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My boyfriend bosses me around and treat me like a child.

My boyfriend will treat me like a child all the time. He will says " Don't Get attitude with me!" That reminds me of something my parents will say. Another example, I am turning 22 this month and all I want is a little fish aquarium to put on my dresser. Her won't let me because he says its childish and something a 12 year old will do. I like fish! Anything that I want to do or I like, if he don't like it its Childish. I like the little Hypnotist shows they put on at fairs. When we go I can’t watch them because its childish and corny. I LIKE It! Then when I'm irritated because he won’t let me do what I want to do. He get mad and says I always make him look like the bad guy. Then I get even more irritated and he gets mad because I'm irritated. That's when he says done get an attitude with me. Sometimes I feel so tract and forced to be someone I'm not. I like corny things I’ll admit it. But if he don't like it I can’t have anything to do with it. When he likes something and I don't I deal with it. I HATE HATE Going to sporting goods stores and window shopping. But I do it because I know he likes it. I don't act put out. I just look at the girl stuff and let him do his thing. He can’t do that for me. When I want to watch a movie that is a chick flick. He will make his own commentary and make fun of the movie the whole time we are watching it. I can’t even enjoy it. It rare that I can even get a movie I like. My friend joke because when we plan to go out I all ways have an accuses why I can’t . Mostly it’s because when I have something to do he gets all down and will wine that I'm leaving and make me feel bad for leaving him so I stay home. I DON'T HAVE ANY MORE FRIENDS. He lost his job a while ago ( He was wrongfully fired and is getting unemployment) He is always home and he was looking for a job. When our apartments burned down he stopped looking. And its kind getting to me. I know if I confront him on it. He will get really defensive and whinny like a little girl and ill end up the one that is being accused of something. I don't have any time to myself. NONE I'm going nuts. When I try to get him out of the house so I can be alone. He wines that he will miss me and he just stays home. I NEED My TIME... I think you get my drift. What should I do I love him to death he is an amazing person and a real sweetheart when he wants to be. There are more good times then bad. I love him more than anything. The only flaw is the way he treats me. Otherwise he is the most caring and selfless person I know. HELP?
My boyfriend bosses me around and treat me like a child.
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