How do you flirt with a girl through facebook chat or text?

[Anonymous]

Please help this girl is flirting with me and I don't know what to say back to her on facebook chat. Please help

[IceDude]

That is really easy. Okay – so, you are online. And SHE is online. And you are waiting, and waiting and waiting – to grow the balls to approach her. OR you are harassing and boring her to death with dumb questions that will get her to IGNORE you, BIG TIME. Either way – you’re f***ing up. Either because you are doing NOTHING or because what you’re doing you’re doing it the wrong way.

It’s very important that you TAKE INITIATIVE. If you get signs from a girl that she’s interested, at least a bit – start a conversation. Don’t wait for her to fall from the SKY – she probably won’t. Yes, if SHE sends you a Friends request and initiates contact, and you like her, keep the ball rolling, help her out. If, on the other hand (which is the case with most guys) she didn’t initiate contact – you should give it a try. This leads us to a simple question -

What the hell should you talk about, and how should you start chatting with her?

It’s not so complicated. Just don’t get scared sh*tless. If you are worried about what you should talk about, then you either a) have no imagination b) don’t do anything with your life. You have to DO stuff (travel, work out, study, have a hobby, walk a dog, do sports, learn a language, have a passion – ANYTHING) so that you have a certain topic. Avoid talking about negative stuff. She doesn’t give a f*** about your job, or some other BORING stuff. Don’t talk about being sick, bored, feeling like crap – or ANY other negative sh*t that leads nowhere.

Be different by being more positive than all the other chumps hitting on her. If you can leave her with a smile after chatting with you, she might end up wanting to wake up next to you. Or at least share a bed for a while So here’s what you can chat about: talk sh*t. Yep – that’s all. Talk sh*t. If you don’t know how – practice. Don’t ask her PERSONAL questions before you talked sh*t a lot. Talk about her DOG, your dog, whatever. Laugh about it. See what you have in common. Don’t get into politics, religion and other complicated subjects BEFORE you sleep with her. Don’t even THINK about arguing with her – the point is to make your first chat FUN. That’s it.

[Gregs]

you don't want to spend too much time on facebook, get number, get a date and progress the relationship as soon as possible, read story in my profile about "progressing a relationship"

[Asker]

i have her number and I just need to get a new phone. Said that we would go to the mall togethr she said ya. ;)

[shorty75]

pk well first you need to know if yur intrested in her and there is a lot of ways to flirt with someone threw text or chat is actually more easier than in person thrust me. when you chat with her use emoticons and text manipulation to spice up the conversation.

Ask her questions, but don't answer every question she asks you try to have fun and never stop being playful.

[Anonymous]

tease her, that's the best way if you're going to do it virtually instead of online

[snackeyg]

The exact same way you would in person.

[Asker]

alright haha

[JewFroJoey]

Only without the touching or smiling or inflections or eye contact or any other form of nonverbal communication that Facebook chat gets rid of.

[snackeyg]

lol Yeah. I don't know anything about that stuff anyway.

[Asker]

Exactly thank you jew fro joey

[chandrashekhar]

starting with good chatting

[Dpecho]

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