Why are white men so angry and insecure about more and more white women choosing minority men? What's wrong with a white girl with a black/brown man?

[Anonymous]

I'm a white girl and I love black/brown (any minority man) men

Non white females and Males: because white men are insecure

Other opinion, please refrain from making racist or prejudice remarks, thank you.

A total of 68 votes were cast: 35 girls and 33 guys. See detailed results

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+1 y

It seems like we have a bunch on insecure white males responding lmao, you people are so insecure it's pathetic

[BlondeBlueEyes84]

Women DO NOT choose men. Women have to take the men that approach them, hit on them and ask them out, or stay single. It goes against women's nature to ask men out themselves, choosing them.
Yes, sometimes women do that, but it's very, very rare. And when a woman does so, with enough courage, she certainly doesn't choose an ugly non-White man, but the crush she has on a certain White man, knowing that she has to ask him out, having no other choice, or missing out forever.

White women SETTLE DOWN with ugly, disgusting Black and Brown men, they never, ever prefer them. That's out-of-this-world laughable to assume that ANY women, White or otherwise, would EVER take a Black or Brown guy over a White guy, given the chance to date either of them.

And why do White women settle down with ugly Black and Brown men?
Because White men are not approaching them and asking them out. When White men are not asking out White women, and ugly non-White "men" are constantly cat-calling, groveling before, approaching, hitting on and asking White women out, at one point White women believe that they're not good enough, not attractive enough for White men to want them, and that ugly non-White men is all what they can get. And then, broken inside, having no self-esteem nor self-image, they settle down with these ugly, disgusting Black and Brown men. But that's never what they wanted for themselves.
All what a White woman ever wants and desires is a good-looking White man in her life.

The REAL question is, why are White men not approaching and asking out their own White women anymore, breaking them inside out, destroying their confidence, self-esteem and self-image, which then leads to White women settling down with ugly non-White men, because they believe that they can't do better and have to take what they can get.

[hellionthesage]

They don't, they really don't. Now you will see black/minority men pissed off when a white guy is dating a girl from their ethnicity but generally most don't care because why would they they have better shit to do.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q642099-why-do-black-men-hate-to-see-white-men-date-black
www.clutchmagonline.com/.../

[kaylaS91]

... I sense this little bitchpost as your attempt at masking your insecurities and lack of success with women by lashing out at white men. I'm sure there are better ways to cope than by posting things like this only when you feel safe as an anon. :)

[Asker]

White men are the insecure ones not us.

[kaylaS91]

mhmm. Yet who's the one who feels the need to spend time and energy on making a post with no purpose other than in hopes of bringing down the other group of guys (ie. white guys) down to your level?

[Asker]

Sorry but I have to call it out when you go on YouTube and see racial slurs for white girl/minority relationships or you go on Instagram and the minute a white girls posts a pic of her with a black or Hispanic guy you have thousands of insecure comments from white guys even if they aren't even dating.

[kaylaS91]

You know how many racial slurs you'll get from poc guys if a white girl says she's only attracted to/interested in dating white guys? It goes both ways.
Stop looking at things through a pinhole so that you see or acknowledge only what you wish were the absolute truth.

[cherryphi82]

This...

[reixun]

Guess they don't like seeing "their" women with non white guys. It's cringe.

[ProbablyTooMature]

All women and all men belong to all of us.

[reixun]

@ProbablyTooMature True, no one has any ownership of anyone.

[Asker]

It's pathetic isn't it

[reixun]

It's not only white guys, other groups get pissed off when the opposite gender of their race marries out. This somali/japanese couple got soo much hate from somali guys on their instagram since she's pretty and they think she should be with a somali guy.
www.beyondblackwhite.com/.../Farhia-f.png

[ProbablyTooMature]

It's for sure not just white guys, but judging from the asker's responses he just has some anti-white agenda.

[reixun]

@ProbablyTooMature Or he wanna get with a white chick 😉😉

[ProbablyTooMature]

More power to him. Keep a sista free for me. ;-)

[CisScum]

Makes little sense to me, me being white I honestly don't think white girls or guys shouldn't date other races.

[Hollyfox]

I like how every possible answer on the poll confirms your hypothesis.

[Rawrzz]

Clearly, you haven't been paying attention to black women. They're the most resentful ones over black males trying to get with white women, if you ask me. And it makes sense, since black women prefer black men.

But, vastly, people date within their own race. White women *especially*. At least, according to okcupid and some other dating app statistics, white women gave minorities all a penalty, but especially black men; and heavily favored white men.

Dunno what you're talking about with "more and more white women choosing minorities." It's still vastly same race with same race. Except for black men, who tend to go after Latinas and Asians, when black women are 3 times as receptive to them than Latinas or Asians.

Incidentally, white men were all-around much more preferred than any other race. U mad bro?

blog.okcupid.com/.../

[DodgersGM]

I couldn't care less. Maybe I'll end up with a brown girl... or a white girl... or a black girl... or (...)

I don't have any sense of ownership over people who share my skin tone.

[AleDeEurope]

But we're not, though xD
Only those that can't score will complain, but they will complain about women in general.

[Asker]

Just go on YouTube or Instagram and you'll see thousands of comments from insecure white dudes when a white girl posts a picture of her with a black or Hispanic guy

[AleDeEurope]

Same can be said with blacks and Hispanics when black/Hispanic women date white men xD
Or same can be said about black women when black men date white or Hipanic women.
Same can be said about white women when white men date Asian or Hispanic women.

In the end, losers will get angry when those they like, like those that look different than them.

[ProbablyTooMature]

I'm not angry about this at all. I've been dating non-white women for a long time, why should I hate on them?

[Asker]

Preach it there should be no racism

[Anonymous]

How pathetic.…
we couldn't care less...
I'm going to try and diagnose your problem here.. You are deeply resentful towards white men, partly because of history.. understandable and also because you look at what we have achieved.
Actually only last week I went into a coffee shop with a black woman, there was 2 black dudes in there who looked like they had a panic attack.

[MaybeNot1]

It's normally the other way around. It's white men dating outside of their own.

[Asker]

I don't think so go to YouTube and all you see is nasty racist remarks when a white female is seen with a black or Hispanic men or on social media as well

[MaybeNot1]

I know what you're talking about, but yet again that's a very small minority. And again it is the internet, more people will "express" their opinion, but again on average you see more white men dating outside of their own. And again you will also see white women complaining about that too.

[tyber1]

Oh yay, generalizations that don't even have a basis in reality. How fun.

[Asker]

Please explain

[tyber1]

Racism goes both ways, this isn't a case of white men are evil and trying to prevent white women from dating black men. Reverse the situation (black girl, white guy) and you'd probably see just as much racism if not more from her family. You've posted about these types of things before, you fetishize white girl/black guy relationships and act like evil or insecure white guys are trying to keep you apart and it's some huge struggle of racism that you're trying to overcome. Just give it up, nobody is buying into the narrative you are trying to sell because it doesn't have a basis in reality. There is always some level of racism from others when it comes to interracial relationships, it sucks but it's far from a problem caused by white men.

[Asker]

This is the first time I ask this, not lying about that, if I did post this question before I would have no reason to lie about it, but just go on Instagram and the minute a white girl posts a pic with a black or Hispanic guy you have thousands of white Guy's saying racial slurs or who are insecure even if she isn't dating him yet if it's a white guy with a Hispanic or black girl you don't see thousands of insecure black or Hispanic guys commenting

[tyber1]

You will see more racist comments by white people because there are more white people.

[Thisperson98]

Yay, more generalizations. Do you think I care who women decide to date?

[Asker]

Please don't avoid the question

[Thisperson98]

I think my response answers the question.

[MadeInAmerica]

I didn't think the majority is upset. As a black man I hear more noise from black women for black men dating other than black women.

[RedHood7]

As a latino, same here. I think the only plausible issue are the guys who watched too much interracial porn and think black men having 10-inch cocks is normal or something...

[Book_Lover17]

You ever think maybe they don't care, or the ones that do are insecure and/or jealous they don't have a girlfriend? Just a thought.

[Asker]

Just go on YouTube or social media and all you see is angry white males making racist comments

[Book_Lover17]

Yeah a lot of people say things on social media. It's social media. You probably wouldn't be asking this question in person.

[CisScum]

What white men are you talking about? I honestly don't care who dates who because it is none of my business, especially if it's different races.

[FromAshes]

Why the loaded question?

Your dad got upset because your sister is dating LeQueshawn?

[Asker]

nice racism idiot please don't respond, lequeshawn, are you kidding me please don't respond gringo

[YourName123]

we dont like the results of this:

fatherless children, welfare participation expanding.

this is not racist, this is the facts and we have to foot the bill

[SoFeckinAddicted]

They don't. Just asked a few. They said they don't give a fuck.

[anonman32]

ooo yeah we are so insecure. like we give a fuck man. people can fuck who they want.

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

the overwhelming majority of people date within their own race. so you're just wrong.

[Saoirse_Nua]

I have no problem with it

[Dred1614returns]

As a white guy, who you date does not interest me.

[Zombie_Killer_Redux]

Why do you bitch asses stay on anonymous?

[alia632]

its vary man to man