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Yes, I feel like a foreigner and get treated like a foreigner.
Please explain why.
I'm from India but I belong to a minority race. I basically look like an east Asian. My culture is completely distinct from the rest of Indians.
Every time I see something that says, "President Trump" I feel like I'm in a bad science fiction movie. Does that count?
I am a foreigner on earth lol... but for real, though!
yes especially when I go to places like little Mexico where no one speaks English and no one has a visa or Green card.
Sometimes I do because while I was born in my country, and have parents who are nationals through birth, I look a bit too exotic and people think I'm a foreigner.
I feel like I'm in Central America in some areas in some towns where I live because I only speak English but everyone around me is speaking Spanish but I live in America so that's when I feel like that
No but I understand how people who don't speak English, don't try to blend in, and try to keep their lives exactly like in their old country might feel like foreigners.
Oh…you mean it like that.
No, I feel like alien among humans, because I’m mentally very different. And also, because I need better tech for my life. Things like teleports, spaceships and so on. I would like to say, that this is what I’m used to, but I might sound like crazy person, so I’ll just say, that I miss that badly. Civilization, which live in entire system…
I feel like a foreigner in Italy because there are too many Italians.
Are you Italian and why do you feel like a foreigner if it's too many Italians?
Yes. My mother's last name is Patrizi, which means Patricians, the aristocratic class of Ancient Rome. As far as time goes, you cannot find a more documented Italian blood than mine. Why do I feel like a foreigner? Because most stereotypes about Italian being tricksters, tax evaders and dishonest persons in general are true for 80% of people. Being in the 20%, I hate this dishonest=sly and honest=stupid mentality.
I look so Bengali that even my other Bengali friends look like foreigners around me lol.
I definitely feel like I'm not from my country or a sense of not belonging. I'm a libertarian atheist who like blues, jazz and metal. I'm more American than middle eastern.
No in the UK I feel like most of the Caucasian people are the foreigners which may be down to me just knowing history because technically a very very long time ago this was the case.
nah I do pretty well, I always become the influencer wherever I go.
I feel like I'm in some sort of a paradox. I was born in the US but my parents
... are from Nigeria. So if I go to Nigeria, I'm considered too American and if I stay in the US, I'm considered too foreign. So what am I? Just one of a kind ig
i barely go out so yes, i feel like a foreigner in my native country
Soon enough your country will have foreign cultures only and there will be no place in or outside your country where you could go to see your culture again. Must be a beautiful feeling to never give a shit about your own people when you have been indoctrinated to communism all your life.
No. I live in a multinational country which is a homeland for more than 100 ethnic groups. I see all these people since I was a child. So I don't feel that I'm a foreigner in my country.
I don't, there's not a lot of immigrants in my area. And even if there was, it's still my country
I'm a citizen of my country.. Why would I feel like a foreigner?
sure, way above "average size".
walk in a upper NY mall and feel shit BE a foot taller than average there, try Panama, Thailand, Etc. even taller..
mostly white people where i live. but if you go down to california... yea you feel like you're a foreigner if you aren't mexican.
More and more every day I feel disconnected from my country and those that are invading and ruining it.
i don't believe in borders, we all come from one world, we are the same species, in stead of acting like toddlers who can't share their toy, we should learn to accept eachother's differences.
do you have walls around your house?
you can't compare so called international borders to the comfort of a roof, with the personal protection you get from those walls. borders give no protection, all they do is make things more difficult.
make things more difficult for invaders to come in right?
Japan has the best border because it basically is not connected to any other land, just water. that's why Mongolians fail to conquer it, and that's why It would be very difficult for US navy to conquer the land during ww2.
and I didn't say anything about comfort of a roof, we just talked about walls. In a concrete construction, the roof stands on pillars and walls are just for separation.
But I suppose your house has a door which gets locked, and the people who wanna get in must ask for a permission first, right?
I have to say refugees are better than colonists (read history).
I do a bit, people don't like Arabs or middle easterns
Naah, to much diversity within itself. We get use to seeing new people every second day.
lmfao... no. im white and i live in america. right at home.
No I feel right at home. My country is an emigrant nation. We don't get immigrants that much..
Im a fucking lebanese shiite. I don't feel like a foreigner
Sometimes yeah. Its time for a reconquista already.
Yes, and I'm sick of feeling that way and feeling like a second class person in my own country!
Nearly everyone moves out of London, I read: property and rent prices rocket and the alternative is being roasted in the Grenfell building or a lookalike. :(
@LordBade It's those prices which make you feel like a second class person in your own country! Because of those prices you have to share you neighborhood with poor people.
First class persons get the big wages to pay those prices.
No I feel like a second class citizen because those of other races can say what they like about me. But I can't criticise Islam or I'll be fined or sent to prison. It's a joke.
Sent to Reading Gate for criticising Islam?
Then the whole EDL and British National Party would be in prison.
Most immigrants say my country is too poor and go to Spain, so I am happy with that, don't want to be a minority in my own land
No I dont feel like a foreigner because in America the country is open to everyone so there is a vast amount very different cultures and races.
Always have, I hate it here.
Why?
I am not like the locals. I was born here but I look different and not retarded enough, not that I want to be but it's frustrating and everything around me feels slow.
no but pretty soon i probably will
Why do you think you would feel like that soon?
because in my area at least TONS of new apartments etc are being build and mostly bought by foreigners so thats why (not saying its a problem)
they're idiots if they're American... we are all from a foreign nation
No I don't but I live in America which has very few refugees
not really... my country is my house and only I go in it.
No, I've never felt that way.
and what's wrong with multiculturalism? -__-
It depends which points of view we're seeing it from. Some people thinks it's a good thing, other are skeptical. I can see both the pros and cons. It can be interesting to learn about new cultures and learn new things. But culture crash and cultures that isn't compatible can occur too.
If it erodes the hosts cultural identity and that country starts to favour the immigrants over its own people. Then it's bad. Like here in Britain.
Yes, culture crash can make conflicts.
There would be nothing wrong with it if they integrated and also learned the language.
@Oram52 I agree with that.. if you're moving somewhere.. you should adapt to the new environment and people
What's wrong with multiculturalism? FGM rate in England is higher than some countries in middle east. Honor killing rate in England is also so damn high. And do I need to remind you the Koln mass sexual assault by Muslim migrants?
In Oslo 100% of rapes are done by foreigners. And if you look at Sweden rape statics you'll see a noticeable rise since the North African and Syrian has gone there. You might also want to search "Sweden no go zones" in YouTube, and see how the Australian news team got attacked by Muslim mobs. And these are just the peak of the iceberg.
@WhiteDuck, @cinderelli, there's also conservative people from Middle-eastern and African countries who's skeptical to the gender equality, women's right and other newer Western-values. So how they're skeptical to my culture I'm skeptical to theirs.
@curiousnorway that's understandable..
Yeah but only one of us do bad shit, which makes their culture smell like Bull shit
@WhiteDuck this is debatable... but I don't wanna argue with you.. because you're not going to understand facts/statistics
Which part of my statements say that I don't understand facts/statistics?
But here's a fact, some cultures are stupid, inhumane and barbaric. And I think we all agree that these cultures and people who practice them are no good for any society.
yes i do and its wrong
Why?
because there are way way too many and they breed more and faster than us
Do you mean immigrants? The native tribes came first to Australia and later on the British people and other European settled. Australia was a prison for British criminals in the beginning and they immigrated after the natives settled. So the first European was immigrants too.
You must be an apologist by the sounds of it! Look, if you don like the answers/opinions then dont ask the questions. Australia belongs to Europeans and Aboriginals and no one else. Simple.
GAG is an internet forum for both discussions and questions. So I thinks it's fine discussing with people. The natives were in the country first and then Europeans settled. If Europeans can settle, then why can't other people too?
yeah
Why? : )
they notice that my last name is not japanese
I am a foreigner of the world.
So many dislikes lmao
Let me guess, your name must be Thanos?
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-ZlSNtkn5V0
Haha
HAHA! Yeah. Did you listen to the song?
Yep.
What'd you think?
A little too throaty
okay i feel that. Not everyone likes Deathcore.
I live in the UK, I feel that says enough
Why do you feel like a foreigner? I would like an explanation. : )
When the government caters to the needs of minorities and shields them from punishment, that tells me a lot where the direction of my country is headed.
Rotherham, 1,400 children were betrayed by the very people who are meant to protect them, all in the fear of being called racist.
Children are suffering poverty in the country, yet we have money to pay welfare for refugees.
And we are told to shut up and deal with it or be called a racist - when we ask the pests that force this upon us why this is happening, we are told "it's for diversity"
http://i.imgur.com/MwI9VMC.jpg
Why are we being treated like dirt? Why are we being walked all over? Why do we deserve this?
The automated response from such people who support this treasonous ideology of multiculturalism are:
"It's for diversity"
"Stop being racist"
"You deserve it for colonialism"
You see my problem?
It's some challenges with multiculturalism, so it's not only pros or advantage with it. Sometimes cultures aren't so very compatible. Example Western culture and culture from the Middle-east/Africa isn't compatible in my opinion. Not sure how the pro-multiculturalism plans to fix that issue.
"You deserve it for the colonialism" - Karma is a bitch.
@ikarp66 By your own logic we should gas the whole population of Germany
At the same time, you also agree with the DPRK's three generation punishment, pretty sickening.
@ikarp66, People who lives today isn't responsible for what people in the past did. It's not my fault for example that the vikings stole and went to war. Not is it his fault people in the past did what they did either.
Germany still pays it's reperations. Germany took in most of the Syrian refugees.
DPRK is on the waiting list.
What about the British?
@ikarp66 Germany are paying reparations based on promises they made to pay at the time, they are not paying reparations because they want to.
We've apologised for the crimes of the Empire and former colonies are happy to remain in the Commonwealth and maintain good relations with us if they were bothered they wouldn't bother with us. Instead India approached us proposing a trade deal right as we invoked Article 50.
You're deciding the whole of the UK should be subjugated and suffer under multiculturalism on the basis of our ancestors.
@ikarp66 Germany is paying reparations because they made promises to pay a certain amount. Germany paid off ww1 debt in 2010. I'm simply using your own logic against you, you clearly want the entire population of the UK dead.
Germany doesn't have to take in """refugees""" why should they?
We apologised for the crimes of the Empire and many of the former colonies are happy to maintain good relations with us, India approached us the moment we invoked Article 50 for a free trade deal
fuck this website pisses me off sometimes
@disgustingweebtrash, I thinks it's some pros taking in refugees. Helping people in needs due war is a good deed in my opinion and some of them are genuine nice people who needs a helping hand. But I'm agree questioning some cultures and moderate amount is something we should keep in mind.
There's helping refugees then there's pushing them upon a nation simply because of their past, Poland is refusing refugees and I commend them for it. Poland was bullied throughout history and is now laughing at us
at least they are paying it back.
India's GDP was 25% before the British set foot on India. When the British left, India's GDP was 4%. And you think that an apology is enough. Even the diamond in your Queen's crown was stolen from India.
Multiculturalism is a good thing.
My logic never implied that I want the entire population of UK dead. My logic implies "As you sow, do you reap". Please learn some history about what the British did to Indians during colonialism.
A good gesture by Angela Merkel, also Germany needs human resource.
India is a developing country, why not a free trade deal (don't forget that India was the jewel in the British crown)?
@ikarp66 Your logic does imply it "Karma is a bitch"
Simply put, if all of us died tomorrow you'd say we deserved it.
Multiculturalism is a terrible thing, cultures will clash together in a multi-cultural society and eventually the society will be a single culture once more.
I did not imply that and I never said anything about "People dying". You brought that up.
No, I wouldn't say that.
We are in the 21st century. We integrate.
@ikarp66 WE are in the 21st century, some others are not, some will refuse to integrate
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-GbN4y2Y0yU
Germany took a lot of refugees from Turkey after WW2. Those refugees never left and today you will find them everywhere in Germany (one can get a Doner kebap anywhere in Germany). I agree that some of them didn't want to integrate and live in isolation. But I am sure that their children will grow up and will integrate.
Refugees who came from war zone never caused any problems. But the refugees who came from no-war zones, just to have a better life, caused a lot of problems. And later the German government took necessary steps that only people who really needed help are helped.
This guy in the video, just ignore him, he needs education.
@disgustingweebtrash Great Britain is the nation composed originally of Celtic, German and Scandinavian tribes and which colonized large parts of the world but then complained there are too many strangers and left the EU because of the Polish... Big joke :D
@jacquesvol Great Britain as a nation has only existed since 1707, English is the language we speak and the culture we have.
We didn't vote to leave because of the Polish, we left because your vile "union" lies about it's desires to become a superstate, Polish people are hard workers and come here to work.
Belgium is composed of Wallonian and Flemish cultures, why not join the Netherlands again and give the Walloon part to France?
@jacquesvol Economic union my left buttcheek, we should line up all the bureaucrats and shoot them, but then we'd be doing what the communists do, you'd like that wouldn't you?
@disgustingweebtrash Boudica or Boudicca was a queen of the British Celtic Iceni tribe who led an uprising against the occupying forces of the Roman Empire in AD 60 or 61, and died shortly after its failure. Born: 30 AD, Britannia. Died: 61 AD, Britannia
And the Romans left you the Hadrian's wall, to protect you from Scottish tribes.
It's all a tad older than 1707.
@jacquesvol Ah, but you see. You said "Great Britain IS a nation" you were not talking of the Great British isles, but instead Great Britain as a nation.
It might be a hard concept, but certain cultures can coexist with each other finely, Scotland, England and Wales together as one state (Great Britain) are perfectly fine as one, Scottish independence is but Nicola Sturgeon's desire to ruin the centuries old union between us.
But, take a culture where women are seen as lesser, take a culture where a man can take 4 wives, take a culture where the laws of that nation make it so a woman who has been raped can be sentenced to death. And people don't want that culture for numerous reasons.
Here you are talking about Islam, not multiculturalism.
And is Islam compatible with Western values? The religion itself, no. But both religion and the culture of Arabians and South Asians. They are the least likely to integrate among all ethnicities
@disgustingweebtrash Germany paying? Joker.
Three grandparents and an uncle killed, their homes destroyed. Father in law raided at 16 in class, did slave labour in German camp during 3 years.
Nobody got a cent from the Germans.
@jacquesvol Thanks, now I know you have a reason to hate Germany and Germans. But what did France ever do to you?
France? War mongering politics : it helped the US to start a number of wars: Libya, Syria, (and also the near war about Suez in the fifties). It stayed out of GW Bush' Iraq war.
France and the UK have been pushing other EU countries to follow the US in its post 1990 Reconquista of the world.
@jacquesvol Now, what did the French commoner ever do to you to deserve your justification of their people's deaths?
@disguatingweebtrash South Asians? What about the langar seva by Sikhs to all poor people in UK, Indians helping the British people despite of the past. And Indians are the CEO of Google, Microsoft, Nokia etc. I don't know, how could one become a CEO without integrating?
@ikarp66 If you read properly, I said they are the LEAST likely to integrate, never said it's impossible
@ikarp66 Mainly Pakistanis are unlikely to integrate.. Indians are much more likely to be peaceful in my experience
From my experience people from Somali, some other African and Middle-east countries thinks it's difficult to adapt to our culture because our cultures are very different. Polish people and some other European immigrants thinks it's easier to adapt since our culture have some more similarities with theirs.
@disgustingweebtrash " take a culture where women are seen as lesser"
Look at the date of this article: http://news.BBC.co.uk/1/hi/scotland/456845.stm and read it.
You're avoiding the issue put forward to you
@disgustingweebtrash "women are seen as lesser" is a common trait to many -if not most-cultures: take the Christian Bible or the Jewish Tenakh or Hindu writings and indeed, the Quran too. Or listen to Liverpool fan talk Or visit ROK : http://www.returnofkings.com/
You're avoiding the issue I put forward to you. I will ignore all arguments you put forward until you address the issue I put forward.
What did the French commoner do to deserve your justification of their deaths?
he French govt is at fault. The commoner 'only' elected that govt.
Yes, the French government is at fault. The commoner elects no one. All politicians are the same, in the UK the labour party got us in Iraq and Afghanistan and the Conservative party got us involved in Libya and Syria. Now I ask who is the uneducated electorate supposed to vote for?
Now onto the other part. 2,000 does not speak for 60 million different people. But when a state sentences a girl to death for being raped by a 51 year old man that's not justice at all.
@disgustingweebtrash You clearly forgot to read up on Polish history.
@jacquesvol We're talking about the present are we not?
@disgustingweebtrash What politicians call multiculturalism is NO problem: the problem is when old and poor western people are living together with younger people who are visibly different. Old and poor western people feel they're entitled to more than those 'different people'. The main problem is the bad treatment all poor and retired people get from govt. That creates bad feelings and 'foreigners' then function as lightning rods for the frustrations and dissatisfaction.
@disgustingweebtrash many of the EU bureaucrats are British, don't forget that.
@disgustingweebtrash if Gag pisses you off, go back to one of your extremist forums
@jacquesvol Multiculturalism IS a problem, simply because certain cultures are not compatible and it creates unrest within the country, cultures will obviously stick to their own people and community cohesion itself is but a blind dream of the cultural Marxism that is pressed upon us all in society, eventually a singular culture will come out of these cultures as one. And the society is but one culture again, so multiculturalism sets out to destroy cultures and peoples, I ask you this, why do we need multiculturalism? Why do we need it?
And you can't say for "diversity" or to be "progressive" that's all I've ever heard from you lot.
And you're claiming I care that treasonous dogs would be shot down?
People in the community don't piss me off, the site didn't post the first post then it posted after I posted it again, I do not browse extremist forums. I could say the same for you, go back to reading your Communist Manifesto, you've made it plainly obvious you're a Marxist
@jacquesvol The British Government has betrayed it's people and decided they no longer matter. It all strengthens the argument that left-wingers in general, are cultural Marxist dogs that want nothing but death to the West, it's funny because they share such views of ISIS members. You show such symptoms of this disease in whatever you write.
@Disgustingwebtrash "when a state sentences a girl to death for being raped by a 51 year old man that's not justice at all". Indeed, That isn't justice.
That isn't a state, it isn't a religion either. It's tribal justice, like it happens in Pakistani , Afghan and N Indian valleys.
People who dig Identity Politics and hate gays andtransgenders should understand it.
But of course people who dig Identity Politics like only their own customs.
@disgustingweebtrash
Nobody will think T. Blair is a leftist.
Who will think Cameron is a leftist?
Who will think Theresa May is a leftist?
None of these are 'Marxist'.
You're just putting unjustified labels on persons.
@jacquesvol Every left-winger I've met has been reluctant to denounce Marxism and Communism as terrible ideologies, i'm not talking of those who are centre-left or centre-right those are dissidents who will find reason to criticise anything, the Conservative party is centre-right and the Labour party is centre-left, but Labour party is slowly moving further and further towards the left as Corbyn is in power but the Conservative party is staying firm in place of centre-right.
I feel putting the label of Marxist on you however, is justified
@disgustingweebtrash You clearly like o put labels on people.
I did read Marx, because I had to, in college, but I'm not a Marxist. Never considered to be one either.
What's the next label you're gonna put on me or on someone else?
@jacquesvol Labels are what helps me remember what a person is and what they want, if I did not put a label on a person, how could I remember who they are and what they stand for?
You deny it now because you have no other way to avoid the issue being addressed
@disgustingweebtrash the issue being addressed "foreigner in your own country" is in reality "Not being a first class citizen but a 2nd class, like foreigners." And the key to that is wages and retirement pensions. People can have access to medium retirement pensions through saving. People can have access to medium wages through studying.
People can have access to high wages through birth or through taking risks. Night shifts too are a possibility.
But many people don't save or study or don't want graveyard shifts.
And many people think they're entitled to better wages because they're natives. That doesn't fly in a modern economy. It worked when England still had colonies.
@jacquesvol People aren't entitled to better wages because they're natives, they're entitled to the guarantee of safety by their government which the government in the UK decides not to do anymore and instead keeps the safety of foreigners instead of their own citizens.
Pensions in my opinion are quite high in the UK. They are the most in which we spend on, but most of these people have worked their whole lives and deserve a rest, i'd expect Belgium to take care of you now that you're a pensioner (if you are, if you're still working that's fine)
Some people do put too big a risk to themselves, such as working full time and going to University, naturally we need time for recreation and rest.
@disgustingweebtrash Nor in incomes nor in safety, the governments make a difference between 'foreigners' and natives. You can't make different laws or you move towards Apartheid. renescheffer.files.wordpress.com/.../blankes.jpg
@jacquesvol The safety of 1,400 children wasn't secured because the Police didn't want to do anything in fear of being called racist. And the police arrests people for making politically incorrect comments, the UK has turned on it's own. A decadent state it is.
The Rotherham cops failed. I hope the responsible chiefs were sacked.
The criminals were jailed.
@jacquesvol Not enough. They stole the innocence of 1,400 British children, I'd like to hear recordings of their tortured screams
I don't know what happened : I didn't follow the trial.
@jacquesvol Let's just say none of them got more than 20 years
@jacquesvol And there were more involved, for sure, some girls came forward and described gangs of men coming on them at once.
There was no real justice. None at all.
@disgustingweebtrash 20 years isn't short. And if parties dislike court verdicts, there are courts of appeal. Anyhow, a jury was involved, wasn't it?
@jacquesvol 20 years is nothing compared to what those 1,400 girls will have to live, a jury was involved yes of course.
Just let me alone with each of them... i'll make their punishment nice, or leave them alone with each of the 1,400 girls
@disgustingweebtrash I looked it up in Wikipedia:
Arshid Hussain got 35 years jail
Basharat Hussain got 25 years jail
@jacquesvol Even that's not enough. I just hope that they are getting their assholes drilled into inside prison.
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@jacquesvol Let's just say none of them got more than 20 years
@jacquesvol I made a mistake, I admit with the numbers.
There can never be enough time in jail for those sub-humans
That's for the courts to decide. Of course, in the 20th and 21st centuries some countries still behead (beheaded) people. Not really civilized.
Sometimes
Why?
Sometimes I feel that most of people are completely different from me , but when I went to a different city I felt safe and home
No I make other people feel like foreigners
How?
Nope. The US is built by foreigners anyway...
Yes most of the time , my own people think that.
With the influx of Muslims, yes, absolutely
I do not
This is really stupid. People who think that are just racist
Not necessary.
Racism = Prejudice, discrimination and hate toward someone based on their race (physical appearance) and thinking some races are more superior than others
Nationalistic = When a person loves his own country and thinks it's better than others
Culturalism = Is the idea that individuals are determined by their culture, that these cultures form closed, organic wholes, and that the individual is unable to leave his or her own culture but rather can only realize him or herself within it.
So if I'm skeptical to someone's culture, I'm not a racist.
Most times I do.
Why?
All my life.
Why?
Because I was always the odd man out.
My cultural, political, life attitudes, were completely different. Even something as simple as the way I fight.
Seriously, I had a different idea of was fighting meant and how it should be conducted. Simple as that
sometimes in bigger towns
Sometimes haha
Why?
I'm Bengali in background so my culture is different 🇧🇩
hell yeah our little town is now ghetto
yes and am a minority where I live
No I'm a princess
Yes. I have a lot of foreign friends.
sometimes
Why?
I live by Detroit a lot of people don't like kids with my skin tone
That's sad. : ( I don't get racism.
I don't either tbh the best thing for me is to make friends where I can
Another annoying thing is that some people thinks racism only goes one way when it can goes both and all ways.
Yeah its very frustrating when people do that and honestly I'm not racist I do my best to make friends but many just don't like people like me