I agree with you on this. Correct me if I am wrong but was it boobs oe butt when comparing body parts. Why not eyes, legs, hands, ears, feet, back etc. I will admit that I have answered a lot of how do I look questions but I do realize that there is more to a person than just looks like personality, the way they treat others, interests etc.
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Because everyone can get 'looks' with beauty products or surgery or photoshop.
I think it's done here a lot because talking about personality is hard. Most people want a kind intelligent interesting person to be with but those are incredibly vague descriptions even though they actually seem descriptive. People are attracted to a person by HOW they display these personality attributes and that's hard for most people to explain. They just love what they love they don't try to rationalize it.
That and yes we are definitely at the pinnacle of a shallow society.
Looks are an important part of a romantic relationship... Notice I said PART though. Looks alone won't make a relationship last, they are just the starting point. I find it hard to see how two people can have a sexual relationship without that initial spark of physical attraction, though.
I did not deny the importance of finding them pretty yourself but you cannot be with a person you do not have chemistry with or else that is not true love.
Physical attraction is the first attraction you get with somebody. We know personality means more, but you don't get to find out there personality unless they're physically attractive enough for you to approach.
First off, most people aren't very smart. At all. Also, it's not common for a man to be spiritually evolved enough past the animal level to overlook those things.
Who said anything about long-term? Some dude just want a short-term relationship ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Attraction is a requirement, if a dude is not attracted to you, then neither short-term or long-term relationship can happen. Period. Your personality can certainly make you more attractive but like I said, we are a visual creature.
I usually ask no physical questions just personality questions
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Looks are more apparent. If you were shopping for a house would you bother going to view the listing if the outside looked dilapidated or was even just in a style you didn't like?
Because physical attraction is most of the battle when it comes to FINDING the person. If she's not attractive on the outside, at all, then there's little point to dating the inside.
Looks are important. They are our identity, the thing they label us with in their brains.
I'm more attracted to personality, but I guess the other's just don't want to wake up next to a buggawolf. They rather date someone with the personality of a rock.
not people... some people. they are thinking all sex.
Attraction is very sub conscious as well, at least for some who are functioning out of "love" vs the subset of love... sex. personality and intention are essential to some of us.
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It is... but we can't go on answering every tiny detail of our ideal partner to every question asked here... there are at least 50-60 such questions per week..
So we simplify it... besides nobody care about the tiny detaiks
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I agree with you on this. Correct me if I am wrong but was it boobs oe butt when comparing body parts. Why not eyes, legs, hands, ears, feet, back etc. I will admit that I have answered a lot of how do I look questions but I do realize that there is more to a person than just looks like personality, the way they treat others, interests etc.
Because everyone can get 'looks' with beauty products or surgery or photoshop.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iYhCn0jf46Uhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nrWhEEbjRgUhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AA_dXDRkP9sNo way to get brains for those who don't have them
Only in gag lol
No wonder they are foreva single 😛😜
Lol :)
Well, there are 5 senses and it's easier to go by vision.
Smell: you would have to be in close proximity, also kind of weird to go around smelling people.
Touch: sexual harassment
Taste: you just can't go around tasting people
Hearing: okay, this sense might be better to go by as you can get to know more about a person through conversation
Yes. Listen to what that person has to say. Don't just get with a person because they're hot
I think it's done here a lot because talking about personality is hard. Most people want a kind intelligent interesting person to be with but those are incredibly vague descriptions even though they actually seem descriptive. People are attracted to a person by HOW they display these personality attributes and that's hard for most people to explain. They just love what they love they don't try to rationalize it.
That and yes we are definitely at the pinnacle of a shallow society.
Looks are an important part of a romantic relationship... Notice I said PART though. Looks alone won't make a relationship last, they are just the starting point. I find it hard to see how two people can have a sexual relationship without that initial spark of physical attraction, though.
Because that's all we have to work with if we don't know the person. Why should we be with someone we don't find attractive in all aspects?
I did not deny the importance of finding them pretty yourself but you cannot be with a person you do not have chemistry with or else that is not true love.
Physical attraction is the first attraction you get with somebody. We know personality means more, but you don't get to find out there personality unless they're physically attractive enough for you to approach.
First off, most people aren't very smart. At all.
Also, it's not common for a man to be spiritually evolved enough past the animal level to overlook those things.
Personality is also important. Physical attraction is important just as much.
You come for the look, you stay for the personality. At least that how it is for guys. We are and forever be visual creature.
But you cannot have one without the other. You cannot be with a long term partner just because they are pleasing to the eye.
Who said anything about long-term? Some dude just want a short-term relationship ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Attraction is a requirement, if a dude is not attracted to you, then neither short-term or long-term relationship can happen. Period. Your personality can certainly make you more attractive but like I said, we are a visual creature.
Because of society putting such an
"important" emphasis on looks.
Blam it on the media. We can't escape our very shallow society..
True
I usually ask no physical questions just personality questions
Looks are more apparent. If you were shopping for a house would you bother going to view the listing if the outside looked dilapidated or was even just in a style you didn't like?
This website is built to cater to these types of questions. Presentation is important but you can only control external impressions, i. e. looks.
Because physical attraction is most of the battle when it comes to FINDING the person. If she's not attractive on the outside, at all, then there's little point to dating the inside.
Looks are important. They are our identity, the thing they label us with in their brains.
because people are mostly after looks than what's inside
I'm more attracted to personality, but I guess the other's just don't want to wake up next to a buggawolf. They rather date someone with the personality of a rock.
Same here. Personality before anything else.
not people... some people. they are thinking all sex.
Attraction is very sub conscious as well, at least for some who are functioning out of "love" vs the subset of love... sex. personality and intention are essential to some of us.
It is... but we can't go on answering every tiny detail of our ideal partner to every question asked here... there are at least 50-60 such questions per week..
So we simplify it... besides nobody care about the tiny detaiks