Why do men get turned on by strippers?

[Belleza]

The question really interested me so I decided to ask - why do men get turned on by watching strippers dance? It's not like she's giving you a lap dance - I mean all she's doing is just dancing around so you could give her money - why would you even want to spend money on such things? I would understand if she's offering sex at that right moment but she's offering a dance that you really just waste money on!

To those guys or should I say "men" that go there what's so special about strippers? There are many strip clubs where I go to school and "men" that come out of there are sophisticated and intelligent (or so I thought) but it's very intriguing to know what drives them to go to such a place especially when you had a fight with your girlfriend or a wife!?

Not trying to diss anybody but if you're married yea I'm dissing you cause you rather spend money on worthless crap than stare at your beautiful wives for free and spend money on them!

[p-guy]

I love going to strip bars and it has nothing to do with my wife. It is a way of seeing beautiful women teasing and showing themselves which I love. There is no commitment involved and they do things that frankly are not done in a normal sexual relationship. Women are very sexy and these are women that are showing you how sexy they are. I also love seeing women in lingerie and in strip bars the girls walk around in bras and panties and you can watch the take them off and put them on and I really enjoy that.

[Belleza]

Ok I see your point so in other words you want a variety of different women in different lingerie - but why? I know you just answered why but is there a more deeper meaning as to why to?

[p-guy]

It's hard to explain, but its a visual turn on. Women are like flowers, if you just liked roses for example would you never want to look at lilly's? I love the differences in breast size and hip size. I love seeing the way the bra straps run over their shoulders and the way the panties hang on their hips. I like to see a full breast in a lace underwire bra and a small breast in the same.

[Mariecramb]

I not mind my fiancé going to the strip club. It's the lap dances that bother me. Although I know it shouldn't because it's not like wants to actually date these women I can't help but feel jealous. I hate the thought that another woman could possibly turn him on as much as I do and it scares me to think that while getting a lap dance he may be actually thinking what it would be like to have sex with her. I know he probably is because he's a guy and that's what you guys think about but I guess it just makes me feel insecure and not good enough? How do I conquer that feeling? I want to be able to genuinely tell him it doesn't bother me but I'm not sure how to make that happen. How do you go and not worry about it hurting your wife's feelings? and do you men actually think about having sex with these women as in it could be more appealing then sex with your wife?

[quantumdefender]

men could ask the question of women:

why do women love cut flowers? why do women love something that's gonna die and rot in less than 72 hours? they don't serve a logical function savy smell good and look colorful for a brief time. but they do nothing but lift your spirits for a brief time.

[Belleza]

Ok I see your point except that I really don't like cut flowers I just looking at them why they're still in nature...and yea they do lift your spirits but it just doesn't fit right...

[irish-girl-08]

I hate flowers!!

[Wisegirl47]

Well it's basically just fantasy when guys go to strip clubs. They love hot girls. Hot girls are at strip clubs. So they pay to watch hot girls strip. It also kind of stems from guys wanting to be the ultimate stud and have hot girls all around focusing on ONLY him. Kind of a self-esteem thing sometimes but that's only if you want to get into the neurons and synapses of things.

[Heatlovingirl]

I dont care that my husband goes but what I do care about is when he lies saying he never went to a backroom and spent 150 on a dance... full nude too. Things you find out from drunk friends. Spend a little get a dance out in the open I dont care. Go in a room with her... not cool.

[mav0502]

men are very visual and to see a beautiful woman is always a treat. I don't like to waste money on stuff I can get for free so I just drink and have been to 1 strip club. its something different but there is really nothing special about strippers at all..its the look of a beautiful woman that catches a guys eye...

[niceguy1911]

i don't care for them a hole lot rather be with girl friend

[Tiger6960]

Why do women love strippers? Why was Magic Mike a blockbuster? Why do women become animals and grope male strippers and suck their dicks like maniacs?