept your natural born looks and don't try to change them.

[Whatever2929292]

There is nothing wrong with that. But if someone wants to go that route I don't see anything wrong with it.

[Whatever2929292]

But asker I agree what is on the inside also counts.

[jennifer_bloom]

If you look at white celebrities, none of them look young without Botox, Asians do, but not Europeans.

[Asker]

That's absolutely toxic because aging is perfectly normal and it should be embraced!

[SaartjieJane]

@jennifer_bloom literally nothing wrong with aging and it’s totally frickin normal. So may you look your age or look younger, so the fuck what.

[pers0n]

Finally! I've been saying this shit in various funny and crude ways. It's a problem that we are brainwashed and you're onto something.
If you want my opinion, the reason celebrities do so many surgeries is because so many models are secretly transgender, which is another layer of deception. Did you know that on the cover of women's health magazine most of them are tranny males?

[Asker]

Yeah the plastic surgery rates are sky rocketing lately so plastic surgeons are making a lot of money which baffles me honestly.

[exitseven]

Society has made looks very important. It has been shown that better looking people get more promotions and get hired for better jobs. Society treats old people as not relevant. I think more people would be happy about their looks if this was not the case.

[FilmGuy93]

You spend more time with yourself than anyone else, so you get a chance to familiarize yourself with all of your little flaws and really zoom in on them.

[Asker]

good so zoom in on your flaws and accept them!!!

[Asker]

and they are not flaws its natures way of making you unique

[MCheetah]

Because some of us are short and ugly and not just a 6 or 7 out of 10, upset that they're not 9s.

[Asker]

we not all born to be 9's if we look at the natural number system there's 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 and so on, therefore some of us were born to be the 1s and the 2s and so on. That's nature and its beautiful we just need to stop associating negativity with being rated less than a 9 and start acknowledging the fact that being rated less than a 9 is normal and as perfectly okay as it is to be rated higher than an 8.

[jshm2]

It's called "vanity" kiddo, and it's fuck all to do with society.

That is just their own projections. They hide the fact it's their own arrogance and vain desires they are looking to fulfil, but expect others to carry the guilt.

[Anonymous]

Because people want to be liked and they know that others assign value to them based on these appearances. Attractive people are treated better in nearly every facet of daily life.

[Asker]

yeah but lets not kid ourselves, if you're attractive but cruel or have a terrible personality or lack intelligence you get treated horribly as well, but if you are unattractive but smart, kind, helpful, you get appreciated and loved by the people with common sense. There are dark sides to being attractive, attractive people tend to stress too much about upholding their appearance, they get used by people for their looks, They usually get jealous and insecure when another person who is far more attractive than they are comes along.. that does not sound like a good life!. Attractive or not, just accept your natural born looks, love how you look, take care of yourself, be kind to others and lets all cut each other some slack none of us choose to be born, and none of us got to choose how we will look nature did that for us but lets appreciate our looks and the fact that we are living regardless and try to benefit this world while we're still living in it.

[Opinion Owner]

Your post is so saccharin and schmaltzy it’s off-putting.

[Asker]

That's you a you problem thing not a me problem thing, so you figure out how you'll deal with it being off putting for you!

[worldscolide]

I actually agree. I see people who choose surgery to"look better" as in not medically necessary as having mental problems. I won't be with someone who chooses to do that to them selves.

[skeetskeetskeet]

The problem is that girls think they have to look that way when really of you saw a Kardashian without all the airbrushing and photo shop shit they are kinda circus freaks... there's so much tape and plastic on them...

[Rebecca_wolf]

Because of society and people want people to change and look different and standards

[BLP11520]

You have what you have, big boobs, small boobs , big dick or small, Tall, short... people need to stop looking like Hollywood people.

[EnglishEuropean]

Why should we be happy about looking like the arse end of a chimp?

[Asker]

because looking like an arse end of a chimp is what nature decided for you to look like and because there is nothing wrong with it

[EnglishEuropean]

That's inaccurate because if you look like the arse end of a chimp you probably can't reproduce.

[Waldoe]

I am happy, why aren't you? I think you watch too much TV

[Anonymous]

Because human nature

[Asker]

well it's not doing anyone any good at all!

[anylolone]

Greed.

[fireforeffect]

I am.