I work, he doesn't, should he clean everything? (Page 2)

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I work everyday and I have 2 kids. My boyfriend stays at home and plays video games all day. When I ge home I see have to cook dinner and clean. I'm not okay with this. I asked him(more like told him) that if he is not working the house should be spot less and dinner should be started at least. I just don't think its fair. There my kids not his but I'm working and supporting all of us. HELP PLEASE we can't seem to stop fight about this.

SillaFace · Answer

You are totally right. it very unfair to you. That's how my parents did it growing up. My mom work and my dad cleaned and cooked.

12elizabeth · Answer

IF he's not helping then why do you have him there if he's not supporting nobody...especially if the kids are NOT his.

Anonymous · Answer

i have to kids I'm stay home mom, two kids is hard to maintain, I cook when he gets home, I clean if he gets home, I can't just do anything with to kids, but if he so lazy and can't do anything, just devorce him, I feel sorry for you...

Anonymous · Answer

lol someone is desperate for a man in her life... Dumb the guy... I don't even know if I should refer to him as a guy...

TheCheshireCat · Answer

He should do his part, not everything, but should definitely contribute.  Is he trying to get a job?

kaseykahneno1 · Answer

I would dump him. I was in the same boat. It was terrible. Dumping him is less stressful.

bunny420 · Answer

He should help some how. Look for job/cook/clean/home maintenance.  Tell him to sort himself out or get out.

malekoniky · Answer

No. Not everything. And he should find himself a work.

Anonymous · Answer

are you supporting him financially? as in you pay for the bills, the food and he just lives off of you? that's not OK. either kick him to the curb or step up

randy4321 · Answer

I wish I had someone like you :P I wouldn't mind doing house work and all that stuff. But yeah yo should definitely get on him about it.

Guytalks · Answer

I have a question. Does he take care of your two kids all day or are they at school?

aloneinlove143 · Answer

why are you with him if he is not giving you his 50%? Im single, I work, I go to school, I do extra work on the side, I cook and clean for myself, I do my own laundry etc etc... you deserve better.

Anonymous · Answer

and you're with him because? seriously kick this lowlife out he's worthless and dead weight. he's just using you too

AnthonyAE · Answer

He should definitely help with house maintainability. It's not fair to you and your kids. Unless you can somehow manage to persuade him to help you - he's mot for you.

daswissbeats · Answer

Yes he should clean everything! If he doesn't find another man!

ihatework · Answer

correction: you have 3 kids, not 2.

tmlsmurfs · Answer

why isn't this guy out of your home yet?

Tphilly187 · Answer

not everything be he shouldbe willing to give a hand

Anonymous · Answer

No, that's really not on. I would hide his games. How old are the children? If they're small and not at school it's hard to get stuff done

destroyer · Answer

Sounds like a lazy dead beat or gold digger

ikarus · Answer

thats definitely not a real man...

zinclozenges · Answer

Get yourself another man.

crushsodacan · Answer

Dump his ass like yersterday's garbage!

Vasillilaw · Answer

Kick him out until he's ready to get serious.

Yeahhbro · Answer

I agree with you 100%

brianccc · Answer

Tell him to get a job?

DeanWillis · Answer

dump him.

Anonymous · Answer

wow, he seems like a keeper...

bondagechick69 · Answer

get rid of him

Anonymous · Answer

Not everything, most things.

Anonymous · Answer

Dump his broke ass!

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