Why do men find strip clubs fun yet detest those kind of women at the same time?

[nessiee01]

[FunkyMonkee]

Probably because they figure those girls are REALLY loose and easy and fuck anybody with a pulse and a dick so, they don't wanna get involved with that but, hey, if she's gonna show off her tits and cunt, "YEAH, BABY, LET'S GO SEE THAT!!".

GUYS LOVE LOOKING AT NAKED WOMEN!! THEY ARE LIKE WORKS OF ART, something to marvel at and enjoy the extreme beauty of! Women DONT like looking at naked men, unless she's about to fuck him or cheat him out of his bank roll!

I can't TELL YOU how many women I've heard complain about men sending them dick-pics!! Now, how many men have you heard complaining about women sending nudes to them? DOESN'T HAPPEN!! UNLESS he a major prude or COMPLETELY pussy-whipped!!

[Kaneki05]

A lot of people are dumb, therefore a lot of men are too. Dumb people cling to moral high grounds that make no sense and then right away also prove they don't even follow it themselves. Men going to hate on women for doing sexual work, but then no doubt they fap to porn all the time wouldn't exist if these women didn't exist but yet you hate them for what they do... Go figure.

[Agape93]

They view those girls as just objects, not people worthy of love or basic decency

[GlowUpGirly5]

How's your friend lol 😆

[Agape93]

Which one?

[Agape93]

Lol nope nice try. Maybe it was you?

[Agape93]

Tagged for harassment, have fun when admins hop back on

[Nikki1989]

Men are the ultimate hypocrites. You can see and hear it daily.

[debbiedenise]

Do you think? They want us to be this, but not that. They want their cake and eat it too. I supposed we are "Waitresses at the Banquet of Life!"

[Anonymous]

Men like the eye candy, of course right? But when you actually care about a woman, it’s a different story.

If you have feelings for a woman you don’t want her out there parading for attention. You should be all the validation she needs and she should be committed to you, and you want her to be… “for your eyes only.”

I don’t know why this is such a hard concept to grasp. Strippers usually have a lot of issues, which is why they end up getting involved with it in the first place. Doesn’t mean a guy isn’t going to look though, if he happens to stumble into a club. I’ve only ever been to one because all the guys were like “let’s go, it’ll be fun” and it’s pretty much good for a few laughs.

Like if women don’t want to be objectified, it starts with not objectifying yourselves. If you’re happy with your man, you shouldn’t want attention from other men. Like tbh, I think it’s kind of embarrassing when you see a girl you know on social media, has a man and two kids, and she can’t stop posting selfies of herself.

Like if I was her guy, I’d find it a bit sus, and it is… it is kind of embarrassing. I’d be worried, am I not enough for her? Am I doing something wrong? Why does she need all this attention from Facebook land?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

thank you! you actually know how to tell love and novelty apart. unlike the majority of the feminized soyboys in this site

[D_Bone_Steak]

Just pick out the women that say the meanest shit about men here... those are the women that let me bang with no condom on.

Har har... jokes aside though... it's one thing to bang sluts and a completely different thing to be considering a relationship. Most of us normal guys know how to enjoy both.

Seriously... I've seen good boys that claim they have respect for women and all that fun stuff... turn into pure animals when I get the free pussy into the room. I'm talking bad shit man. He won't even care if the age is questionable. So much for his bible studies right?

[Apple1996]

I better up my game at being mean to men here lol

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Apple1996 😂 🤣

[Apple1996]

Do I already give that vibe or no?

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Apple1996 Honestly what you said in your own comment kind of defended men from what I read. It's true though most guys don't enjoy strip clubs. I'm like a very rare breed of man that goes into random strip clubs with pennies rolled up in $1 bills and smacks the angry black chick right in the ass with it. I'm the pretty damn wild for a man and I think your take on them is very reasonable because, no, they're nothing like me. Shit, to be honest I think most of them would be scared of a strip club... at least here in the US. I might be a complete asshole but I think these guys are pussies.

You... I think you're actually pretty nice to men in general. You don't give me that vibe. I could imagine you actually knowing your Dad's name or having a good relationship with a male sibling (that didn't even rape you). You don't have that woman on men hate vibe like that.

[Apple1996]

It's true I'm close with my dad and brothers lol. And wow I'm surprised to hear cuz a few people here think I'm a man hater 🤣

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Apple1996 The real man haters on this site... good gawd... you're nothing like them. They're like demons of unchecked and irrational hatred. Me being me, I ignore that and get to know them. Usually raised by a single Mom and that hatred for men was reinforced every day of their childhood. Like no joke, I think their Mom's blamed everything that sucked on how shitty their Dad's were and isolated them from the outside world.

Like you can figure out pretty quick they should hate their Mother in most cases. It's the same shit you see with dudes that are overly irrational and emotional... I know their weakness... make fun of his Mom. Same shit as the chicks... all bent out of shape and can't process the world after a childhood with their single Mom. Not joking, if you look up the childhood of some of the best known serial killers... you're going to find out what they all have in common pretty fast.

You're nothing like those people. They're different animals. Find that profile with a cat in a suit for a profile picture... she's young and blocked me not long ago. That's a man hater. I'm not suggesting you interact with her, but just check out how she interacts with the outside world. She might piss you off at first, but if you stare long enough... you'll just feel sorry for her. They are very sad situations.

[Miristheiss]

They disgust me because it is gross and degenerate.

I don't go to strip clubs and I don't find them fun. I wouldn't give one cent to a whore. My money stays with me. I've paid off my home and I invest for the future.

If I want to spend some money I'll go out to eat, see a movie or go to a game. I'm not wasting money on prostitutes. Yes, taking off your clothes and giving lap dances is a form of prostitution. To those who'll try and pretend strippers aren't prostitutes.

Sex outside of marriage has ruined women.

[DrPepper12]

Sooooooooooooooo BMW huh? Bet the ladies LOVE shotgun with you!!!

[Shiprex]

They are fun as the girls are knowingly and willingly being openly physical and friendly with us. We don't need to try to get their attention. That we are receiving attention from women even though we know they're not doing it for US it's the superficial gratification that is produced.
I wouldn't say men detest those women as I find them quite interesting and much more open when talking with them outside of "work". They sometimes enjoy the job in spite of being objectified because the men there are often only seeking some level of attention and are generally kind to them even though the expectations may be out of the comfort zone of the girls. They're human beings and have bills to pay so doing what they do isn't something a lot of guys would detest especially once they actually KNOW them.

[McLlovin]

This is so easy to see why. Here it is are you ready? Men are extremely visual when it comes to sexuality, and very easy to manipulate if we leave ourselves open to our weaknesses.

Strip clubs are a fantasy of what we want sexually, however we as men are very territorial over our women. I don’t want my woman being the eye candy of countless men, she is my woman. Only I should get the pleasure of seeing her in that sexual way. The more you understand men and how we are and think, the better you will comprehend our actions.

[EzOwlz]

There are 2 types of women, there's the fun girl who is almost always at the club, like attention so they expose themselves more (which is naturally gratifying to watch). Then there's a normal women who doesn't have an OF and doesn't strip nor show off to everyone. One of them likes activities like reading, painting, gym (any healthy activity) while the other one is almost always partying, drinks booze, and tend of wear revealing clothes to draw people's attention.

In terms of relationships, one of them is good for a short fling while the other has more positive and stable habits. If you were to trust one of them at home which one would it be? The party girl who likes attention, or the girl who likes to read a nice book with coffee. I'd choose the one who reads cause she has good taste.

[Anonymous]

I recently met a guy who would sleep around with tons of women. Then he would turn around and talk shit about all of them about how they're terrible women for being sluts. I replied: "aren't you also a slut?"

these whorish men say they only want women with low body counts. but truth is.. they would never ever last with those types of women. Women with low body counts make men WAIT for sex. A man whore would never be able to wait for sex.

[TonyMetal___86]

Don't call them men, call them male pigs!
Real men are men who wants a lot more things from a woman other than sex and would never be with a woman just for sex!

[genericname85]

is that not relatable to you? like we love seeing tits, asses and vaginas. but we would never wanna be in a relationship with women who show them to everyone. looking at them is fine. just being with them isn't. it's like everyone can choose what to do with their life. and if a woman chooses to show all men their butthole, i'll take a look but be with her.

[genericname85]

not be with her***

[Spaceman3487]

I don't think any intelligent nice man detests those kind of women. I think it is really smart for a girl to use her looks to make money. I mean if you look good you ought to download a streaming app like meetme to make some extra dough. If your a woman you can make money on that app. The same thing with strippers. I mean they make tons of money and porn stars. Some men have a small cock. So they could't use their body to make money. So they are very jealous because women can. Men really act that way because they can't make money with their body. So women shouldn't care at all it's just born out of jealousy.

[aceleon]

Carcass.

A valuable survival method for predators that has hard time find a prey or catch it, but you can't really see them preferring scavenging över hunting most of the times let alone go possesive over a carcass.

Now apply the same logic and you will get. yoir answer.

[molonski2]

Well , that's actually not true , I've seen some of that sure where they are super slutty and only going for $$$$ , but I also saw on many occasions the complete opposite , sometimes to the point of not being healthy.

Our club would have made a great TV Soap Opera , it could run for seasons and seasons.

[Summeroflove]

Hypocrites and double minded. I think part of it is that they’re ashamed they went there. Obviously not all men are going there but the ones that do…..

I think it’s like a woman who cries how much she hates a certain type of man yet sleeps with him…. People like that are ashamed of what they’re doing. So it makes them feel better

[Filthy_Immigrant]

your opinion is as invalid as this whole post is. men do not go to strip clubs to date and start relationships with the strippers, they go there to enjoy themselves

[Summeroflove]

@Filthy_Immigrant lol and those men think some lovely woman is gonna want a man whore? I digress on that.

Let me explain people who go to strip clubs and “enjoy themselves” then loathe those women at the same time. It’s pretty obvious they are ashamed of it and are deflecting as well as projecting.

If you want to enjoy yourself. Go see a movie. Go out to eat. Go fishing. Go hunting. Go buy something nice for yourself. Go to the amusement park. Go…. There is a lot of other ways to enjoy yourself rhen a bunch of Crackheaded degenerate whores

[Filthy_Immigrant]

you have to sleep around to be a "man whore" which again the probability of you sleeping with a stripper are really low unless the strip club is at a place where prostitution is legal.

and no it has nothing to do with "shame." as I explained in my opinion when you go to a museum you obviously go to enjoy artwork that are displayed there. you dont go to buy or expect to take the artwork with you. therefore you are trying to add an emotional substance where there can't be add it.

"If you want to enjoy yourself. Go see a movie. Go out to eat. Go fishing. Go hunting. Go buy something nice for yourself. Go to the amusement park. Go…. There is a lot of other ways to enjoy yourself rhen a bunch of Crackheaded degenerate whores"

wow speaking of projection this whole entire paragraph reeks of projection and insecurity. seriously dude who made you the god of enjoyment? just because others dont enjoy life the same way you do does not mean you are absolved from the insecurity and shame that you preach of

[Filthy_Immigrant]

also judging by your logic I guess this mean I can call you an advocate of animal cruelty if you enjoy fishing and hunting for the fact that you are killing innocent animals

[Summeroflove]

@Filthy_Immigrant no….. if you’re engaging in degenerate behavior. But then hating strippers while paying to see them it makes you a hypocrite.

I’m not paying to see strippers so… If I want to call them sluts and whores so be it. Men going to strip clubs though are usually men who want to get laid but can’t. So they have to go pay for it

[Filthy_Immigrant]

just because I enjoy the service of a strippers but choose not to turn them into a house wife does not make me a hypocrite. just like you hunting deers from left to right but refusing to keep one as a pet does not mean you are a hypocrite, or does it?

and I never said you have to like or respect strippers or those who seek their services, however you shaming them just because they dont align with your preferences and lifestyle makes you somewhat of a self righteous hypocrite yourself.

"Men going to strip clubs though are usually men who want to get laid but can’t. So they have to go pay for it"

or maybe these are men that can tell novelty and relationships apart, ever thought of that?

[Summeroflove]

@Filthy_Immigrant and a woman is a virgin doesn’t want a man whose entertaining strippers.

Would you want a woman seeing male strippers? Probably not. Hypocrites

[Summeroflove]

@Filthy_Immigrant maybe these men are low life scumbags most of them. Who are emotionally cheating but then want this amazing woman to marry.

A man who sleeps around for instance bur wants a virgin. Is the equivalent to a woman who has nothing going for her but wants a man to be rich. Six foot tall. And all the things. It’s just never gonna happen

[Filthy_Immigrant]

let's brake this down sha'll we?

"Transactional vs. Relational"

again visiting a strip club is no different from enjoying other services like dining out or watching a live performance. It’s about entertainment, not a commitment. By your logic, anyone who eats at a restaurant but doesn't marry the chef is also a hypocrite.

"Moral High Ground & Projection"

You call strippers and their patrons 'degenerates,' yet claim you're above them. This I told you before this reeks of projection and insecurity. Just because strip clubs don't align with your personal preferences doesn’t make them immoral. Declaring yourself the arbiter of how others should 'enjoy themselves' only highlights your self-righteousness.

"False Equivalencies"

Comparing men visiting strip clubs to women demanding rich, tall men is a red herring. Strip clubs represent novelty, not RELATIONAL expectations. Judging people who can distinguish between entertainment and meaningful connections suggests YOU can’t.

"Double Standards"

You imply men shouldn’t want virgins if they’ve had prior experiences. Would you say women who’ve had relationships don’t deserve men who are financially successful or emotionally mature? Standards are personal, not universal, and shaming men for theirs undermines your argument.

till then your opinion reflects more about your insecurities than the actual dynamics of strip clubs or relationships. Adults are free to engage in legal, consensual activities without needing your moral approval. Until you address your own projections, your argument will remain little more than an emotional outburst disguised as reasoning

[Summeroflove]

@Filthy_Immigrant lmao. Going to a strip club is universes different then dining or seeing a movie dude

[Summeroflove]

@Filthy_Immigrant you’re the one who seems insecure when you’re called out. But I’m not shutting you down based on that.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

laughing off an argument without addressing its substance doesn’t make you right; it just highlights the lack of depth in your reasoning. Let’s revisit your stance:

'Universes Different':
You claim strip clubs are inherently different from other forms of entertainment but fail to explain why. Both involve payment for a service that caters to personal enjoyment—whether it’s dining, movies, or strip clubs. Your moral disdain for one form of entertainment doesn’t make it objectively worse; it just exposes your bias.

'Insecurity':
Projection again. Being called 'insecure' is a poor attempt to dismiss my argument without engaging with it. Standing firm against unfounded moralizing isn’t insecurity—it’s confidence. Claiming I’m 'called out' presumes you’ve made a valid point, which so far, you haven’t.

Morality vs. Personal Preference:
Your opinion that strip clubs are 'degenerate' is your personal preference, not a universal truth. Adults can engage in legal, consensual activities without being shamed by others who project their own insecurities or moral outrage onto them.

Consistency:
If you’re going to argue that strip clubs are wrong, it’s on you to demonstrate why. Laughing and dismissing counterpoints while clinging to an unsupported belief isn’t an argument—it’s an emotional reaction.

Until you’re ready to have an honest, logical discussion instead of relying on vague assertions and condescension, your opinion will remain just that—an unsubstantiated opinion.

[Summeroflove]

@Filthy_Immigrant laughing off a argument…. It’s more of you’re trying to have a serious conversation about something that’s not serious.

If you’re seriously defending going to strip clubs that’s pathetic my guy.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

okey dokey I guess.

anyways dismissing arguments you can’t refute as 'not serious' is a textbook deflection. Instead of engaging, you resort to labeling and shaming, which isn’t a rebuttal—it’s an evasion. Let’s call it what it is: you’re unable to substantiate your opinion, so you retreat to vague moral judgments.

[Summeroflove]

@Filthy_Immigrant I’ve been refuting everything you said. I’m not changing the topic or ignoring you. Am I? No

[Filthy_Immigrant]

You haven’t refuted anything— all you’ve done is dismissed, deflected, and moralized.

Refuting means engaging with the substance of an argument, which you’ve been dodging at every turn by reducing the discussion to 'it’s pathetic' or 'you’re insecure.

[Summeroflove]

@Filthy_Immigrant and you’re projecting…..

[Summeroflove]

@Filthy_Immigrant you’re the one who said I’m insecure. That’s deflecting

[DrPepper12]

Fun? FUN? ABSO-FUCKING-LUTELY NOT!!.

What's fun about being incessantly teased by beautiful women at a sausage party with overpriced drinks and walking out broke, drunk & hornier than when you walked in...

I will NEVER understand strip clubs. It's just an incomprehensible place to me. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[RavVid]

I deny we detest "that kind" of woman. We love women being naked and easy sex is one of our favorite things. We are just not going to get into a serious relationship or marry or have children with them.

We probably won't have much respect for them but that doesn't we detest. We'd still be happy to penetrate them.

[Apple1996]

I've never heard a man say strip clubs are "fun" lol

[Filthy_Immigrant]

yeah that's cause a lot of men think like women nowadays. they can't tell the difference between love and novelty apart

[Apple1996]

@Filthy_Immigrant I don't know if it's that just wasting money for something you can get for free just isn't fun

[Filthy_Immigrant]

for free?

[Apple1996]

@Filthy_Immigrant yes for free it doesn't cost money to see titties

[Filthy_Immigrant]

you mind explaining to me where I can see titties for free?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

oh and porn doesn't count

[Apple1996]

@Filthy_Immigrant i can invite you to my breastfeeding club to see some free titties lol

[TonyMetal___86]

I never found strip clubs to be fun, i think that only cheap women works there and i have never stepped in a strip club my whole life because my brain ain't only made for sex only, i want love than sex and only with the person that i'll love and will marry!

[matchrestore]

I got dragged along to a strip club once. It was not fun for me. I found the whole experience to be quite awkward actually. I have no problem with nudity- I'm a nudist myself- but the way it's packaged at a strip club is so off-putting to me.

[SixFootSexy]

Women don't know what men are or how our brains think about sex. But here's a hint, it's not like a woman's brain.

[Anonymous]

Obviously you’ve never been to a strip club w men. A lot of times it’s just hanging out drinking, someone may get a lap dance or something but we’re not in there like some horn dogs just ready to pounce on whatever. I’ve gone a number of times cause others wanted to go, not cause I wanted to. It’s just hanging out. But yes a lot of men will nail easy, slutty women but won’t commit to them. That’s their choice just like women have choices of what they want in a man.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

its simple!

because we dont go to strip clubs to date and look for relationships with the strippers. we go there to enjoy the view along with the service and novelty.

just like you dont go to a museum to BUY any of the artwork you see

[Tonita91996]

A lot of stuff that men do doesn’t make any sense. Men are just a bunch of liars that’s what the problem is they say they want one thing and then their actions say different.

[TonyMetal___86]

You mean males, not real men!

[Tonita91996]

@TonyMetal___86 no that men do jackass stuff.

[TonyMetal___86]

A lot of guys in these days are jackasses!

[Tonita91996]

@TonyMetal___86 men are assholes.

[TonyMetal___86]

Like i said before, don't generalize, maybe a big amount of males are assh*les but not all men!

[Tonita91996]

@TonyMetal___86 I wish I had a dick so I have an excuse to be an asshole.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

You girls do the same thing about the guys you see in rom-coms. Complaining about guys not being like them who open up about their feelings. But you would hate them in real life for being such emotional soy boys. Now what does that make you? Not a hypocrite?

[Tonita91996]

@Aiko_E_Lara you like making up generalizations that doesn’t have anything to do about the conversation.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Speaking of generalizations, look at your whole comment. If you like to generalize about men then I'm simply doing the same about women. If you think this has something to do with men then this also has something to do with women because both men and women are genders. You're not the only one who can make generalizations here and it's only going to prove your hypocrisy if you oppose that. But look at how it triggered you so I'm basically proving a point.

[Tonita91996]

@Aiko_E_Lara for one I don’t watch romance movies because they are poorly made.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I'm not talking about you but I'm generalizing women like how your generalizing men. It's easy for us to say that we don't lie and go to strip clubs.

[Tonita91996]

@Aiko_E_Lara and second of all I’ve been in the streets and know what it is like in the dating streets most guys only want sex and you have to be lucky to find some guy who truly wants a relationship.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Then that's an anecdote. If I also have to give an anecdote then I can say I have seen a lot of women do what I just said. Another thing would be a lot of women like to post themselves on social media as being semi-naked to attract a lot of those desperate guys but yet detests those kind of guys. Easy for anyone to say girls only like sex and money.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Of course I'm going to predict you're just going to have to block because you know it's true. You hate hearing from the other side of the story

[Tonita91996]

@Aiko_E_Lara when I said I been out in the streets I didn't mean I am a whore and I never did that stupid shit like onlyfans or post my naked ass to anyone. I’m saying I been out there in the dating scene and know how men operate.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I'm not even talking about you and you're still giving anecdotes. But I'm speaking on average. And you're not the only one who knows the dating scene. Anyone also knows how women operate.

[Tonita91996]

@Aiko_E_Lara the women be desperate too if they are showing their asses naked on the internet because that’s the only way they can get male attention.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Then that's the same for those men going to strip clubs. The only way they can get female attention.

[Tonita91996]

@Aiko_E_Lara people are idiots. Proverbs 26: 4-5

[Aiko_E_Lara]

You know that includes you.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

But you can only speak for yourself

[Tonita91996]

@Aiko_E_Lara ok I’m lost but it’s whatever at this point. Nobody really cares.

[TonyMetal___86]

@tonita91996 you have to understand that not all men are the same at all!

Unless you have experienced all men that are found in the world, by the way let me tell you something, don't think that women are any better!

It's a corrupted generation!

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Of course no one cares now that you started losing credibility and also when your own logic backfired.

[Raaj4you]

In India there are no strip clubs. But I have been to some dance bars in India which are similar to strip clubs. The difference is that they don't take off their clothes. It's entertaining and relieving to watch live beautiful hot girls dancing. I don't hate bar dancers instead I feel sorry for them. As far as I know bar dancers are not prostitutes. At the same time I feel like it's degrading women. Unfortunately, It's the dark side of our society.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Cause all men don't detest that type of woman. You know that's not true cause there paying to get in to see them and them when they get inside they spend all of there money tipping them. It's pretty stupid if you ask me cause those women are selling a fantasy they don't want those men at all. They actually prefer the men that don't go to see them at the club.

[tzdc21]

They only detest them for long term relationships. Those women are a great option if you want a ons or fir sex. But when it comes to a committed long term relationship and/or marriage, it's an absolute no go.

[bowenw]

I assume it’s because they enjoy seeing naked women but would not want other men seeing their SO naked.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

They like to sin but don't want to be seen as a sinner. They use the woman as a scapegoat and say she's the only sinner when infact they are both sinners.

[AmeerX]

Is stripping sex? I don't think it's same as prostitution isn't that where girls dance in skimpy clothes

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@AmeerX Strippers literally take off their clothes and hump guys. That's sinful and disgusting

[AmeerX]

They hump guys? Really? I thought they just dance on stage or something in short clothes and just see guys get close but no touching

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@AmeerX no they hump guys. Even just stripping is sinful.

[AmeerX]

🤔I thought they really don't. Isn't that what happens in those red light areas that girls do.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@AmeerX I have no idea what that means.

[AmeerX]

In my country English, we just call them red light areas. Meaning they are a red light, no go area if you are a good person.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

"don't want to be seen as sinners" then if that's the case they don't have to go in there. That's the same as girls posting semi-revealing stuff on social media to get a lot of attention but don't want to be seen as a whore that's why they just don't be a whore.

[Anonymous]

Because men like seeing women naked, and a strip club is an opportunity to do that without all the risks, costs and hassles of being married or in a committed relationship. And just like women, men fantasize, and I guarantee those fantasies are not about strippers, even though that's what they're looking at.

[avery58]

Because they're just objectifying the strippers, and the strippers themselves are okay with it. And they can't really respect someone if they objectify them

[CalmUntilAbused]

It might be that there are two (or more) groups of men - one finding strip clubs fun, the other hating on strippers. I, for once, do not find strip clubs fun.

[Nifrayu]

I don't get it either. My mentality is completely opposite of that.

[Anonymous]

Men differentiate between the women the f and those they marry.

[NoDecision]

Because they are just looking, but not looking for a relationship with one of them. Does that seem hypocritical? 🤔

[Anonymous]

Different men have different feelings about everything. Some men love sex workers, some men hate them. Rarely, men love sex workers, but are still grossed out by them. These guys are struggling with two internal instincts at once.

[HungTexan]

I don’t detest women who work in strip clubs. They’re doing a job that makes living for them.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Just like liking the taste of junk food but knowing they're unhealthy making them easily dislikable.

You girls do the same for those guys you see in rom-coms but hate them in real life for being such emotional soy boys.

[BCRanger10]

Because women are objects to them and only care about their sexual and entertainment value.

[Anonymous]

What's wrong with them?

They are just woman trying to make a living. Doesn't mean they even like the work but it pays well and they have the assets.

[tzdc21]

A woman in that type of profession is a bad option for a long term relationship in the eyes of men.

[Opinion Owner]

Some types of men I suppose.

[tzdc21]

Many men would prefer not to have that type of woman. Not some, many. Now there are exceptions, but generally speaking, they prefer not to.

[Opinion Owner]

@tzdc21 they only need one mature man.

[tzdc21]

Are you suggesting that men that don't want women who work in the sex industry (strippers, onlyfans, etc) are not mature?

[Opinion Owner]

@tzdc21 I'm suggesting they have trust issues. They do not trust their partner to handle herself or make their own professional choices. That does show maturity issues.

[tzdc21]

That's not maturity issues, that's preferences. There is a reason why guys are strongly against having a partner who is in the sex industry. Multiple reasons actually. But that doesn't make them immature.

[tzdc21]

Just like how you have preferences on what guys you want and dont want. But that doesn't make you automatically immature just for preferences. Same thing here.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

I've never been to a strip club, but they seem kinda gross to me.

But I have a thing about germs.

[Berethor]

Men don't like to share their woman, if the woman is a not his then it's don't matter.

[LiamJHayden]

I was taken to a strip club once. I found it depressing and embarrassing.

[Phoenix98]

I don't find them fun it's not really my scene.

[This_Boy_Here]

I personally have never been nor do I ever plan to go to a strip bar. I think it's a waste of money. I prefer normal clubs and bars. But I don't judge strippers though. She is just gettin it how she can. Who knows what she's going through?

[Anonymous]

Men divide women into two categories: those they want to sleep with and those they want to marry.

[monkeynutts]

Probably because they go there get horny, and get dejected because none of the strippers want to fuck them.

[Jackblue]

It is unfair certainly, those women should not be judged, some men however can be very self righteous.

[Nightmoon23]

I can’t speak for all men but I don’t detest those kind of women but some of those women are crazy in the clubs went to an all nude one for my bachelor party.

[Oldschool1981]

I don't. I actually dated a prostitute for a while back in the day

[Pohjolan]

I don't go to strip clubs but I don't detest strippers. At least pole dancing requires some skill unlike having a OF.

[sochill3d]

I can only speak for myself, but, I do not detest those 'kind of women.'

Honestly the way the question is worded seems to say quite a bit about the person asking. just sayin'

[Staximus]

Because you can't turn a whore into a housewife

[blackeagle007]

I feel going to those places are a waste of $

[BarryLiverstone]

I haven’t had fun at them

[GlowUpGirly5]

Because men are hypocrites and insecure.

[TonyMetal___86]

Males not real men!

[Joejay6]

They are not fun

[KrakenAttackin]

Because we can separate sex from emotion.

[Anonymous]

Which are you, the pot or the kettle?

[robocop666]

I would like to date those women

[dean53AU]

I like those women