Have you been raped/sexually assaulted/harassed?

[Anonymous]

Apparently, most women over the age of 16 will experience sexual harassment and over the age of 25 sexually assaulted.
Unfortunaly, it does seem true. I'm 15 and yet I've already been both sexually harassed and assaulted. Thankfully, I was never raped but it still stands. It's disgusting.
Also, in most documented cases of rape, it was a person close to the survivor (yes, survivor, because I refuse to call them victims. They are survivors). I can also atest to this since he was a "friend".
With this, I'm not saying that men aren't raped, unfortunally is something that happens to both sexes, but not with the same number of cases.
It's disgusting to think we are in the XXI century and we have Rape Culture.

[GFNimbuscloud]

I've been sexually molested by a close friend of the family, sexually assaulted by a woman (gave her a ride after she begged, and she grabbed my dick out of the blue while we were driving) and sexually assaulted by a closeted married man (invited me to a poker game, got me drunk, grabbed my dick after everyone else passed out). Guess I just have one of those faces. I've also had a couple of extremely uncomfortable kisses forced on me from drunk women at bars, but I'm not sure I'd consider that sexual assault. In my eyes it would've been if I'd asked them to stop, but they didn't, but that didn't happen.

The distinction between victim and survivor here seems totally arbitrary to me. Victim has no negative connotation whatsoever in my mind. It means an unfortunate thing out of your control happened to you. I suppose it's nice that you're passionate, but that's a really weird place to draw your battle lines, in my opinion. In what way is survivor better than victim? How are they distinct?

One of my friends is a social worker. I think you'd be surprised by the number of sexual abuse and abuse in general cases that he sees that are female to male.

I don't really care who it happens to more, however, that's not an important detail. Seems like you're marginalizing it though, implying it doesn't matter as much when it happens to men, because it happens to women so much more, if that's even true. That's pretty fucked to me.

Define rape culture. Rapes that happen inside of our culture? Technically, yes. I don't think that's anyone else's definition, but okay, if you want to say that, I won't argue.

The 'fact' that our culture endorses, advocates for, and facilitates rape? That's blatantly untrue. The vast majority of people, no matter their gender, revile rape. There have been cases of men getting accused of rape, the accusations being proven false; no not in an ambiguous, he-said, she-said sort of way, but to the point where the claims made against him were demonstrably inconsistent with reality; and they were still fired, harassed by police forces, and unable to find work. Rape is so frowned upon, a mere accusation can ruin your life. There's no such thing as rape culture.

[Asker]

I'm not saying that male rape is less important from female. I was just trying to state that there are less cases. I draw a line because victim implies helpless and weakness and we might have been victims when it happened but now we have been through it and are stronger so we are survivers. I'm very sorry that I made you feel like it didn't matter as much as if it had been a female. And yes, it's frowned upon. However, after the rape one of the first question will still be "what were you wearing?" "Were you drunk?"

[GFNimbuscloud]

Again, I think the amount of cases between genders are insignificant to the actual issue of the rapes occurring, and I'm not even sure the evidence supports that.

That still seems like a totally arbitrary choice of words to me. I do not give a damn what you call me. Calling me a molestation survivor, instead of a victim, does not empower me in any way, it doesn't help me cope in any way, it makes absolutely no difference to me what word you use. I tend not to use either. Instead of saying I was a "victim" or "survivor" of molestation, I'd just tell you I got molested. It's better to speak clearly and be direct anyway, and if we're going to ascribe magic powers to words, I'd rather not focus on either role. Let it be a thing that happened. It doesn't have to define me, or have a lasting impact on my life if I don't let it.

Frowned upon? Are you fucking kidding me? We don't ruin peoples careers and send them to jail over things that are frowned upon.

My best friend's sister and her friend came home and said they'd been gang-raped one night. You know what our first question was? "Holy shit, do you want us to call the cops?"

I don't think that's true, either. How many people have you known and/or heard of who have been raped, and what were the first things they were asked after? Depending on who they go to, I'm highly skeptical this is even common, most cops I know would probably try and comfort her, and encourage her to get a rape-kit while there's still evidence.

I'm not offended, I've long since come to terms with what's happened to me. I'm objecting to some of the things you say because I feel some of those opinions are unfounded, founded on shaky ground, and/or unnecessarily adversarial, and I'm hoping to show you a few things and perspectives you might not have considered. I have no animosity toward you whatsoever.

[Asker]

I can defenitly see your points.

[GFNimbuscloud]

Thanks, good talk.

[Anonymous]

Well I was molested when I was 13 by a damn doctor of all people
I've never told anyone because I thought it was partly my fault..
I just didn't think anyone would believe me and I was embarrassed too...

[Asker]

Oh dear. It was not your fault, at all! You shouldn't feel embarassed, you couldn't do anything to prevent it. Believe me, even if they didn't believe you, you should tell someone. Just get it off of your chest, you'll feel much better. If you aren't ready to tell your parents or a friend feel free to PM, I'll try to help you the best I can. You're worth it hon. Never blame yourself for something out of your coontrol.

[Opinion Owner]

Oki I'll pm u

[SueShe]

There has not been a single day since I have grown boobs that I am not sexually harassed in the street, be through persistent and inquisitive looks, catcalling, whistling or remarks with double meanings.

Being under permanent stress by those guys that basically are uneducated and have a low IQ and self-esteem is taking a toll among girls in a similar situation.

Would it not be nice to live in a world without guys just for one day in a year, just for the sake to be able to relax and be on vacation from harassment?

I vote for a motion to introduce a "guy must stay locked away for 24 consecutive hours each year", or at least all those that have a hard time staying in control of their level of testosterone

[babymels333]

i was going to say this anonymously but i decided to be open online about my experience for one of the first times, i was regularly assaulted by my uncle when i was younger. i was also raped two years ago. i suffer from severe ptsd. my parents have no idea about either situations because we don’t have a good relationship.

[Americanteengirl]

I hope you get away from them asap

[ecfresh]

Horrible to hear. You are a victim.

[Asker]

Have you tried to find a psychiatrist? I think it might help you. I can't tell you that everything will be fine but I can tell you that everyday, the more you remind yourself that you are not broken, you are not damaged, you are worth it, it gets a little better. It's not good to avoid thinking about it. Avoidance causes anxiety, I would know. Try to stay tuned with your emotions. It's going to hurt, I won't lie about it. And it's going to get worse before it gets better. But you CAN do it. It will never be perfect but it will get better, I promise.

[babymels333]

@americanteengirl i am away from both my abusers now. thankfully.

[babymels333]

@ecfresh i don’t even like to think of myself as a victim. i’m a survivor.

[ecfresh]

You are both, good attitude.

[SpookyKat]

Sigh, God Bless you girl. Heavens not blind to your suffering. They'll get there's...

[Anonymous]

Out of interest, exactly how were you "both sexually harassed and assaulted", by your "friend"? What constitutes (/constituted) 'sexual harassment', and 'sexual assault', in your opinion? Because given that we now have a PC SJW culture of self-victimization here in the West, to the extent that THIS is the first image you get for sexual harassment:

And THIS is legitimately a stance I've heard at least five different women state, out loud, in the past month alone:

One has to wonder- what ISN'T "sexual harassment/assault!", in your book? According to those statistics, commissioned by feminist groups with the explicit purpose of pushing their narrative of universal female sexual innocence and victimhood, and of white male 'rape culture!' patriarchal oppression, the definitions of sexual harassment and/or assault are typically so broad and all-encompassing as to be completely meaningless.

Take those cited in newly implemented legal guidelines, here in the UK, for example. According to them, any and all "Incidents against women that are motivated by an attitude of a man towards a woman and includes behaviour targeted towards a woman by men simply because they are a woman" is now categorized as "misogyny hate crime"; you've literally criminalized any and all men who look at you as women, and/or treat you like women. In other words, any and all men who have any human interaction with you whatsoever, or even so much as a clear enough line of sight for it to register in their minds that you're female. And you call this "Rape Culture!". GET, A, LIFE.

[ciitruskiwi]

When the fuck did she say any of that? When the fuck did she ever state that men simply speaking or looking at her is sexual assault or harassment. And what? Do you think a friend can't sexually assault or harass someone? She doesn't have to tell you the story, it's none of your fucking business but it is more than fucking possible that her friends groped her without her consent (sexual assault) and said sexual obscenities to her (sexual harassment). And for the fucking record, I have been groped without my consent and after me saying no multiple times by someone I considered a friend so yes a friend can sexual assault you. Go be a fucking idiot some else.

[Asker]

... You never did ask me what I thought that counted as harassement or rape. If you wanted to know then you could have asked and then, if I did say b. s, you could call out on me. However, this is not what happened so... But for your information, I'm talking about actual rape and assault

[Asker]

@ciitruskiwi thank you :) And I wish I could say it was only groping.

[ciitruskiwi]

@ILoveAnime anytime 🙂 and I'm really sorry that happened to you. Stay strong ❤️

[Asker]

@ciitruskiwi thanks :)

[Asker]

I'll try

[Opinion Owner]

"I'm talking about actual rape and assault"... But wait, hold up. Didn't you explicitly say, in your original question details, "Thankfully, I was never raped"? I did ask you exactly that, in my first two sentences of my answer. All you've done is clam up, and double back on your assertions of sexual victimhood, without providing even a hint of any details to back that up (beyond "I wish I could say it was only groping"- which only offers purely subjective conjecture). Have to say, it's not looking particularly convincing; not from an emotionally detached, exclusively objective standpoint.

[Asker]

How did I double up my word? I just stated that it had not been only groping. It was still assault but it was a further than the idea that gropping passes.

[Opinion Owner]

You said "I wish I could say it was only groping". Which, phrased in that manner, implies through purely subjective conjecture that it was (or you felt it was) something markedly worse than mere groping; but in actuality, is a statement which anyone could make about literally nothing at all, and would still technically qualify as wholly truthful, regardless of the circumstances. I could have someone else simply exist, or do something as trivial as not reply to a spam email, say that I'd been 'violated' and make that exact same statement; and I'd still pass any lie detector with flying colors, because that statement's so conjective that it can't possibly be false. Yes, I'm being a tad insensitive. But would you rather I threw a pity party for you instead? Thought not; like you said, "I refuse to call them victims. They are survivors". And I'm doing my best to show you the courtesy of treating you like one, rather than as a victim.

[Asker]

I don't want you to throw a pity party at me. I was merely trying to be truthful without telling what happened (still fresh, prefer to not go over it type of thing)

[yasii]

Harrased yes... I have a friend that was raped by her stepdad and I think most of my friends would say to beeing harrased too. It's pretty common unfortunatelly

[Asker]

Yeah...

[MemeMaester]

Nope
Ain't saying nun about this subject until I see clear definitions.
The definitions of rape and assault and harassment are way too blurry rn with all the feminist BS

[Asker]

Rape I would say is touching someone without their clothes on, without their permission, specially if there is any type of penetration (even fingers) Even fully clothed if it's like fondling of the lower parts ( if we go by this defenition then what happened to me was almost a rape. I'm so glad I got away. I was still touched down there but fully clothed and he was just able to poke. Disgusting). Assault is unwanted touching, in especific boobs and ass. Harassement is lack of personal space and talking implying sometjing when the person has already made clear that they are not interested and uncomfortable.

[MemeMaester]

Ok good enough although your definition of harassment is a bit lacking in my opinion.
No I myself have never been raped/assaulted/harassed, I never got in a situation where that might happen tbh.
But I do my best to help friends who had that happen to them

[Asker]

That's good

[MemeMaester]

Technically by your definition I've been harassed but it's not a good definition so assume I wasn't XD

[Asker]

Sexual harassement is harder to explain than other since the others are mostly physical while this is the state of being extremelly uncomfortable and/or afraid for your safety.

[Anonymous]

Yes I’ve been groped countless times by women at clubs and technically I’ve been raped before (I was semi councious drunk and she had sex with me while I was passing out and coming too) but i personally don’t count it as rape because even tho I wasn’t in a state to consent I did want it bad lol

[Asker]

As long as you know that you shouldn't feel bad about it then you do you :)

[Agape93]

I’m sorry you went through that. If you want to talk in private, we may.
I’ve been abused, assaulted and raped. But too many have had it far worse than I and I never diminish the trauma others have gone through

[Asker]

Oh Lord girl. I'm so sorry. I'm still having trouble dealing with it sometimes and mine in comparation is defenitly not as bad. Thank you for the offer and the same. If you want to talk about it hit me up in the DM's. Anytime, anyday. I promise I'll get back to you the sooner I see it.

[Agape93]

Don’t apologize hon.
Don’t diminish your trauma. What you went through is horrible and disgusting and should never happen again.
I’m here for you.

[Asker]

Thank you :) <3

[Agape93]

You’re welcome hon. You take care, alright?

Just a reminder. You are your own person, the sole arbiter of your life and master of your own Will. You’re stronger than you realize.

[Asker]

Thank you, for real. I hope you follow that principle yourself :)

[Agape93]

You’re welcome.
I do, I’m a practitioner of thelema. It’s one of our core tenets.

[Asker]

Thelema?

[Agape93]

It’s my religion.
Do as thou wilt shall be the whole of the law. love is the law, love under Will.

[Asker]

Oh that does sound quite nice :)

[Agape93]

It is. It’s about worshipping yourself, your potential and striving for your destiny. Your Will is your law.

[Asker]

That reminds me a bit of satanism (not the one portraied by the media, that's all bs). Actually satanism is about the worship of nature.

[Agape93]

I know. Satanists are more often than not good people.

[Asker]

I KNOW RIGHT! But media is so disrespectfull in how it portrays this religion. Then again, maybe I shouldn't be surprised. It IS the media

[Agape93]

I agree completely. In a predominantly Christian society to boot

[Asker]

Yeah. And they are so toxic and entitled.

[Agape93]

Indeed. I take it you are satanist?

[Asker]

Not really. Right now I'm not sure in what to believe. I believe there's something out there but who knows? My whole family is christian catholic but I've long decided that, in the way the church is, it defenetly isn't for me. And don't get me started on the bible. That whole thing looks like a bad written fanfic made by a 12-year-old with too much time. I would know, I decided to read it once. Bad experience

[Agape93]

Lol
I did the same thing around your age. And they say my religion is evil. Slavery, rape, genocide etc.

Take your time. There’s no need to rush it.

[Agape93]

Just make sure whatever you pick, you can be alright with it’s best and darkest teachings. Don’t cherry pick like Christians do.

[Asker]

Yeah :)

[Agape93]

:) good girl
I have to get off here, I’m going to get back to reading for a while. Shoot me a dm if you want to continue later :)

[Asker]

Thanks! :) Tho probably tomorrow, I might it sleep in a while, It's almost midnight here hahaha But who knows? I don't. My sleep schedule is weird, lord hahaha

[Agape93]

I understand that. I have no set schedule

[Asker]

Hahaha

[Ámayas_20]

Yes, although the statistics you're talking about aren't true. Most women won't be sexually assaulted.

[Asker]

An unwanted slap in the ass is assault.

[Ámayas_20]

I think to call that sexual assault is ridiculous. I don't see how that's relevant but still, to call that sexual assault is taking away from real sexual assault.

[Asker]

True, so I suppose a grope.

[Ámayas_20]

I really don't know why you're doing this but okay, proper groping is of course sexual assault.

[Asker]

I'm just asking because somtimes people normalise things that they shouldn't. I did it and look where it got me :(

[Ámayas_20]

To be honest that isn't the problem in today's society, people are oversensitive about sexual assault. Of course actual sex crimes are disgusting believe me I know but people really do need to chill.

[Asker]

Maybe it's because it's still fresh for me.

[Ámayas_20]

maybe.

[Americanteengirl]

Pretty sure it’s 100% true it’s not hard at all to find a female who’s been sexually assaulted. I made a poll about this and most women said yes they were sexually assaulted.

[Asker]

It's awful.

[Americanteengirl]

Yes this is why I think the people who complain about feminism are truly stupid

[Asker]

Yeah.

[Americanteengirl]

And don’t forget about #Metoo people complain about that like women aren’t getting sexually assaulted left and right.

[Asker]

True. While it's probably that some starting lieng later on, the first ones and the reason for the movement was very real.

[Americanteengirl]

What? People have been lying. People will always lie. That will never change. Point is that the overwhelming majority of people in #Metoo have been sexually harassed.

[Asker]

Exacly

[ChefCurry]

I've had older women kiss me when I was 15. My friends mom did shit with when I was sleeping and I was like 12. So many different things. People are literally insane if they dont think it happens to guys too.

[Asker]

Unfotunally, it's something that both genders experience :(

[ChefCurry]

I want a metoo movement

[ciitruskiwi]

Multiple times throughout my life. It's disgusting how many women actually go through it.

[ciitruskiwi]

And you're right, we aren't victims. We're survivors.

[Asker]

Yes, to the point where it's taken as a joke. Teens and younger groping or slapping a girl in the ass? It's normal, boys will be boys, they're just bold. A girl was raped? Well, what type of clothes was she wearing? Jesus, it's disgusting

[ciitruskiwi]

It really is. I've known girls who have been raped while they're wear sweats. Not even close to being revealing. We need more education. Rape is about power not about being drunk, in the wrong place, or wearing certain clothes.

[Asker]

Yeah! And when it's children? Oh I'm SURE they were wearing PROVOCATIVE CLOTHES. Honestly, so disgusting

[ciitruskiwi]

Right? The ignorance of some people is baffling.

[Brokenheartedx]

Male rapes will be higher but most go unreported... The highest number of male is is vulnerable adults such as young offenders and homeless

Often goes unreported

Yes I was 16 by 2 so called friends in a shed while drunk and on drugs...

[Just_a_human]

I'm glad that's never happened to me. I would probably be emotionally damaged.

[Asker]

You don't get "damaged". You get a few cracks, they'll never be completly fixed but everyday it gets a little better.

[Just_a_human]

I didn't say anyone else would be, I was saying I would probably be.

[Asker]

I don't think you would. Sure, it was going to be bad before it resembled good but... You're worth it. You can do it.

[Just_a_human]

No dude... I literally hate to be touched

[Asker]

Me too, that's why it hit so hard

[100lbguy]

Kinda by both genders, a group of older girls made me uncomfortable (they were 16-17 and I was only 12), a old guy nearly sexually harassed me but thankfully it didn't happened.

[Asker]

Oh good. I'm glad for you :)

[TonyMetal_86]

Yeah, a girl shouldn't be raped or sexually assaulted, i'll wait for you to become 18, marry you and make you my housewife than r*pe you everyday 😂

For sure you will love it... women love being raped, but only by their men, they have this rape fantasy but for sure no girl should be raped by a stranger or for real.

[IloveFood702]

Wow did nobody else see this crap? Sir, there’s something wrong with you.

[TonyMetal_86]

@IloveFood702 why there's something wrong with me and why it's crap?

Maybe it's crap for you but not for other women, don't make me flood you with kink about girls who have a fetish abiut rape... wishing to be raped by their own men... for fun ofc!

And watch your language little girl!

[Asker]

Then it's not really a rape, sir. I get what you mean but what those women are talking about is roleplay. No woman wants an actual rape.

[TonyMetal_86]

Ofc and no sane man will agree to see a girl being raped...

When a girl gets married, she feels a lot more comfortable because she know that she have a man who takes good care of her and protect her... also when a girl walks with her husband on the street, she won't be catcalled or anything, she will feel comfortable having her man with her...

So yeah it'a only a role play, which they will both enjoy it... such as hearing the wife telling her husband "rape me more, harder" hahaha...🙂

[IloveFood702]

You’re 100% weird. Also guys have tried to mess with my mom in front of my step father so, yea having a husband ain’t gonna stop anything.

[TonyMetal_86]

@IloveFood702 yeah if he's a wimp, he ain'y going to stop sh*t, maybe one day if you will walk with me, we will see if anyone catcall you or even look at you in an impolite way, not all malea are REAL MEN...

By the way i'm happy that i'm weird, i hope you don't have a problem with it...

[softwhelks]

I have never been sexually assaulted or harassed. I have had some sexual comments on the internet but it doesn’t bother me that much to be considered harassment.

[theWhalers]

Assaulted yes but luckily nothing further
I see this shit way too often. It’s horrifying

[Asker]

Yes it is.

[theWhalers]

Hopefully you never go through it

[theWhalers]

Never mind i re read your statements :(

[Asker]

Unfortunally, it's true :'(

[theWhalers]

Are you holding up well? If you want to talk you can send me a dm for privacy

[Asker]

Thank you :) I'm... more or less. It's still very fresh and the fact that it was so short of being rape (or what I count as rape) really disturbs me but everyday it gets a little better.

[theWhalers]

I’m glad it’s getting better and it didn’t get to that point. If you need to talk I’m here

[Asker]

Thank you :)

[theWhalers]

Anytime

[Reddwolf]

I had a good female friend who had it all done to her and I was her security and comfort

[Asker]

I'm glad she had such a good friend to be there for her

[Reddwolf]

I even ran her step-dad and mother out of town

[Asker]

Oh dear lord, her stepdad? Honestly, so disgusting

[Reddwolf]

Yep and I found out that he was doing since she was little and her mother acted like she didn't care

[Asker]

I'm horrified but not surprised, unfortunally

[Reddwolf]

That's why she came to me for comfort and safety

[Asker]

Yeah, I assume you're close friends so she felt safe with you.

[Reddwolf]

Yes we were

[Asker]

That's good

[name_is_eric]

Boohoo. My primary school p. e. teacher used to slap my rear end at the end of the class, yet I'm not moaning about it.
We don't have a rape culture here in the West. More so, rape culture would be the fact, that women can get away with rape. Men who are raped get ridiculed, but women who get raped are made to be the center of everything.

But I get it, you're still so young to understand the world. All of this are blown out of proportion.

[Asker]

How can you be so sure? I'm not being dramtic, this are the stats that I saw. And what happened to me was not just a grope so I believe that in this case I can talk from experience. I also never said that a men being raped was less important than a women. It's just as important and awful.

[Anonymous]

Its from there being no way to teach guys or girls. heaven forbit the school system do something good besides lightly suggest a condom.

[Asker]

Unfortunally, that's true.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

I've been sexually harassed by gay guys in grade school

[Poormanscomedian]

Because you are pretty and you need to change the way you walk.

[buttcrackjoe]

These days any time there is a non-recriprocated sexual interest its Rape/harassment. These SJW terms have become so diluted that true rape crimes (as defined by law) get put under the same ubrella as a dude who gives you a creepy vibe.

[Malik00]

The problem is the definition of what counts as sexual harassment and assault has become ridiculously broad. If me tapping you on the shoulder counts as sexual assault, that's frankly my cue to never speak to you again.

[Asker]

Oh, no I mean actuall inappropriate touching (groping, touching the lower part through clothes etc)

[Malik00]

Ok good. As long as it's something explicitly inappropriate.

[Anonymous]

Several times. Step mom just didn't give a damn. Hair brushes up the keester while nibbling on the little fella that's tucked away and everything.

[Asker]

OML. How have you been?

[Opinion Owner]

Just a rotten b:tch.

[Opinion Owner]

I've been a b:tch!

[Asker]

Wait what? I mean, I get it, she's defnetly a bitch for doing that to you but?

[bangyourhead]

We don’t have a rape culture. What gave you that idea?

[Asker]

I would love the sarcasm if what happened to me wasn't so fresh in my mind.

[bangyourhead]

Just because you had a traumatic experience - which I’m very sorry for - I hope you did the right thing and told the proper authorities/your parents - that doesn’t mean we live in a rape culture.

[Asker]

How can you say that when we live in a world where if a girl was raped while drunk or drugged people think she was "asking for it". When the first thing a lot of people ask is "what were you wearing?". When the survivors are shamed and told not to talk about it and act like it never happened?

[bangyourhead]

Survivors aren’t shamed. I, for example, just told you to go get help and go to authorities. We prosecute rapists, it’s the 2nd most heinous crime in our society next to murder. That’s why.

[Asker]

In some parts there is still shaming of the survivor.

[bangyourhead]

That doesn’t make it a rape culture. And shaming survivors is the minority.

[ecfresh]

Yes I have been sexually harassed.

[LuvAsh]

I was raped at a young age

[Asker]

How have you been?

[LuvAsh]

I'm good tbh ig since it happened at a young age i dont think it effected me THAT much but I blamed myself for everything. I feel like the der I get the more it effects me tho bc i understand what actually happened

[Asker]

Oh hon, you're defenitly not the one at fault in this. But if you're good then that's great

[Anet1256]

Harassed and assaulted. Thankfully not raped

[24brownish]

Whaaat? I didn't know.. if u r online.. text me

[Anet1256]

@24brownish its ok, long time ago

[24brownish]

I left u a message if u r done with the celebration :)

[winterfox10]

Yes, I'm sad to say that I have been.

[Anonymous]

Yes. 3/3

[Asker]

How have you been doing?

[Opinion Owner]

Should have dealt with it when it happened instead of trying to bury it all.

[Asker]

Understadable. I tried to do that but fortunally or unfortunally because I already had severe anxiety I couldn't keep it in and had to talk to someone.

[aa180]

Yeah, and it turned me on.

[Asker]

... then we are not talking about the same thing.

[Poormanscomedian]

More MeToo bull crap stats. Women lie about rape in half the cases.

[Asker]

I didn't

[Kazzza]

Nope

[MarketData]

By men? No. By women? Less than I'd like.

[Kinogo]

So far, no.

[tartaarsaus]

No, I haven't